Its time to move on...

India
January 30, 2012 5:00am CST
After facing the challenges and losing something in life we say "which was suppose to go has gone now its time to move on" Do we really take it seriously I mean do we really move on in our life leaving everything behind, In case we moved on so at what extent we took that seriously again at some point we repeated our words. I am not sure of others but for me yes whenever i said its time to move on i have invited another situation for me, but believe me by saying this it has given me a positive energy to move ahead, have you ever said Its time to move on
9 responses
@sayo13 (414)
• India
30 Jan 12
for me till date life has been a journey of ups and downs in life. many a times in life when we do not have any control on the happenings and circumstances we do need to "move on " with our life. it just we all know that nothing will wait for us nor anything can be changed for the time being - life will go on and we need to. i believe that its difficult to say "move on" and within a few seconds you deleted everything and moved on.its even difficult to hold on to something as life never turns back nor gives you many chances .so in my believe whenever i had said "move on" i could not have really moved on completely.i still do remember my past issues and started feeling low though i can not deny that i had stayed on the same place as before. everyone has their own way of "keeping up" with life.
• India
30 Jan 12
thanks sayo and absolutely yes I was expecting this answer its true many of them do not make justice with the decision to move on at some extent we start thinking of past again thanks again sayo
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
30 Jan 12
You move on, unless you give up. We all do it in a different way. But this doesn't mean we forgetor we move on in the same way. Life experiences do change people so if you move on it will always be with this baggage of experiences. I don't say it with big things but I do say it after I been seriously ill for longer and depressed. I allow myself for a while and then I kick my a.. and say it's time again to move on and make the best out of it.
• India
30 Jan 12
good to hear friend that you motivate yourself to move on always, keep going mate even I am in the same race and thanks for your contribution
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
30 Jan 12
good day imwithimran, well, your main topic is the line that i used to say since the time i came back seven months ago. due to the pressure and stress that i always got from where i lived right now, i always tell to myself, i need to moved on now.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
30 Jan 12
moving on is a choice one has to take to mend a broken heart or it could be the process of evaluating one's life events probably on the negative side and then to dwell on keeping a right path towards improving oneself or gaining freedom or simply changing a lifestyle. either which way, moving on relatively means going on straight ahead and make a path towards your destiny..
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
31 Jan 12
I do have motivations to do so.I told myself to be tough and i do still have dreams ahead of me when i feel depressed.Anyway,be a better person and have dreams in our life,and that's a lifegoal and only with this can we realize our value in our lifetime.
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
31 Jan 12
Hi imwithimran, I certainly have been in a situtation where the only choice was to move on.... I will say this, once we make the choice to 'move on', we must do just that..the more we keep pondering over the choice the more of a delima it becomes...Once you 'move on', the situtation will seem like a burden lifted off your shoulders...I am only speaking from experiences... Once the decision is made you can then spend that energy on something else...and keep it moving....
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
30 Jan 12
For me, moving on is not about forgetting a situation...but accepting that it happened and accepting a new chapter in our lives.
@safety69 (592)
• Taiwan
30 Jan 12
I tryed the harder I can to get what I want , once I see its not for me , I move on, but , if is a relationship , I do , I move on , but , I remembered those good moments we had together , even I dream sometimes about these old loves. Then , when I think of it , I just say to myself , what is going on?? thats passed, so , I should just leave it behind. I think we can not avoid to have those memories deep inside and take them out once in a while.
• Kenya
30 Jan 12
I've been in several relationships in the past that have not worked out. Most of them were hard to move on from, but whenever i found the strength to move on, i never looked back.