Which is more important love or money??

India
January 30, 2012 2:04am CST
It is undoubtedly true that money is the most powerful aspect to be successful in life.But to gain more money is it wise decision to get a new girl and leave the original love behind? Confused! need your suggestion .
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12 responses
@arjunm (439)
• India
30 Jan 12
i think money is more important..... i know some people thought i am very love against man but its not... i believe in reality .....
• India
30 Jan 12
You are very much realistic.You have a god view towards life.thank you arjunm.
@webearn99 (1742)
• India
30 Jan 12
Life is all about balance, Suman. What will one do with all the money if there is no one to share it? Would it not be unfair if one cannot provide for a loved one? Both are equally important and ironically, sometimes, one may have to compromise on one issue to nurture the other. The happiest human in this world is one who has managed to balanced both of these issues, amongst many others, which may be unrelated but influence life.
• India
30 Jan 12
Exactly so,but how many of us can do this?This is the most important thing to be happy as well as successful.Nice comment.Have a nice day.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
For me, both of them are important. You will never be happy if you only have lot of money but you don't have friends and family or partner in your life. All of use need someone in our life. We also need money because if we only have love, how can our love one have a food to eat if we don't have money. We also need to be a hardworking person for our love one.
• Hungary
31 Jan 12
for me both are important to me thats all what i can say.
• Kenya
30 Jan 12
Love is more important. I made money and met many new girls. I forgot about the girl who was there for me. When the money was gone, so were the girls.
• India
30 Jan 12
well said rubbershot,I must keep it in my mind too.
• China
31 Jan 12
For me,love is more important.To be honest,I don't have a gf now though I'm 19 years,but it's clear to me that love can bring money if we work together .
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
31 Jan 12
It's pretty hard to be poor. I question why you'd need a different partner to become rich, unless that person was very spendthrift or refused to work.
@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
30 Jan 12
Love is much more important in my opinion. Money really can't buy everything. It can get you love, or anything like that. I would always chose love over money. I'd much rather love than money.
@eunife (165)
• Philippines
30 Jan 12
money cannot buy happiness or love therefore you cannot sell happiness or love for money. getting a new girl for the sake of money is not at all a "wise decision". It could be a "smart" move though. I hope you get the difference from there. who knows, you will learn to love the rich girl while the love you leave behind will find somebody that is much better than you are. It all depends on your goals and motives. just remember that what goes around comes around.
• United States
30 Jan 12
No, not at all. Love and money can go hand in hand. But the couple must be determined to make both of them happen. I must admit though that there are several men out there who would marry a woman for her money. I know a few of them in real life. To be honest, I do not have respect for such men. My boyfriend has one guy friend who is marrying a girl just because she has good job and owns a home. But he is a big cheater. He always cheats behind her back.
• Philippines
30 Jan 12
I am also confused with your question suman. :) Correct me if I am wrong but are you asking if it is okay to have a relationship with a woman just because she has a lot of money? First of all, money is not what we need in order to be successful in life. Our skills and knowledge are our main weapons in battling for success. Anyway, let us go back with your question. In these times when all countries are somehow affected by the financial crisis experiencing by the Economic Giants, it is compulsive for me to think about marrying a rich man and kill him when I already got all of his money. Of course I am just kidding. :D But that thought had occurred to me when I was still a kid (without the killing part) until I realized that there are more important things in life aside from money. Things that we forgot how to appreciate because we are focused on the material things. So long story short, my answer would be no. It is not a wise idea to have a relationship with someone just because s/he has money. We cannot equate any amount of money to true love. It is not good to take advantage of other people especially in terms of love.
@Nic421 (2)
• United States
30 Jan 12
Money isn't everything. They say money can be the root of all evil. Well it's nice to have money and lots of it, does it justify being truly happy. You can't buy love. What's better then being in love? Think of all the perks of being in love and compare that to having lots of money. Money can be wonderful at first but in reality it can destroy a person. Think of all the people who have become rich or come into a large sum of money. The first they want to do is spend, spend, spend. There are a few who are smart about it and put it away and invest it. Don't get me wrong though. I like having money just as much as the next guy but love is the ultimate reward in life.