do you have such type of colleague ?

hi jenintn you are so right and I saw that even in my own life but oddly I was not the one to react but my boss, the head nurse.I did not know if when my fiance and I got married but my boss was angry at me for taking away my husband as her potential mate. it seems she had staked him out for herself. but he had never dated her or even flirted with her. He was friendly as he was with all the worked with but I had never seen him show any real interest in her. but after I was married and finally got pregnant she sent me on the really hard to handle cases, and here I was almost nine months pregnant. I was on my knees on this huge woman's bed bathing her when her brother a staff doctor came in.He had a fit when he saw I was huge with child and took me to the head nurse and insisted she put me on paid maternity leave. so since he was chief of staff she obeyed him.but come the next monday my poor husband was handed a pink slip.It said our policy is not to employ two people who are married to each other.Pick up your final pay check. Oh I was furious but the law was the law. She was jealous of me, green'with it and took it out on my husband.She did this again later to a married couple and she had had the hots for the man. He was a really great orderly and we all liked working with him, He got fired and his wife a total ditzy dame was kept on. I liked her but she really was a strange person.I did not return to the hospital after our first was born which was good b ecause I got pregnant right away again and had two babies in 11 months.WE never did work together again in the same work place. too many problems arise and someone usually gets hurt too.

There are certainly alot of scenarios to consider. I don't think we can control who we fall in love with but it being in the workplace sure does have a way of complicating things..especially when you have a boss that has the hots for your guy. That's one of the worst case scenarios! I'm glad that you both moved on and were happy together afterwards..the less bad people and bad things in our lives the better.

HI HATLEY & JENINTN i just read your story here and i am amazed this is something new to me and compare to your story this is nothing what i have narrated here.....hats off to you and to your husband.......you must be happiest couple of the world.......and thanks to jenintn only because of her i came to know this.......and this is really strange........