Have you ever experience being heart broken??

@cyclopz (251)
Sydney, Australia
February 7, 2012 9:16am CST
I know its quite common for people to experience heartbreaks. Some move on quite fast and there are also some who even take years to recover from a rough heartbreak. I have also experienced the same and it was really quite rough knowing that you did your best to make everything work and even made lots of sacrifices just for the relationship. Just that thought that everything that you did and sacreificed for was just nothing and the person is just willing to throw it all away so easily. Well, i guess people really change. They usually turn out to be what they say they won't become. How about you? Have you ever experience being heart broken? How were you able to move on or what did you to to move on with your life after such rough experience? Thanks for sharing guys.
10 responses
@zaahro (748)
• Indonesia
7 Feb 12
Hi cyclopz... Yes, I have ever felt that, it hurt me badly and took me long to recover. It was not my first love neither firt pain, but it wast the worst pain I have ever had. It changed my personality and I become different now. I am still a cheerful n funny girl but now I am afraid to have any relationship again. I am not ready.
@cyclopz (251)
• Sydney, Australia
8 Feb 12
So what do you do to recover on that situation? Do you prefer just to wait for the healing to take place or do you belive that finding someone new would fix your broken heart?
@zaahro (748)
• Indonesia
8 Feb 12
I just let it go and be sincere for what have gone and done. There are lots boys that are interesting ans nice to me. I always bear in my mind that the sky will stay the same even when I am not with him. I am not in a pain anymore, it is that I am just not in a mood to have relationship.
@cyclopz (251)
• Sydney, Australia
8 Feb 12
Its a good thing that you have already recovered on that, i dont know if i have already recovered but i have the fear of getting hurt again because it was then that i just realized how painful it was to get hurt, maybe because it was just my first time to get hurt that much especially when thinking that she is already the one. I guess its better to expect the worst in life rather that expecting the best.
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• Philippines
7 Feb 12
Yes I experienced to have a broke heart . He's my first love that's why Its not easy to move on it takes some years to forget the love that I gave him but I still remember him even if the feeling of love is gone. I did everything just to forget him and accepted that fact that he will never be back again .
@cyclopz (251)
• Sydney, Australia
8 Feb 12
I guess sometimes there really nothing we could do in life but to let go. Just like holding a blade of a knife that the harder we hold on to the much deeper the wound gets. It may just be better to let go while the wound is not yet that deep than to get all wounded from holding on too tight.
• Philippines
10 Feb 12
Of course I have also experienced being heartbroken and it was totally hurtful. Actually, I haven't yet fully recovered from the pain but I am really trying so hard to forget the person I used to love. And indeed I also got nothing after all the sacrifices and efforts I've done just only for that person. But I am not losing my hope for I know someday, somehow that person who gave us the pain will realize how worthy we are in their lives. But sorry for them because by the time they would finally realize our worth we have already moved on and we are already with someone else as well.
@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
hi cyclopz, I have been hurt for many times because of love. It is not easy to move on especially if you spent for years together. It has been a year since my ex boyfriend and I broke up. It was really painful. I thought that he is already the one I have been looking for all of my life. I thought that one day, we can finally get married and have a happy family together. I thought that time will come we will be one and all that I have will be his and all of he has will be mine.We have been through a lot of trials. I really never expect that all will turn futile. I never expect that one day, we just have to accept that we cannot be together. Up to now, I still have the feelings for him. I am still hurt but not much now. I have been making myself very busy. I tried to make friends with other people. Most of all, I always try to pray and ask God for His mercy and help.
• United States
7 Feb 12
I have experienced one to many heat breaks but i move on quite quick after because i know i cant find someone else that will treat me right. I think its stupid taht guys cheat on me and then leave me for some home wrecker or something its up to them though i guess. I dont cheat i love who i love and love my life and i dont need someone else ruining my life. I move on becayse why stay with someone who is going to cheat on you and ruin your life when you have so manyother guys out there trying to find taht right girl in there life.
@cyclopz (251)
• Sydney, Australia
8 Feb 12
I guess thats also one way of looking at it, its better that you realized the kind of person he is earlier that too late. But i think its quite a waste of time investing emotions with someone who wont't even care about you someday. Maybe it just takes time knowing who the person really is or maybe i'm just not a good judge in character or maybe people really just change in time.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
7 Feb 12
Sigh I just remembered I will have no one to greet someone a happy valentines this year or maybe on the coming years too. Yes, I experienced such heart ache. It took me years to finally realize that there's nothing for me to do but give it up and move on with my life. It still hurt especially when me and friends would suddenly talk about our love life... I guess when our hearts has finally recovered and someone made us happy and in love again, the heart ache will no longer be felt.
@cyclopz (251)
• Sydney, Australia
8 Feb 12
I just it better to hope that someone better might come our way someday than feeling hopeless for the rest of our life. But i think its also quite hard hoping for someone who might not arrive in the future. I guess sometimes we just have to hope for the best in life, bcause it may just be the reason that keeps us going in life.
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
Well, when your heart broken , it's really hurts.. It's like your life is so useless and lifeless when your in pain and broken.. I love those people who are there for you when your in a broken relationship.. Broken comes to crying and being depress.. Heart broken can make you strong and is very not good.. We must recover to it like spending some time for yourself but not just yourself but also with friends and people who are also close to your heart that can mend our broken hearts..
@lil_toni (206)
8 Feb 12
They say that love yourself first before loving someone.And don't give all your love because nothing will be left for you in the end. I don't think if its good or not but Thank God I haven't experience any heart breaks/heartaches. Well,for now because I have no experience of getting into a relationship simply because I'm not yet ready,and I don't feel having one though most of them would say that the feeling is different when you found your partner and you fell in love. But for me, I don't rush things and I'm happy being single, not committed to somebody else. There are a lot of things that I want to pursue.And I think it would be best if my only priority and inspiration is my family, and that is my choice.I know God will give me the one who is right for me and everything will fall into places.At the right time,at the right place with the right man that is meant for me. I know it sounds cliche but that is what I believed in.
@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
8 Feb 12
Yes I have. Eventhough it was painful at the time, I quickly moved on to other relationships. Still, it must have been the worst broken heart I've felt, because the memories are still in the back of my mind many years later and after many other relationships. I consider myself fortunate to be in a happy relationship today; as I know some who have their heart broken are not able to have other relationships.
@sayo13 (414)
• India
8 Feb 12
I have experienced heartbreak many a times in my life. there something which you really wanted to work and you have put into it all the dedication and effort and all your believe too. but one lesson i have learnt in my life that every time hard work do not pay you. there times when your luck do play a huge role. I felt shattered and devastated when I got heartbroken. that time for me no consolation works.