I hate people who is too gossip
By zhpshql
@zhpshql (693)
China
February 2, 2012 10:55pm CST
In my workplace ,I have so many women collegues...and they are so gossip...they talk about almost everyting...and I think it's a damaging habit..It can damage the relationship of the others..and harms people's reputations..Besides,gossip wastes time,,though it may be good for people's health...but too gossip is not good,I think..
So what do you think ? Are you very gossip?
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14 responses
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
8 Feb 12
I have looked at people and people. I did it myself, why be hypocritical and do not recognize? And I liked. Feel they have valuable information. They have power.
We like to gather in groups and talk to one and other. And if we think that "information" not so spicy and appealing to the public, and added something extra to make them more digestible. If there is something more vile, more dirty and treacherous as gossip, it must be awful it. Gossip makes the most pleasant people in some horrible person. Gossip makes you rich and the poor in rich poor.
It's like a bug. Once you got .... also deals hardly spreads at lightning speed.
We like to be mischievous. Talking with others of people you do not swallow. To spread rumors, let us sit by "a" strong. But be careful! Today you someone who gossip ear, tomorrow you will gossip about you to other ear! Because it is. As plague, leprosy can no longer escape. And the rest of us, food gossips simply because they listen.
Successful people, people always came first in newspapers, people who have something that really matters ... not gossip. In many interviews that successful people have granted states that hate gossip. No wonder! If you are a man as wise head on his shoulders and no other way!
Only people vile, the low spoke not a life of its own and fail to integrate into society than by gossip ... practice this sport. So if you are a milksop and a vile man ... continue with widespread rumors. Us, quality people, we do not care!
@princejhaizee (279)
• Philippines
4 Feb 12
Hello, even me I don't like people who are engage in gossip industry. Gossip is the root of every hatred between man's relationship. Thus, I hate gossipers. However, we must not go to judge them every now and then. They are just a human being... there is a chance for a change, right?
@GemmaR (8517)
•
3 Feb 12
I know how you feel about this, and I have to say that I really don't like people who choose to gossip about other people, either. I just don't understand why people feel the need to act this way, and talk about things which are actually none of their business at all. I went through a stage in my life where I will admit that I was spending a fair amount of time talking about people, but this was when I was a teenager and I think that this is fairly normal when you're growing up. I would expect people to grow out of it once they become adults, though.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
3 Feb 12
Well I don't hate them but I do find it rather annoying. There are times where there is a lot information about people, whether true or not, I am just better off not knowing. There are just going to be many times, many instances where that tends to be something that I tend to think about a lot of the time, where gossip is something that mutates into something.
Of course there is a time and a place for everything. But I think that the work place is not the time and the place for gossip I would think. It is just something that I prefer not to hear if I can help it. That is just what gossip is going to be for me. People can get carried away to and once an innocent bit of gossip gets spun into something a bit more malicious. And that is when the real harm comes in, when something goes down the gossip chain.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
3 Feb 12
Yeah gossiping is very damaging. I think a lot of people don't realize how much damage it can cause or they just don't care.I really don't like gossip. The damage can't be undone. It has been compared to scattering feathers in the wind. Once gossip spreads to people all over. Trying to undue the damage done is like trying to regather all the feathers that has been scattered in the wind. You just can't get them no matter how hard you try. A person may be sincerely sorry for spreading gossip after they see how much it has hurt a person. But it can't be undone. So it's best to avoid it at all cost.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
3 Feb 12
I always like to be in an office where all you do is work and have some fun with colleagues. Talk about things that are happy and funny or about a bit of our love life during idle moments. But I agree with you too much gossip, especially if they talk about colleagues in the office, it is really damaging and eventually cause a problem. I wish I could be in a place where people are just friendsly and doesnt wish bad to their co-workers instead help and support each other.
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
3 Feb 12
For me,I don't entertain people who are gossiper because it will reflect my personality.I do not want to listen talking peoples life.Yes it is wasting our time,instead we will focus on what we were doing for good.
@pogi253 (1596)
• Philippines
3 Feb 12
Gossipers are those groups who can't help but to gossip about others and frequently make up fabrication. Group who gossip have an insane call for to pass on a scoop they take notice of about others and frequently intricate the story to make it sound better. Staying a way from citizens who chitchat is the best way to stay away from insult and being orally put down by others. Chatting to a gossiper about everything could put you in a situation to get talked about or to harm others by giving the gossiper somewhat to go on. It's best to courteously tell the gossiper that you are full of activity or do not have time to talk about things right now. If she doesn't get the clue, just tell her that you do not wish to talk about others and you pretty much keep to yourself. If a gossiper realizes she can't get any info out of you, she'll leave you alone.
@craziestqueenever (1819)
• Philippines
3 Feb 12
Yes, me and my friends use this as our past time. We gossip during our break but we do gossip about the local celebrities here in our country.We don't gossip those who are around us because we do know that it could create a commotion.
@chum24 (569)
• Philippines
3 Feb 12
im not too gossip but i do sometimes especially with my friends are around making gossip everywhere. yeah i admit that perhaps it can harm people or damage a relationship. gossip as they said it is the pastime of some people even though its a waste of time but there's people that can made them happy. some of my friends told me that it is better to make gossip or back fight other people because we do not know they are also making gossip about us .:]
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
3 Feb 12
I stay away from gossiping people, I stay away from most people anyway. I get tired of stories about these or those people I seldom know of don't like to know.
I also am not interested in info in a way like: he said that she said that the neigbour of blah blah. I will never understand why people love to gossip or worse: put all their time and energy in breaking other people down and even enjoying it.
@yahnee (1243)
• Philippines
3 Feb 12
Gossip is a favorite pastime. Gossip is normal in any work environment however, just avoid being the topic of the gossip mongers for they can really hurt. Most of those who gossip have their own problems and insecurities or it may be just envy that makes them talk about other people. When I was still working for a company, we made a policy to discourage gossip in the office. It was successful for a time but unfortunately the gossip mongers continued with the bad talk when no one was ever given any disciplinary action for gossiping. I have once been the subject of gossip but I just ignored them since I don't want to stoop to their level. If they know that you are being affected by the talk, the more that they will be encouraged.
@zaahro (748)
• Indonesia
3 Feb 12
Hi ...
I hate gossip, I don't like listening to gossipers and I prefer to keep silent and smiling while I am about some gossipers. I hate them talking about someones in their back, just like stabbers. I am always like : can't you just mind your own bussines ?
. It is okay if just talking about jobs, fashion, food or children as far as it is no more than an hour.Do you think I am normal ? Sometimes I am wondering why I don't like women that are so gossip, people say that women = gossip. So am I a women
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@Heixyin (175)
• Malaysia
3 Feb 12
Gossiping is not wrong. But it depends on what you are gossiping. Gossips which harms others are wrong, and are not different then talking behind others back. Like you say, it can ruin people's reputation, cause misunderstanding and even conflicts. I don't mind gossiping though. Its pretty interesting actually. its different from talking of course, but im aware of bad gossips of course. i would prefer to listen to gossips but i do take it like a pinch of salt. Anyways, i don't mind gossiping or gossipers, but if its over the board, ill stop it. XD haha.. so yea. that would be my opinion.
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