Saying I Love You Without Actually Saying It
@notmuchofablogger (189)
Philippines
January 31, 2012 4:36am CST
Honestly, I am running out of ways on how can I express my love for my girlfriend with the use of words. I really suck at communicating my thoughts and feelings orally so even though deep inside I know what I want to tell, I cannot seem to translate it into words.
So can anyone share your stories on how you express your love through words? It would be a pleasure for me to read it I am sure. :D
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@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
31 Jan 12
Just say those words... I LOVE YOU.
Only say it when you truly mean it though. They always say that actions speaks louder than words but I do like it better when it is a little bit of both. Just make her feel loved and cared for. Do the little things that most girls really notice like opening the door, carrying her stuff and stuff like that.
You seem really sweet.
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@eljayo (1105)
• Philippines
1 Feb 12
Hi! You can express it not just by words but also in actions. You can surprise her on a date, or buy her favorite dress. Girls are easy to impress as long you know her needs. Sometimes when me and my boyfriend are so busy and we haven't texted for a while and I feel that I really miss him. I just text " I love you to him" or I miss you and he also does that to me and I just smile and feel contented knowing that he is thinking of me.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
31 Jan 12
Certain people don't say the word- but do the action.
I love more action than words, but I wish to hear the word sometimes.
It's so sweet to hear the words "I love you" from someone you love.
Okay- just those words and everything will be alright.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
1 Feb 12
hi there notmuchofablogger,
honestly, i am one of those guys who often say that endearment. that for me, i often say i love you to those people whom i really love. hence, i cannot tell what will happen to me on the next day so better say it today.
however, if there are times, i cannot express that word, i am just showing some extra care to the person. thus, in that way, i can somehow show that i love him or her. aside from that, as the saying goes, words are not sometimes enough.
@zaahro (748)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 12
hi...:)
Ahah, talking about love is so interesting. I used to joke around to tell my bf how I love him. For example : baby, are you a gardener ?| eh, why ?| because you make my love to you grow up bigger everyday :D|
i.e : Baby, are you a pillow ?| eh ?? what hun ?| cz I feel comfortable whenever I am with you :D|
I like to make him laugh with my ways to express my feeling, though it looks silly sometimes but we enjoy it.
@vilmohada (7)
• Philippines
1 Feb 12
just tell her what you really feel,and show her kindness and sweetness is very much appreciated...
@GemmaR (8517)
•
31 Jan 12
There are many ways that you can prove to your partner that you love them without actually having to say the words. Firstly, you should make sure that you are always supportive of your partner no matter what they choose to do in their lives. Secondly, it might be nice if you occasionally bought her presents for example cards, flowers or chocolates, as this would show her that you love her even though you might not always be able to say it to her face. My boyfriend has this problem as well, but I know that he loves me because he does manage to get his feelings across in these other ways.
@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
31 Jan 12
You meant like dropping hints and show how much you care but never spoke it real loud the words 'I love you'?
Obviously, it would work if your girlfriend really understand you and all the signs. But if she's like me, then it never work. I am too slow to catch signs and interpret feelings. The reason my boyfriend managed to become my boyfriend was because he told me directly that he's in love with me and want me to be someone special in his life. I was surprised of course. Plus he's too shy to say something like that but he finally did. That too probably because all his signs don't work so he had to say it out loud. But I accepted him because of that.
I wish you all the best though. Your girlfriend is really lucky.
@mhimi_viduya (140)
• Philippines
31 Jan 12
Just say ILOVEYOU with all your heart and soul :)
I mean try saying it with feelings and let your GF feel the sincerity of your words :)