Who take the initative?
By huanran
@huanran (50)
China
January 31, 2012 12:59am CST
I am confused and a little bit unhapppy cause that a few of friends, always I take the initiative to contact with them, otherwise no info from them. It sounds that they don't make effors to keep in touch. Sometimes I just wait, but always end up with I gave up and sent messages to them.
How about you?
Are they really my friends?
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2 responses
@eunique317 (347)
• Philippines
31 Jan 12
Sometimes, I get to think the same. But then, there are times when I feel that if nobody does the communicating part then perhaps the lines of communication will truly be curtailed. What if they were also thinking the same thing? IF nobody makes a move then that would be a sad, sad thing. So, I still make an effort from time to time to communicate with them.
@SarahAlyx (181)
• United States
31 Jan 12
That doesn't neccessarily mean they aren't your friends, but I know how you feel. I always have to get ahold of my "friends". But here recently I have quit getting ahold of those people that never text back or never try to get ahold of me. It turns out they still don't try to get ahold of me. So I haven't talked to those "friends" in a long time. Although I still consider them my friends I don't consider them close friends like the ones that I keep in contact every day or every week. Hope this helps :)
