Can you tolerate a nagging mother?

I can relate to this issue so much, you just don't know. Until this day me and my mother go through that. I feel guilty ever time, she know I love her. When I tall back and argue I've noticed things get worse. So now I catch myself coming around alot less and running out the door when things get heated. I love her and I really wish and hope u get better with this issue. Lord knows I dont mean any harm, just that part of me that dont like giving in. Which I got from her so, it's just confuseing and Upseting sometimes. I wish you the best of luck with that fella, just know I feel were your coming from .

First your mother to bring life to you ,so you came to this world, your mother's nagging is to tell you her life experience,give you abetter life .

It is hard to deal with a nagging mother. I'm glad my mother was not. Nevertheless even if your Mom nags a lot, I believe you should refrain from fighting back. No matter what kind of mother you have ,you have to keep the respect. Yes, sometimes when a Mom is unreasonable, it is so tempting to fight back to defend oneself but always remember that she is still a parent and she should be respected no matter what. Once you become a parent, you surely will reap the reward of being a respectful child. Remember, history always repeats itself.What you do to your mother, your children will also do to you. Just don't let her nagging attitude be repeated on you.

Hi! That is so sad, why don't you try telling her that, I am just thankful that my mom is not a nagger and really talks to us personally when something is wrong.If my mom is like this I will just shut my mouth till their is enough patience in me but I will probably blow in the long run and talk back.I'd rather stay in the room whole day or be out of the house. I hope your mom will change, because nagging is not a good thing to do especially with your children.Why don't you try showing affection to her?maybe she just needs one. Surprise her with something really nice. I hope you will continue to stretch your patience and understanding on her.:)

First you should never snap back at your mother. I find sometimes that just listening can quell the tension. Mothers are always going to be hypercritical of their children as they dont want them to make similar mistakes as themselves. Don't think of it as her nagging you as more of directing you in a forceful manner. My mother use to nag at me all the time. At first I would do the bad thing and yell back just making things worse and more drawn out. After a while I just told myself "okay just listen and agree" Even if its something you totally disagree on give her the benefit of the doubt. If she is wrong, being nice to her might trigger an apology. I know several times where i just tipped my head down said yes mother and walked off to my room. A hour or so later she would come back and say you know what go a head. Parents aren't out to manipulate or create tension they just want whats best and to keep you out of harms way. You may hate what they have to say and really want to yell back. Recently my mother passes away from cancer and all those moments where you yelled back and were just plain mean come flooding back. You'll just tell your self I wish I did things differently. Anyway try to see her side of things. respond with kindness and not anger. Remember you only get one mother.

We can never blame our mothers for having such attitude. They were motivated that way by there parents, the community, and others. But we have to snap them out of it because if we will be immune to this kind of attitude this will reflect as we go on parenting. Remember not to lose your respect to your parents but we should also protect what our personal moral when somebody is trying to murder our good names

My mother isn't like that but my mother-in-law is, and I've seen sometimes how my wife snaps back. This usually makes us argue. It's probably because I'm not used to seeing children answering back at their parents, no matter how irritating the parent is. Why not have a talk with her and let her know that the way she acts is hurting you. Let her realize that you're an adult and you could understand what she says without nagging. I mean, why not try a softer approach instead of fighting back.

My mom used to nag at me before also. It is just that we have choir rehearsals till late and i come home around 10pm and she doesnt like it when i arrive late as if had a choice! She knows how dedicated i am to my craft and unfortunately so, i have no control on the time of choir practices. Just like you, i wanted so much to snap back at her even though i know that it would be disrespectful. Luckily,I was able to hold my anger and i never did that to her. I understand my mom's point of view. She just wants us all to be safe.

mother knows best,sometimes we just like to be understand but if we put our self to them growing old and afraid to be left maybe what we will feel......