Don't look for someone to have a date with on Valentine's day...
By anncherry
@anncherry (406)
Philippines
February 1, 2012 7:55pm CST
Look for the one with whom you want to spend your whole life with.
Yesterday, I heard my aunts talking about introducing me to a doctor. Then after a few minutes, to an engineer. *What?* ~.~
I know I'm already 27. I also can't explain why it's totally okay for me to be single at this age, but the point is, it's still okay for me. I'm enjoying my life so much these days--I'm learning a new language, I'm doing what I love (singing and dancing) and I'm happy that people appreciate what I do, I'm meeting new friends, I'm seeing old acquaintances, I'm living the joys of life. Though it's still not THE LIFE that I'm SO dreaming of, I still feel that I'm on the right track. I know people around me are just watching over me and will always tend to worry for my sake. But I just want to say that I'm letting my life happen just the way I want it to be, and I think, everything will fall into place eventually. :)
Awhile ago, I came across a t-shirt print that made me laugh, it said: "I love being choosy." XD And then I remembered one of my friends telling my other friend, "Don't be choosy if you're not yummy!" Ahahaha! XD Nothing related, it just suddenly came into my mind. ;P
Anyway, I'm just saying that in the end, things will happen as to how God had planned them to be. So, I'm just here, trusting in God, and happily waiting it out. :)
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6 responses
@victorkrish (1614)
• Malaysia
2 Feb 12
It is busy day for lovers and spend a time the person beloved. Also busy day for buying a rose and the world with couple. They sure will forget the world including me i think. It is 14th February a wonderful day and experience for every couple. Not only that it is including a great enjoyable and unforgettable memories.
@kenzu123 (18)
•
2 Feb 12
I guest if a couple have a strong relationship time is not matter to them. because valentine made to show some love to your partner or to your family, parents some thing like that either your pets at home feed them on valentines (laugh mode)not to show how busy the people are. Because valentine is a day of love.PEACE!
@digidogo (444)
• Philippines
2 Feb 12
I like your perspective in life. Let them know your during excellent and let it stick to their mind. It is good to hear of someone knowing they are on the right track. The joy you feel in everyday life, having not to worry about much. Yes, it is good to be single and that is why I am. I guess we have not yet found our partners and when the time comes, we will cherish them 
Why should we stop when we are enjoying life.
Anyways, I still have plan on valentine though. Been a while since I got a date so I planned to take someone out. I will be inviting her during the course of next week so wish me luck. I will see how things go from there and then decide 
Why should we stop when we are enjoying life.
Anyways, I still have plan on valentine though. Been a while since I got a date so I planned to take someone out. I will be inviting her during the course of next week so wish me luck. I will see how things go from there and then decide @anncherry (406)
• Philippines
3 Feb 12
Yes, in fact, we will be able to fully cherish them due to these experiences. :)
Good luck to you! I wish you all the best! :))
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
2 Feb 12
i like it very much when you said, look for someone you can spend your whole life with, rather than looking for someone for a date on valentine's day. some people are concerned about us. they try to make plans and moves for us in the hope that they will do good. i like your disposition of being happy. keep on!
@anncherry (406)
• Philippines
2 Feb 12
Thank you! :))
Yep, because some people just want to win you over for Valentine's day, and then forget you after. So it becomes a waste of both your time. :/ I'd rather wait it out than waste my time on the wrong person. ^_^
@Lhenni (1242)
• Philippines
2 Feb 12
If you feel that way, so be it! What matters most is our regards to our own standars, right anncherry?! No rushing *LOL
I remember time ago when I'm 26 and still not in a serious relationship. My friends and some relatives were so afraid that I might end up single for life. So they keep on arranging dates for me *LOL. But at the end of it all, I'm still the one who will choose and say the best for my life.
I have 3 kids now and a personally chosen able husband *LOL!
Yes, there's the right time and timing for each of us. Hope your right time to meet your Mr. Right will be soon now!
@anncherry (406)
• Philippines
2 Feb 12
Ehehe! Thank you so much! I agree with you 100%! See, experience speaking here. ;P
@tatzkie23 (770)
• Philippines
2 Feb 12
Being single is not a bad thing, As you said, you are on the right track. And you can enjoy things in life. I remember when i was still single, I can do anything i want, no problems, no heartaches, no stress from boyfriend, just living the life. But i can't deny to myself that i need someone to love. Then one day, i just found myself praying that i hope that there is someone outthere who will love me. LOL. I was being emotional. But anyways, for sure God has plans for you. There's no rush.
@anncherry (406)
• Philippines
2 Feb 12
"no problems, no heartaches, no stress from boyfriend, just living the life." And I second the motion. ;P
@pengyd1982 (1)
• China
3 Feb 12
Agree to the fifth floor point liew, I wish you all good,things are!
