I worried about my live

February 6, 2012 12:05pm CST
Hello friends, I wannt to ask you something that im really shame about it. I'm 16 years old and I have never have a girlfriend. My friends have... In my school there are no manny girls, and I dont know I'm feeling like inefficient. My appearence is always good I am high. Just I cant find friends from opposite s e x. My problem is that - I cant find girlfriend. I'm sorry about my bad English but I hope that you understood me. Everyone who can advice me, please post i will be thanks you a lot!
4 responses
samd87
@samd87 (327)
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6 Feb 12
16 is still so young, you should stop worrying about girls and just enjoy things in life. A girl will come along one day, and usually when you are not looking for love it will find you. There is lots of time for girl friends, just take your time. :)
Chroni
@Chroni (6)
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6 Feb 12
" you are not looking for love it will find you " I have read that many times and I know that is true.
samd87
@samd87 (327)
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6 Feb 12
Yes I believe it is true. So just be happy in life, love will find you eventually.
lampar
@lampar (7584)
• United States
6 Feb 12
No kidding, how is that without a girl friend at the age of 16 yers old is going to badly affect your life? Pal! There is nothing to worry about, you are still very young, you will have plenty of opportunity ahead of you to have many girl friends if you desire. Don't have a girl friend now is not going to make you lifeless or cause you sick in whatever way, you are worry for nothing and uncessarily. You should go about your life like the rest of the day, do whatever come naturally, be friend with other people and go to school like the rest of the boy your age. You shouldn't feel deficient, and pressured at all, relax and move on, life is too short for you to worry just because you don't have a gril friend, there is much more things you can do in life than just worrying not having a girl friend now.
Chroni
@Chroni (6)
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6 Feb 12
Thanks for your post. And I understand this but I cant accept it.
lampar
@lampar (7584)
• United States
6 Feb 12
Don't be so silly, young man! Having a girl firend is fine at your age, but without one doesn't means you are living without any joy in your life. You have no other choice except accept the fact and reality, go on living your life without her for now, be happy and no worry. One day, she will appear in front of your eye and the moment will come naturally for you and her; then you can live happily together forever. But if you refuse to accept your fate now, well! i can not and will not stop you from worrying uncessarily, since you have the right to make your own choice, i just have to leave it for you to figure out.
Francine
@beenice2 (2967)
• Sackville, New Brunswick
6 Feb 12
I have three sons one is 20 and my twins are 18 they are not worried about that for now.Before getting involved with somebody I suggest to finish your schooling first and mature up you don't have to have a girl friend because everybody does it ( monkey see monkey do). You have to ask yourself those things, am I emotionally mature enough. Because 16 years of age my daughter is 16 , she is not in a hurry for now, an she is not worry about it at all. You still very young.
Jatada
@Jatada (291)
• India
6 Feb 12
Why you are worrying about.I am 19 and i also dont have girlfriends.But i am happy with it as no worries and no tensions,never to spend extra money on amyone.Just me and happy.