hmmp! don't know what to say right now.

@jazel_juan (15747)
Philippines
February 6, 2012 1:52am CST
Hubby just texted me who the hell i gave my number to here in mylot. and i was like ????? huh? well, i called him and he sounds mad and i know he might be reading this post! But well, nevermind but lol i know everyone here in mylot knows i am inlove wiht my husband! lol everyone knows about it right? the persons i have given my number here are the people i am close friends with here in mylot lol and i know the most recent one i have to was shibham! lol i gave him a private msg ( you remember my dear friend?) but really. i am not having an affair here or ever want to have one.
9 responses
• United States
6 Feb 12
That's funny that he'd think you'd cheat on him over MyLot, but it's also kind of scary that he is being that possessive and snooping! Be careful because jealousy often leads to control...Believe me, I just got out of a bad relationship. He needs to trust you. I mean, if someone was going to cheat, WHY would they do it over MyLot? It makes no sense...He needs to believe in you more.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
6 Feb 12
I guess he just got mad i am being over too friendly.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
6 Feb 12
oh jazel we all know you are quite the beauty and he cant help it. but he should know by now that you are the most faithful and loving wife as you have shown and talked about on here many times. its like that song, When you're in love with a beautiful woman. mine were all like that
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
6 Feb 12
lol am i a beauty? aww bunny thank you, yeah i hope he knows will think that i am proud to have him as my husband and that i am faithful. i just can't understand my affiliation and connection to this site. He says this is tooo social... but it is not a social site for me. It is an entirely different thing.
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
6 Feb 12
Oh goodness. I don't give my cell phone number out to anyone but my hubbie and my brothers. It's only for emergencies. Goodness knows in the country we have tons of them.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
6 Feb 12
i know stupid me.
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• Philippines
6 Feb 12
Hello Jazel, When does he ever stop.I have known you're very very jealous hubby since teh day you mentioned about you're one time flirt w/ some one online once that got him really paranoid and mad ithink. But there should also be trust and he should learn to trust you again, knowing your loyalty to him is really undeniable...
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
6 Feb 12
Lol he isn't that bad letran, but i guess that got him paranoid and i can't get to trust him again eventhough i am not doing anything!
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@magtibaygom (4858)
• Philippines
6 Feb 12
If you don't mind, may I have your number please? (joke) Well, as long as you know you are not doing bad, no problem. Just continue being the best person you can, and the best partner you can be to him. That emotion of your partner will subside as time goes by. Relax.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
7 Feb 12
i've learned my lesson. won't give it.
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• Philippines
6 Feb 12
being jealous is one way of showing how much you care about that person. "of course with the right dosage". For sure he will understand, it just need the right amount of explanation :), explaining too much means being defensive (to some guys).
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
6 Feb 12
Hmm, it's a case of a jealous husband, my friend. But don't worry just explain it well with him my friend and i am sure he will understand. Couples when in their early years of marriage will really be so jealous of one another. That's the case with me and my husband when we were on our early marriage years. But as the years passed and we have tested each others' fidelity, we now won't easily get jealous anymore. Besides, we have matured a lot and now knows how to discern on things such as this.
• Philippines
6 Feb 12
I wonder if she can do the same treatment to him, i bet he would be irritatingly mad to try to prove himself to her too. such problems is just normal in couples, he's paranoia seemed bothering me though
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
It's a flattering for a woman if her husband would sometimes get jealous. But if it becomes persistent, it becomes an annoyance.
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@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
6 Feb 12
Oh. This makes me remember of my Papa getting jealous when my Mama received a text message.. Silly but I find it cute because, it makes me realize how he loves my mom and my mom one lucky woman to have my father! :) Well, I think your hubby will understand if he read this discussion! :)
@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
6 Feb 12
I can understand concern for being careful with information but being told we are being over friendly I think is not something that is valid. There is too much of that out there I think. I don't mean people being cautious, I mean cold and not friendly. I think that can bounce back at you and hurt you if you know what I mean. Jealousy is good for couples if it is rational and not extreme. It just proves someone cares a lot. I want to talk (that means have public discourse) with your husband and be a friend. Does he use a computer - tell him I want to be a friend that I am a nice person, friendly and not going to do anything (affair)to cause anyone any trouble. I just want to have friends online. There is something wrong with this? I don't think so. Maybe reversing this situation would be helpful? Best wishes to the both of you.
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