I'm vain! And it's good to be one

Hiya beamer, When just for once my Hair came out right without it flying away all over the place I took a Photo of it to prove that I can have manageable hair yes even me. I like to see the way my Hair looks when I have it cut. Don´t feel that I am vain really I like to look much better at the moment my Hair is way too long for my liking but the Hairdresser´s are miles away from here. Will have to sort that out soon or it will grow down to my feet. We all like to feel and look good so I see nothing wrong with that at all.

I don't see you as vain...you just like to look good; there is nothing wrong with that. It's good to care about one's appearance up to a degree. I was very vain as a young man, to the point of extremes, I used to walk around in a fog because I hated to wear glasses, and I used to add blond streaks or highlights to my natural medium brown hair, and wear very bright and striking items of clothing...I loved attracting atention to myself. These days, I'm not like that. I wear glasses; my hair is natural; I wear relatively sober clothes. But I still like to look good; and if I had more money, I'd spend more on clothes, and get my hair cut more often. Right now, it's pretty long, but I'd rather it be short. As I say...there's nothing wrong with wanting to look nice, clean, tidy, smart, nothing at all.

I don't disagree that it's nice to be vain, I personally am not that much. I think there is such a thing as being okay, and being overly so, a fine line seperating the two. Its true when you look good, you feel good. Nothing wrong with that. As long as you're healthy, and aren't doing it for the sake of apperances, then I say go for it, but on the reverse of that if you start spending money you don't have to stay vain, get some help please.

Vanity when in excess can be bad because the person will only think of nothing but himself. In other words, it is this vanity that makes a lot of people selfish. I know that I also have some amount of vanity, I like to look good too,but I know that the world does not only revolve around myself.

hi there, i don't think getting a haircut make one person vain unless he does many other things like what you have mentioned. my friend's older brother, i can say is vain. he does all that except for getting his eyebrows done. he also stays in the bathroom longer than us girls because he does more things. LOL. like soaking and using milk salts and exfoliate. but yeah you are right, just as long as you feel gooooood about yourself

hello beamer88, I think it is fine to b vain, because that only means that we are taking care of our body, and our health is the only thing that we have that cannot be robbed from us and that is the best investment in life.

Absolutely! Vanity is not wrong. We just wanted to feel and look good. How we take care ourselves reflects on how we take care our loved ones. Vanity also boosts our self-confidence and self-esteem.