is love true??
By kittie123
@kittie123 (75)
India
February 3, 2012 10:18pm CST
hey hi its long since i responded here and its all thanks to the huge amount of issues that i had to solve . thankfully i could solve most of it leaving behind one of the major work .i shall tel u a short story for that after which i need all your kind and sweet advice,ur opinions and at the end what you think should be done .
here is the story for you .
my best friend was a person who dint believe in love at all this was 4 years back . she got introduced into it through the person who is her boy friend now. and till now he claimed she was the best girl he could get and that her character is the best and that's exactly what made him love her but now past 5 days thing took a bad and dangerous topsy turvy ride in their life.it so happened that recently he spoke to his parents about getting married to this girl and apparently his parents weren't happy with her but with days and with help of us his parents and siblings were starting to like her but now he is behaving weirdly .when we asked him he says her(my best friends )character is not good and at the time of loving her he just thought it was a minor issue and that things would change with time but its been 4 years and there is no change .and he said some of her other faults were
1.she sends good morning messages if she doesn't get reply for that she keeps calling him till he replies and that this nature irritates him.
2.she keeps crying for every small little things.he wants someone who will be able to enjoy life with him rather than lament with him.
3.she should know where what to talk and not just keep blabbering
4.she should not take all small things to heart instead analyse and solve off petty issues in very little time .
its true that he had mentioned all this to her before some 2 years or so and she too has been sincerely trying to come out of all this behaiour of hers but thing is she was brought up in that fashion that its taking extra long for her to break that shield from her .it'll take time but i'm sure she'll do it because she loves him a lot.but now we dont know what happened to him . he usually stops talking to her for one whole day and the next day they are as cozy as usual but now things are going bad its 3 days since he hardly spoke to her decently.
jan 30th - he told her that his mom dint like the proposal but after aunt spoke to her things became kind of fine. he too became fine after that .things were smooth.
jan 31st- he dint reply til 12.30 she called him he got irritated blasted at her at night and said if he had to live with her his life would be torture but still he would live with her because he loves her so much.and that its his fate to be unhappy like this
feb 1st-she asked if he could meet her on 4th feb he said it was possible because he had a busy schedule but she kept pleading him and again he got irritated . that night it was declaration that he made that he dint want her anymore in his life because he dint want to waste his life with a girl like her .
feb 2nd - he had asked one of us to talk to his sister to make her like my best friend (p.s this happened after he said he dint want my best friend in his life again ) we did that and it was kind of a success as she said she wont interfere if parents liked my friend .but when talking to her he said he dint want her in his life because she was torturing and irritating .
feb 3rd- my best friend took the decision of not disturbing him so dint send any messages or make any calls throughout the day but he dint cal her too .then at 12 we called him to ask if he had plans to cal her and then he said and asked if my best friend was near us when the conversation is happening .when we said know(which was a lie) he dint believe us and keot saying he knew she was with us and said no he wil never again talk to my friend in his life .
then she tried calling him he attended once and heard her crying and he said you wil never change .please dont disturb me again .
now all that we want you to tell is that do you guys think there is chances for this couples to patch up ?? dont you see a concern in his speech .if he really dint want her in his life why was he taking measures in impresssing his sisterr ?? or is it just our imagination ?? or is tat he came out of it long back?? whatever it is i dont think my friend will everr come out of it . she already started skipping her meals in the hope that god wil hear her prayers and bring him back soon in his life. please let me know as a friend what i can do . sorry for making it too long and boring . have no other options left apart from you my friends .please reply soon
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
13 Feb 12
Hello kittie,
The girl loves this guy too much and she is concerned much on him and I think which irritates him. He should try to understand her better and should realize her deep love. If he decides to opt out the girl surely he is loosing a caring girl in his life. There is nothing to get irritate when she didn’t get a reply from a person and try to find out the reason by calling. He should realize, after marriage, they will live together and there won’t be any such issues arises. She needs more attention and care at the moment. If he can’t understand her well it is his big mistake.
If he loves her truly he won’t leave her at any cost. Tell; this to your friend and make her understand the reality. Why she need a person who never loves her?