hey guys... need your opinion on this...

of course she must be ready to pay for it , she must pay for the pain of leaving me , she must be ready to do as i want

Hi pure_haliwell, i think you should think first if you still love the girl or not. because if the feeling is already gone and if you chose to be with her and giving another try with her then you're just wasting time... and it might hurt both of you in the process. so, think first before you get back with the girl... happy mylotting!

That's an interesting question. The thing that would make me notice her and think about getting back together would be if she showed an interest in me as a person. If she said hi and told me about what is going on in her life and at the same time asked what is going on in my life. Of course it is not enough to simply ask how somebody is doing, but to also listen to the answer. I am attracted to a woman who wants to know all about me, the good and bad. I hope this helps.

I find it disgusting to ask a girl to do certain things for you before you are even willing to consider getting a relationship with her again. Are you willing to do certain things for her too (or an other woman) before she is even willing TO THINK about having a relationship with you? How would you feel if someone would tell you that? I think you already made up your mind. You don't want a relationship with her at all unless she will crawl at your feet and you are able to show her who is in charge. I hope she is too smart to do that ever to you! You are not worth it.

i don't think it is very easy to accept the girl again and if the girl wanted to returned back to me then i will ask question from her that why she leaved me? because i am not a toy for any girl .when she wants to play with toy ,she plays and after that leave that. but if there is genuine answer from her and feeling of real love for me then i can accept the girl without any condition

Everything should start with a reason, and for me a sincere commitment to be together is good enough. Life is too short and you don't want to miss the moments... and if you really love the other person you don't need to wait for the other party to do a move... Be transparent as well if you feel things will no longer be better even if the lady or girl takes some initiative then tell her the real score.

Letting the girl feel that you are there again is one thing. Simple things like texting her "good morning" or "how you doing" ... Visiting her, or simply just spending some time with her. Good luck!