Responses to discussions

@sishy7 I am assuming by now this isn't a concern for you. You seem to be pretty popular now.

Hello shishy, It hardly matters how much response we get on the discussion as there are lot of reason for it the thing which matters is how much we care for the responses as i have gone through some of your discussions and found that you don't comment back to the people which is not good you must do it not only to earn but also acknowledge people that you really read their responses. Moreover try to start discussion which interest people more try not to start discussions which violates guidelines or give a doubt to people that it may be deleted for violating discussion. Lastly you should respond to other's discussion too so that they may participate in your discussion as most of the people like to participate in the discussions of people who they know participate in their discussions,try to make friends and interact with them surely when you start interacting with your friends they will certainly don't miss your discussions.

Ten months later and... you have travelled further now and know not to post new topics in the 'general' interest. You know also to keep coming back with comments that further the topic. You also know that it doesn't matter whether your topic receive responses or not because it is not how many, but how useful they were. I love looking back through older topics, as you can see

Dont worry you make lots of friends then they will get the notification of your discussion then they will respond on it. When I checked the discussion is good then immediately respond on it.

A lot has to do with how many discussions are being posted at the same time, I too have noticed the same thing but I don't worry about it, I just keep responding and commenting on whatever I find that's interesting ..... this is the first time I've seen this discussion

I agree with owlwings that it is not really about the number of responses, it's about the quality and you can always have a long conversation with those few responses if you try to further the discussion and I also have the same observation that some of you discussions has the "possibility" to be deleted for some violations or the title sounds like it will be and that makes our fellow mylotters hesitate to respond in your discussions. Anyways if you really want to have more responses this are just some suggestions base on my own experience here in mylot..I hope it could help you - add more friends , because some mylot users who don't have that much time to spend in mylot only check and respond to their friends' discussions - if you start a discussion as much as possible reply to as many responses as you can, most members like it when the discussion creator comment back to their response - make the title of your discussion more interesting/appealing so it would get the attention of mylot members - before you start a discussion always check if the topic you are about to post have been discussed before because mylotters hesitate responding to topics that they think have already been discussed before - participate in other members discussions by giving quality responses and try to have a good conversation (it helps) - if you spend a lot of time in mylot engage yourself in long conversation with some friends so they will be more acquainted with you and if they enjoy the interaction with you they will probably check out if you have new discussion/s - give more details and information in your discussions so that readers can easily relate and understand what the discussion is really all about and if they do, they will probably respond to it

It has something to do with the choice of topics. This is not easy to choose. You have to explore which interests are well-liked here. I have noticed that topics related to money and jobs are interesting to mylotters. I tried to discuss music and I got only 2 responses. So, once again careful choice of topics is important Secondly, the way you introduce the topic. Many mylotters simply ask questions directly. Put forward something that is later related to your questions.

good day sishy7, with regard to your query, don't think that you did something wrong as to why you are not getting the quantity you have set for the responses. hence, it is but normal. aside from that, be also open minded if your discussion does not have any response at all. as in it will just pass and the response remain nil. just continue to post quality topics and for sure you will get a tremendous response in the future. happy mylotting friend.

In this discussion, you are getting 5+ response, now happy?? response depends on your topics or the way you ask, if its easy to understand people response quickly, if it's out of mind. they leave it. So better keep things simple which saves people's time.

Yeah, sometime we feel suck, when other people give less response to our started discussion. There are many reason such as not interesting topic or those topics often show on other discussion and the topic not related to many people. make useful discussion or share about information.....will make other people give good responses.

I think you dont have friends add to see your post,or your topics did not see or recognize it easy or maybe people are busy no time to response or etc... many ways

hi sishy, its probably not your topics or neither is it that people don't think you are that interesting... I am considered a newcomer also, and sometimes people are just available to respond to post...I've noticed that sometimes during the day, when responses are rare...so I do most of my posting afternoon and at night...I have found that most people have nice responses to post... But its more or less the times your post..Don't get discouraged, just try posting at different times to see if that works for you.. Good luck and welcome to a wideworld family forum...

I bet you're getting a lot of response here! This is the start! LOL. So far so good you're doing just fine. There are a lot of good people here to give you some advice. Well, If you want to get more responses, make sure that what you post is something interesting. Usually some people post things that they've experienced, they ask some questions, or just about anything. I myself, doesn't always start discussion, I'm more like a responder. LOL. I'd like to response than starting discussions. LOL.

Sometimes I really want to creat a discussion,but I don't know I should write.I couldn't find something to write.Writing to me is so difficult.I have created several discussions so far.The frist one have more than five responses.

Hi There Sishy, I just glanced through your discussions prepared to give you an honest answer as to why you are not getting responses. Well, I'm giving you an honest answer...I really don't know. I had expected that you, being new, maybe started some discussions that were against guidelines or something but they were not. They seem to be valid and interesting discussions. All I can think is that they are getting shuffled down and not seen by users. Many just go to the top page of the top discussions etc. Hang in there. Sometimes a discussion will re-gain life. It takes only someone to stumble upon it and respond to get it back up there in top page of the new or recent discussions. Don't get discouraged. Looks like you are doing just fine! Welcome to Mylot!!