Fighting for his life..
By tamirs
@tamirs (1807)
Philippines
February 7, 2012 5:56pm CST
Hello my dear My Lotters, its been weeks since i last log in here.
I so miss all of you and the discussions.
I just got home from the hospital,my nephew is confine in the hospital for a week now and he is fighting so hard for his life.He is diagnose with Dengue 2 and peripheral pneumonia.
Yesterday i was there the whole day and planned to stay the whole night.But,when his blood pressure went down to 60/40 he was given 180cc of IV direct to his heart.All the strength i gained to stay for the night vanished,he convulse and chill and his eyes and mind is leaving us and i can't really take it.I don't want my brother(his father)to see that i am crying because they need me to stay with them but i can't take it..
Nobody wants to see their love ones dying...
Because we are expecting my nephew's mom to give birth this week she can't be with him in the hospital.That is why my brother and i are the only one's staying with him.Later today i will be there again,i prayed the whole night, That HE gives me strength to endure all the pain seeing my nephew fight for his dear life.
I know you will be with us in this...
6 people like this
21 responses
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
8 Feb 12
Hi tamirs
As I read this my mind goes back in time to the day when I was all alone and my late grandfather was ill. I know, at this stage, all I can do from here is to pray for easing the pain and a faster recovery of your nephew...
I also pray that the Lord above does give you all people in the family the right courage to face the situation, be composed and stay tough to handle whatever the wishes of the Lord.
warm
As I read this my mind goes back in time to the day when I was all alone and my late grandfather was ill. I know, at this stage, all I can do from here is to pray for easing the pain and a faster recovery of your nephew...
I also pray that the Lord above does give you all people in the family the right courage to face the situation, be composed and stay tough to handle whatever the wishes of the Lord.
warm 
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
8 Feb 12
Oh dear. I wish I was by your side at this sad and tough time. I pity myself and the fact that distance between close friends plays a real spoiler.
Please dont hate yourself as you or us cannot do anything beyond what best we are doing and I am quite sure that you and family will stand together during all this - the other problems that you have been posting about, too would not seem to play any significant role here and they will all get resolved.
My prayers and best wishes dear. Stay Strong and I know many in your family will be needing your strength at such tasking and sad times.
1 person likes this
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
17 Feb 12
Thanks dear for the BR. I had my BR already when you posted your other discussion about his health. It was quite a relief to know he is out of danger and more happy
I wish him a great health and ask you to take good care of him in the coming days to see and ensure he is completely recovered.
Also, my belief now becomes stronger - God Does Listen to Prayers when the are told from the Heart.
I wish him a great health and ask you to take good care of him in the coming days to see and ensure he is completely recovered.
Also, my belief now becomes stronger - God Does Listen to Prayers when the are told from the Heart.@tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
Hi Sid,
Thank you so much for the prayers.We need those so badly..
I always breathe deep and pray for strength.I know its so sad to say but i think i am loosing it..I thought i am tough but i am not..
and i really hate myself for loosing myself..
1 person likes this
@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
8 Feb 12
Hi, sorry to hear about everything, I do hope and pray he'll recover from his illness. I know it's painful but actually just by being there with your brother and him will actually give them the extra boost to keep them fighting and not give up. From their perspective it's very comforting, so I hope you'll be able to take comfort in the fact that you're are in fact helping them a great deal.
Will be keeping your nephew in my prayers, though. Just hang in there, one day at a time. I know it's nerve-wrecking cuz both my children has been in and out of hospital for eye surgeries (both are visually impaired and run a high risk of losing all their vision). Each eye surgery is scary for me as a mother because I'm always wondering if the retina will remain in place or detach during the surgery.
Wishing you nothing but the best
1 person likes this
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
15 Feb 12
Hi Masihi and Tamirs, i understand how sad to see our loves ones had been in and out of hospital. A few months ago, my mother had been in and out of hospital as well, since she needs to undergone eye surgeries for both of her eyes. It is happy to see now she is doing fine and able to see more clearly. Hope the same for you, Masihi.
Tamirs, do have a strong faith to overcome your problem.
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
That is bad. When I was a kid, I always slept with a mosquito net or what we call 'kulambo' and I was safe. We should pay more attention to our kids. I pray for your nephew to heal soon. Let us be aware when disease will fall unto our family.
1 person likes this
@tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
Thanks cowboy.We suspect that he got the bite from his school because there is no case of dengue in our place or even their place.But of course we really can't know where he was bitten.And you are right, we must pay attention .
Thanks for your prayers dear..
1 person likes this
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
HI tamirs,
I do hope your nephew survives this. It is really sad to see someone we love suffering and dying, especially such young kid. I will be praying for him.
1 person likes this
@champoy186 (1638)
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
I feel so bad for you and your family about what you are going through. I hope that everything will be okay. I hope your nephew will be fine soon. I will include him in my prayers. Let us pray for his condition. God is good. I know this is just a challenge. Don't give up.
1 person likes this
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
10 Feb 12
Hi tamirs!
I felt sad to hear about your nephew. I do hope that he would recover sooner than later.
Our prayers and best wishes are with him. God will come his rescue and will listen to our prayers.
As the post if two days old, I hope there would have been some improvement in his health.
@carolscash (9492)
• United States
8 Feb 12
I am so sorry to hear about your nephew's suffering! I pray that God will heal him and give you the strength that you need to be there while that is happening. Think of how hard this must be for his mother considering that she can't be there at this important time in her son's life. I am sure that her and your brother are both scared as well. Please let us know how this turns out.
@tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
I see that my brother is in most pain,if he can only trade for his sons life,i know he'll do it.Today,i saw him, i know that what i am feeling can't at least be half of how he feels right now.If he can only take all the pain for his dear child,i know he will.
And my sister in law, even if she isn't crying i know that her heart is crying too much.
We will count on to your prayers for my nephew and the whole family dear.
1 person likes this
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Feb 12
hi tamirs oh I am so sorry to hear this about your little nephew
I will send a lot of prayers that he will recover soon and be his
own loveable self again, Its so hard to stay and watch a loved'one fighting for his life. I went through this with my husband and despite all my prayers, I watched him return to his maker. I
remember holding his hand and knowing he was leaving me, and
whispering "this is not how it was supposed to end." I just
could not quyite take it in that he was leaving me for good.
I hope that your nephew will recover soon and be well again.
'I hope other mylotters join me in sending prayers as our prayers
can be really strong.
@SassyBrat (463)
• Canada
8 Feb 12
Sending healing thoughts and positive energy vibrations to your family and especially to your nephew.
Please know we are all here for you.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
hello tam
I can't hold back my tears while reading this post.
I had same experience years ago- 6 yrs ago.
My youngest son is also a victim of Dengue and I almost lost him.
I know what you feel and how you are holding on to prayers.
Yes, let's pray for his life.
God knows the best answer
I can't hold back my tears while reading this post.
I had same experience years ago- 6 yrs ago.
My youngest son is also a victim of Dengue and I almost lost him.
I know what you feel and how you are holding on to prayers.
Yes, let's pray for his life.
God knows the best answer @tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
Thanks so much dear.
Your prayers will help a lot.
Another day of pain is too much to bear..I know in Gods name he will be alright,but hopefully the soonest.He is only five and i know he is so scared.
He told me that he wants to go home with me and eat his and his ate Daniella's favorite fried rice.
1 person likes this
@Blkqueen (85)
• United States
8 Feb 12
I feel soo bad what you and your family have to go through. It's so hard to see a love one helpless and you cant do anything about it. All you can do is be there for him and continue to pray for strength and health. I hope everything will be okay. I'll keep him in my prayers, also I'll keep you and your family in prayers.
1 person likes this
@maryldacullo011710 (90)
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
sad to hear that from you..im also a dengue survivor..i had it when i was just 5 years old..im 23 now anyway..my parents thought it would me my last and i couldnt make it since i was vomiting blood the whole time..but god is always there..he is good all the time that he never leaves me with my agony..i just pray for your nephew's survival..just believe in the lord and he will surely help us..i know he is watching us..
@yanzalong (18987)
• Indonesia
9 Feb 12
I am with you to support and pray to God that he will be better soon. Keep your finger crossed. All mylotters will do the same for you. Take care.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
15 Feb 12
Tam, you should always be strong and have the courage to overcome any problem. Your case had reminded me back regarding my recently problem, where my mother needs to have an urgent eye surgeries for both of her eyes. Because her diabetics gone high and almost makes her goes blind. It is indeed she was lucky and able to stay fine after the surgeries. Most important is pray more and stay strong. I am sure through prayer, the doctor will be able to heal your nephew's illness soon.
@MaryLynn321 (2680)
• United States
8 Feb 12
Prayers go out to your Nephew and all of his family members. It is so difficult to see our loved ones so ill. I hope and pray that he pulls through.
It is so good of you to be able to be there for your brother.
Take care and God Bless.
Hugs
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
1 Mar 12
I'm so sorry to hear that your nephew is going through all of this. The pain to see someone suffer is undescribeable. I hope that he will be able to pull through this. For you and his parents I'm sure it is so hard to cope with all of this. Continue to pray and ask for strength during this difficult time. It has been for weeks since you posted how is he now?
@juggal0Xx420 (509)
• United States
28 Feb 12
i am sorry to hear about this and hope he makes it,please be sure to let us know what happens.
