My Tears are about to Fall

It's not too late for you to show the care and attention that your father needs. Even if the marriage between your parents ended, your relationship with your father will never end. Even if he has another family, you still owe him the respect and love especially now that he is sick. Give him all the time you can so you won't have any regrets in the future. No matter what has happened between him and your mother, he remains to be your father.

am teary eyed by your post.. :'( ive been living away from my parents since high school due to my schooling. now that am working, i only see them once a year but i call them every week though. Just recently my father went to the doctor to have his heart checked as well as his sugar cause he's diabetic. My mom tells me everytime i call the he's getting weak and gets sick easily. :( last time i talk to him, he sound so weak but he still told me not to worry about him and that hes getting better. I thank God for that and i pray that He'll extend his life for more years as well as for my mother. I hope He'll do the same to your fathers' too.

hello, Sorry for what happened to your dad. Maybe we have the same situation because when I was 7 old my parents got divorced though I cant understand why they have to do it. I am not seeing my father since then I am now 21 and it is almost been years. I hate my father because he always hurt my mom. We never talk to him and look to him because of the fact that he will try to push us to produced money. I dont know where he is but i know that he already have a wife. I will pray for you father and always be strong I know this isn't easy.

Hi notmuchofablogger, I am so so sorry to hear about your father. It really sad when our health really get us down and there is nothing we can do.. I am sure those days you remember are great ones and you should never forget them...You should rely on those memories to get you through the' rough times...and go make some more... What you can do is just really enjoy the time you have with your dad. He is still here and its up to God when his time is up..so don't give up on his life yet...more miracles have known to happen...Not even he knows how much more time he has in this world, so enjoy the time you do have with your father... He needs you I am sure. I am not sure how far you are from him nor am I sure if the travel is convenient for you...make yourself available as much as you can...the both of you will be very happy about that.... '

hi, Sorry to hear about your father, i hope that he's still able get better. Good thing you've decided to give him a visit, too bad his condition is not good. There is still time for you to bond with him, visit him often and talk to him about things in your life. It's not too late to show how much you love your father and really cares about him.

hi there, dont look back the time that had been passed, but look forward. we cannot make change about the thing that had passed in our life, but we can hold the incoming time. so treasure every moment that you together with your dad, and dont feel regret because you didnt spend lot time with him in the past. if not, you wont feel happy. in the past, you cant spend lot time with him, but it has pass. start with today, you can spend more of your time with him. treasure the day, and cheers up.

Sorry to hear about your father. I will be Praying for him. Many times people do not take the time to care about themselves or others, and do not take time to spend with them it seems until something happens and you realize that time might be getting short. All you can do now is try to spend time with him encouraging him and being there for him. If he knows you Love him now, that will be all that really matters.

It's not too late for you as he is still alive. My father passed away when I was 24 years old. I was never close to my father. He's not a bad guy or anything. It just that we hardly talk and see things the same way. When he passed away, I started to missed him. I regret that I never show him that I do care about him. Since you still have that chance, don't waste it.