Have you ever been betrayed by someone?
By otakumarie
@otakumarie (48)
Philippines
February 6, 2012 7:43pm CST
one of the most appalling and crashing experiences that I had was to have someone you really trusted beyond any doubt betray you. Isn't that so heartbreaking? trust is a rare commodity and I have never imagined that anyone could be as cruel as taking away your confidence in that someone. after that I never really was safe around anyone else. at least that is how I feel. I never get to trust any that easily. it made me suspicious of just anyone around me-even my own dear friends. once burned twice shy huh?! but that is just I exactly feel. is it really right having to suspect anyone? I'm just being cautious you know. You wouldn't want to sell away your trust to just any one after a very painful encounter Like that one I had.
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9 responses
@heavenrenz (190)
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7 Feb 12
It is really sad that there are people that cannot be trusted, I understand how you feel but this is the world we live in what I mean is even if its hard to find people whom you can trust don't stop looking for one.
@Devilova (5392)
• Indonesia
9 Feb 12
I never get betrayed no betrains someone, specially on the relationship.
My brother said this to help Him to deal with this situation if it happens.
"I do love you, but doesn't mean I have to die for you.Even I could but not now, not yet, not yet"
Don't love someone more then yourself, you'll worthless when they leave you.
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
9 Feb 12
Yes, indeed, I lent someone money once and they never paid it back. It is obvious to me now, looking through an older, more mature set of eyes and brain, that they never had any intention to pay it back. They tried to use their status of me thinking they were a friend, to really find their way to get money out of the situation. Poor naive younger me indeed. It did teach me a valuable lesson, never lend money to people, ever. No exceptions.
And there have been times where I have been flat out lied to by people. I'm not sure if I would call that a betrayal in the strictest sense. However, I know that I may never trust that person ever again, so really that is just something to really consider. There are just a lot of times where I don't say all that much to people that I don't want to get out. Trust is something that isn't what it used to be anymore.
@momof3kids (1894)
• Singapore
9 Feb 12
Yes. My experience is on money making. I recommended my link to someone and somehow found out that she join someone else's link instead. I didnt say anything but she found out that I found out and apologised to me. Somehow when she apologises it makes me confirm how malicious she is.
But this is about money making and I didnt feel too bad. There are so many opportunities out there, I simply shouldnt complain!
@luisnarvaez582 (93)
• Puerto Rico
18 Apr 12
Yes, I have discovered people that called me their friend and the I also accepted as friends spreading gossip about me and talking bad about me behind my back. Doing stuff like planning hangouts and asking for other friends not to invite me. Backstabbers are everywhere but for every one of them there is a real friend around that cares about you and the is loyal to you. Don't mind people that betray you remove them from your life and surround yourself with good people.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
Yup! I am betrayed from the person I love the most and trust her the most of my life. I am just concentrating with myself to believed that I'll give her my full trust and confident that love is always be given to her alone...
I don't think anything that possible she can do me anything wrong and betrayed me. I am confident enough that she is a good person and never do something that hurt me and make me depress...
Till this time I never coping up my depression due to great pain that create by betrayal and pretension...
@craziestqueenever (1819)
• Philippines
7 Feb 12
I can't recall if someone had betrayed me. It's because those bad memories that I had when I was young, I had erased them unconsciously and sub-consciously. I had learned my lesson enough, Trust no one except yourself.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
7 Feb 12
I have been betrayed many times, years and years and in the most terrible ways you can't even imagine. It's up to you how to handle this, how to give it a place in your life and what you do with these experiences.
Yes it's hard to trust and I know I will never trust anyone for 100% and because I don't I also don't depend on other people anymore. I still give others a lot even people who lie to me and who will never do anything back for me. Even stabb me in the back again. But this says more about all those people as it says about me.