how often have you lied to your loved one?

friend, you here given very very interesting discussion about lie between two lover, in which one start telling lies, don't know, why they tell lie in love, love can be true not in lie. or they passed only time.

I have lied many times , just that they are not big lies . Just about prices of things when I go for shopping. And also somethings that he doesnt know about my single life that is better dont say them , do you think that dont say them is the same as a lie.???

I don't lie, I don't feel the need to do so. But I do know what my husband is telling me is seldom truth. So I don't take his stories, plans or goals etc that serious anymore. I assume he wants to share something but is not smart enough to understand I know what he is telling is not making any sense. It's easy to find out if you ask some questions. I assume this has to do with a lack of education but also the different culture he is living in. I notice he is doing many things just because the society wants him to or is expecting this from him. If I say no it's no problem (quess he will blame me then). Perhaps he also feels the need to show off a bit? I try to learn not to tell him everything anymore. He is not able to tell me how his day was, does want to know how my day is, but if I tell it detailed he can't make the picture of it. He doesn't know anyway how my life is generally speaking. I also learned it's useless to share my sorrows with him. He can't change anything about it and it will only worry him more if he understands them. Also what worries me is no worry to him.. his only concern/worry is how to eat today and earn money to pay his rent.

to be sincere, it's not a good manner to lie your love one, 'cos u lie except u have something hidden or some unpleasant matters u want secret and it is not good to be kidded. i don't have lovers now except my house-hold and i know it is not advisable u lie to ur lovers, this may leads to deteriorating or breakage of relationship if enormous.