how can one fall in "love" on the first sight??
By sayo13
@sayo13 (414)
India
January 31, 2012 4:11am CST
well it has been a real mystery for me all through my life that "one can like somebody on first sight, one can feel attracted to somebody on first sight, one can hate somebody on first sight" , but how can one fall in "love" with somebody on the very first sight..??
as far as love is concerned it can happen in the true sense when you have the proper understanding of the person and his liking ,disliking,etc etc.
i really d not believe in such stuff of falling in love on the first sight of the person.well at-least not by applying proper logic.
a person can hardly like someone, or at-least develop a lust for someone but without knowing what he/she really is i do not think that any body can develop such deep feeling of love on the first appearance or sight.
what you friends think about this, please share with me??
8 responses
@imwithimran (149)
• India
1 Feb 12
I dont know about love at first sight, but when i was in college i seen a girl who was very pretty from that day i don't know why whenever i arrive in college my eyes start searching her, i like to see her everyday and one fine day she came to me and asked do you love me immediately i said yes, so for me that was my love at first sight
@sayo13 (414)
• India
2 Feb 12
hello imwithimran,
sure yours is an example of "love at first sight".
well you have developed a liking for her on the first sight.
but have you proved yourself that you are in love? well that is very important since in case of human psychology "people can have attraction and develop a feeling of being with the thing or person" can happen to anyone of us and whether you are really in love can be proved by the fact that "that particular thing or person should have no substitution".
well i believe "love" have got true deeper meaning and much much deeper understanding..the more you will go deep the more strongly you can be clear of your feeling.
all the best.
@imwithimran (149)
• India
3 Feb 12
Not only you even i believe love is endless like sky and much deeper than ocean. I am in relationship with one and only with whom i got attracted on first sight.
@stringer321 (5644)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
17 Feb 12
Well , I don't think I ever fall in love on first sight , but , my heart jumped and I lost my apetite on my first blind date ever. I thought she was cute and I was sure she will be the one for me. She was a normal girl and I just loved her. Now I guess I just fulled myself and the thrill started from the uncertainty.
I don't believe in love on first sight , I believe in a true friendship and care and affection. Love is maybe a chemical reaction that feels heavenly , but , it can also lead to a mental crisis if something goes wrong. It's like gambling : it's thrilling but you can lose a lot if it goes wrong.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
31 Jan 12
If your eyes see and your heart is telling this is the one (probably registered/recognized by your brains).
I think this is exactly what they call: love at first sight.
It has nothing to do with common sense, falling in love after a great chat and find out you have a lot in common. The connection is there, no matter what. Some recognize it at first sight. To others it takes a bit longer to recognize it (perhaps because they don't believe in it or are hurt before).
@boyuancy (1708)
• India
31 Jan 12
Hi Sayo and welcome to myLot. Maybe you are right, maybe you are not. A very dtrong attraction at the first fight is thought to be "love" by some people.
Some may not understand that it is just a normal case of attraction, and often end up making bad decisions regarding their lives. So yeah, a strong attraction is possible but love maybe, isn't.
@Lucas818 (377)
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31 Jan 12
I totally don't believe love at first sight. For me, it's just a temporary attraction. What we see doesn't really reflect what's the real thing. Communications is the main factor to initiate a relationship. That's why God had given us brain, mouth and ears, in order to understand, express and listen... :)
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
31 Jan 12
The first time I saw my first husband, he was working at a service station and I was walking to my tennis lesson. We saw each other at the first time and our eyes locked and we didn't take our eyes off each other till I could no longer see him.
It wasn't love at first sight but there was a strong connection there and it continued while we fell in love and then went steady. Even though we divorced, I still think of him with love.
