When you were young did you enjoy your youth?
By Dominique25
@Dominique25 (9464)
United States
February 3, 2012 4:09pm CST
Time really does go by so fast. Usually when we are young we are in such a hurry to grow up and be adults. We were in a rush to get through school, to work, to start dating,etc. Were you able to enjoy your youth. That short amount of time being young and really free of so many responsibilities. I miss my younger years. I really did enjoy it for the most part. I had my hard times like I'm sure most of us did but I do appreciate it more so that I'm older now.
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11 responses
@yahnee (1243)
• Philippines
4 Feb 12
I enjoyed some portions of my youth but it was curtailed by an early marriage. I never experienced the freedom to spend my own earnings. I faced responsibilities so early in life. The parents were badly disappointed because they thought I would be more responsible with my life. They sacrificed for me to get a good education but I did not put importance on these since I thought that love is enough to bring me happiness. Too late for regrets.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
4 Feb 12
I can understand what you mean. It's amazing how often others try to guide us or give us direction but when we are at a certain age we want to make decisions ourself. And for the most part we feel as if our decisions will be right. I do agree though that at times it's just too late to regret things. I'm sorry that you didn't have the freedom to spend your earnings or get and education like you might have liked too now that you look back. I do hope that you are happy in your marriage. And that he is everything that you hoped he would be. Because when marriage and a family life is what a person they want it to be happy. Since in a way they have sacrificed other things and pursuits for this life.
@shiela1990 (2)
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12 Feb 12
Hi Dominique
My parents always remind me to enjoy being a youth because it can only happens once. Now I am already 22 but I am happy to say that I enjoy being young very much, I have a loving parents who are always there for me.
But still it is not too late to enjoy life, make everyday a special day. They always say that life begins at 40, so why not start making plans so that you can catch up to your youthful days.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
6 Apr 12
I'm glad that your parents tell you these things. That is exactly right you can only be able to enjoy this time for the present. In this system of things we have so many problems and new and different responsibilities to face as we get older. Even though I'm older I will still make the most of my life and strive to enjoy it. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
7 May 12
I'm glad that you enjoyed your childhood. I agree with you about not being as shy. I'm sure that a lot of us where that way. Things may have worked out differently if some of us would have talked more to different people we had the opportunity of meeting.
@autumndreamer (3185)
• Philippines
9 Apr 12
Yes, I did enjoy my youth somehow even though I miss doing the things I did back then. I still want to do them. And I agree with you, when I was young I was always in a rush to grow up but I didn't realize it was so nice being a kid.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
6 Feb 12
I think that I did in a way, but my biggest regret was that I was so impatient to get from one point to another. Time did seem to be move a bit more at a slow pace during those days for some reason. Now it seems like I am forever scrambling to catch up. It is just funny how life works like that, where we miss the teenage years and childhood years, once they pass us by.
It is not going to rather get really any better from here sadly. There are just going to be a lot of times where it does in fact seem where we really just look back and just wonder where everything went in life. We can't look back for too long, because life went on. The innocence of youth is something to be cherished, because once you pass your teenage years, it gets shattered quite quickly.
@mammots (3209)
• Philippines
4 Feb 12
i enjoyed my youth to the fullest. i did things that helped form who i am now like my first love, my close circle of friends, my experience in college which for me is the beginning of my mature life. when i look back at my youth i only have fond memories and no feelings of regrets at all!
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
4 Feb 12
I'm so happy that you were able to enjoy your youth to the full. It is such a great thing. And I'm sure that going to college can really help a person to mature and make good decisions about their career. I'm also glad that you have no regrets.
@yanzalong (18988)
• Indonesia
4 Feb 12
Yes, I did. My mom trusted me to do anything as long as it was good for me. I am not saying that my youth was the happiest time but I enjoyed it. Although my parents were not rich and didn't give me what I wanted like any other young people of my age. I just had to make the best of everything. I enjoyed going anywhere on foot or by bus. I didn't envy those who had the pleasure only enjoyed by rich people.
@maezee (41988)
• United States
3 Feb 12
Sure does! I can't believe I'm already 21 years old...I feel like just yesterday I was 13. LOL. I had a great childhood, I miss it every day. I miss not having the responsibility, not having jobs, having summers completely off... Waa waa waa, the real world STINKS! lol
@kaeirole (668)
• Philippines
4 Feb 12
i really enjoyed my childhood years..even though i got so many wounds because i never ran out of things to do..but i super enjoyed it..not until my adolescent years came..i experienced peer pressure at that time..and it made a big scar in me because of the group of friends i had and eventually the ignore me after a misunderstanding...
@jeanpr2002 (244)
• Canada
4 Feb 12
Sure I do enjoyed my childhood. I have lots of memories that were cherrished during that time. If only i could turn back time, I would like to stay young. LOL!
@Gabriel_Wise (6)
• United States
4 Feb 12
I was not allowed much of a childhood. My father strongly discouraged creativity and imagination. When he was around I was expected to care for myself. If he caught me playing he'd tell me to 'quit fooling around and be mature". However, I am very grateful for my experiences as they have lead me to become a much more responsible, mature, adult than others my age. I wish I could have had a little more fun in my youth, but I am happy for what I had.