Negative Friends Do You Have Many?
@LovelyChris71 (63)
United States
January 30, 2012 8:15pm CST
Haters and negative people like to keep the smart people down. My neighbor fronted and pretended to be nice when we met. She's full of hate because she's not financially sucessful like her family and her ex tried to kill her and abused her alot.
She kisses tail to wealthy people in our building she cleans for. Recently I gave her food and she disrespected me by accusing me of breaking the elevator that was open on my floor all day. 1 day she accused me of putting bugs in her apartment. Than later she said the neighbors might have done it. She is filthy and can't stop running up debt, insulting the less fortunate, and she drinks and smokes alot. She's heavy. When I said she could have broke the elevator she's so big. She told me she was hurt and her comments are in the past. I told her she insults every1 else so I thought she was strong enough to take it.
Now when I'm doing better she leaves me hate notes putting me down. She accused me of sitting in massage chairs she bought her abusive ex. I mentioned the guy lures victims into them, he's pushy. I detour outside to avoid him. He lives nearby and hangs out on my old route and grabs me if he sees me. I never sat in his chairs. I never got close to the guy long.
My neighbor has issues and lives in denial blaming every1 else for her drama and lifestyle. she says she knows more cuz she's older. She yaps and never lets me get a word in edgewise. I refuse to deal with her anymore and left her a voicemail saying so. Her notes and texts are being ignored.
2 responses
@chiyosan (30181)
• Philippines
31 Jan 12
well we cannot be away with people who are not negative... people comes in different types too.. we meet good friends and we also meet some not really good ones.
I'd say i have had my share of the good and the negative friends.. and well i just stay as far away as them as possible... i admit though that i can be sometimes negative too on my friends - like i am too direct but that is just about it.
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
1 Feb 12
Well calling these people friends is obviously a stretch. But yes, I have had to deal with these people in my lives. I don't know if they think that they are my friends or not, but they most certainly are not. They are the type of people who are rather going to be just a drain on life and are among the most obnoxious people in the world.
Then again, these people are best avoided, but they are going to be almost always going to lurk around. That is really just going to be something that is going to just frustrate me. I try and remain patience, but these types of people are rarely going to be easily avoided and they are a test of my patience beyond all belief. Hopefully these people become fewer between.