Ok this is worrying me

@jazel_juan (15747)
Philippines
February 8, 2012 6:03pm CST
Had been experiencing symptoms lately and i went to my ob yesterday for check up. We laid down what i have been experiencing and she told me that - all of those are signs of cervical cancer. But there is not confirmation yet as i need my papsmear. So i will be having my papsmear the coming week. She said not to worry as early detection will be helpful. All me and hubby can do right now is pray. no one knows other than him and my bestfriend and well...everyone here in mylot. I just need to get this out because i want to cry.
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17 responses
• Canada
9 Feb 12
In 2007, I went through a scare myself. My smear turned out to be abnormal. I had no symptoms, just an infection that turned into this. It was scary, the wait was horrible. I had to go for treatment, and that was the worst part of it. But the treatment got it, and that's what matters. It may have changed my life, but I don't let it get to me. Because it was caught early enough, I can still have kids, and that's what I want. You should be fine since it was caught early.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
i sure do hope it is just a scare!
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@iwrite (5034)
• Singapore
9 Feb 12
I hope everything will turn out well, you will be in our prayers.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
9 Feb 12
That is sad news! I'm so sorry. Hopefully you can beat it. Many have done so.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
9 Feb 12
You might find this interesting. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=laqqF_IPvuI&feature=mfu_in_order&list=UL
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
yes, i am hopeful mr.hopefulman
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
Hi! I don't know how bad you're feeling right now, but I hope you still keep up with high hopes. I am with you in hoping and praying for a good result. Please be strong.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
i am good choy, thanks for the concern. Well i am really praying for good results but i tend to worry a lot
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
9 Feb 12
Oh, we are sorry to hear that, and we all hope you will get well soon. That is nothing for sure yet, so you still have hope for that. Do get yourself so down, and you will get it straight out. Take care yourself that is the most important part. Don't get yourself worry about that anymore.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
Thanks king, well yes i am such a worry wart..but i am trying my best not to think of it.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
hi there! i know its not easy but worrying will not help you and will cause your cells to be weak too. just keep on praying. remember that God is good and He will never let you in a situation when you can't handle it. make your self healthy by exercising and eating healthy foods. don't eat foods that will have cancer cells more healthy. eat rich in antioxidant foods like broccoli. pray and pray because it really works. God bless.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
9 Feb 12
1) Prayer is good. 2) You need lots of nutritious food to fight the cancer. Lots of fresh fruits, vegetables and greens. Fresh and raw is best. 3) Lots of exercise is also necessary. All the best!
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
True. prayer do work wonders. I am finding courage in God and the people around me.
@SassyBrat (463)
• Canada
9 Feb 12
I really wish your doctor had examined you before saying what they "think" this could be. I mean now you have to wait and pray and hope that it is not cervical cancer. This seems so unfair to you and your husband. Not to mention the waiting time for the test results to come back. Sometimes, I really wish doctor's would think before they speak!!
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
Actually i was the one who told her the symptoms and she ie'd me..and there were blood actually. more of it. So many symptoms led to that conclusion. Though she didn't really confirm it. But i did ask her to what would the possible causes of it and the likes. I need to hear it from her rather think of it all by myself. But then again. I am praying it isn't cancer.
@swirlz (3136)
• Philippines
10 Feb 12
If only I could come home earlier to be with you. You will always be in my prayers though, and as I've trust in God before, I'm putting my trust in Him now.
@swirlz (3136)
• Philippines
11 Feb 12
You're right. More time for praying.
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
11 Feb 12
It is ok, i understand :) be happy for i know you have achieved something BIG. Do not worry much about me as i am in God's Hands :) I trust Him too. The results won't be in till after a two weeks...so there is still a long wait and long time for praying.
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@sql_cell (1427)
• Indonesia
9 Feb 12
I hope you do not worry, maybe you can do now is pray, and do not despair. each event is always a silver lining. sometimes we just are not ready to accept something bad. but we still have to accept it, as we received the good news. possible to see many people worse off than you, can make you be more grateful and more excited again.
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
i know that my friend. That is why i prefer to laugh more now, be happy rather than be despair, I pray and wait for best results.
@sql_cell (1427)
• Indonesia
22 Feb 12
That is good. Good things will always come to you, if you always pray, grateful, and do good. There is nothing you need to worry, as long as you are always on the right path.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
jazel I don't want to be emotional or to over re-act. But, I am deeply touched with mylotters since yesterday. Tamir is also facing crucial situation- her nephew is fighting for life. And now here you are... okay.. let's make things lighter. follow your doctor and please, update us with the result. let's pray - God is just waiting for us to ask HIS help
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
Yes i barely can't sleep. I try to keep it off my mind but i guess it is there at the back of my mind and it still creeps back. I try not to discuss it with my husband because he doesn't want to. all he says is let us be happy for now and pray and wait for results. Everytime we mention it we both feel like crying but i try not to exaggerate about it, it might just be nothing. SO yes being positive helps. thank you both Letran and Jai.
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
I agree with you Sis-Jaiho, you should go on with the check up and see results, predicting too much can cause you stress indeed.we don't want to contribute the stress but we prefer giving you support and advice for positive outlook on life.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
9 Feb 12
Hi jazel_juan This seems to be a rough time. But dont worry dear. I have read some of your earlier discussions and I have found that you are quite a strong person with a positive mind set. I am sure this will help you win over the disease if it exists. Prayers and Wishes for a Healthier you
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
10 Feb 12
Hi sids, i believe that is why God gave me this trial..to see how stronger i'll get. I am setting my mind to making myself stronger and a better person.
@Archaiwy (599)
• China
9 Feb 12
don't be worried.maybe it's not true.gloomy mood will affect your health.no matter what the result is, keeping a good mood will help .meanwhile ,doing some exercise may also play a positive role.
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
yes i am directing to a healthier lifestyle now..i still believe it is never too late
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
Hi Jaz... I hope you'll be just fine. I'll pray for you. You know, things may not always be what they seem. Two years ago, I was crushed when my father's doctor said that he needs further diagnosis (ERCP) to determine what is causing the big swell in his gall bladder. And, at the onset, he said that the diagnosis seem grim. Actually, it was so grim that the first time we went to the family doctor, she immediately sent us to a specialist. And from the Xray, that doctor highly suspected cancer and so immediately wanted to do the ERCP. It was so shocking and I felt like the world was spinning and my mom was not there with us, so, I had to be the one to tell her that there is a very big possibility my dad could have cancer. All we had were prayers and the slight chance that the ERCP will reveal us a different diagnosis as the Xray. And, true enough, the ERCP revealed it to be a very huge gallstone that had clogged the bladder and all that was needed was to remove the bladder. So, I'm sharing our story to help you give hope. And, as I said, I'll be praying for you.
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@eljayo (1105)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
Hi! Prayer is the most effective thing to do. Keep seeing the doctor and be strong , you will be able to surpass this. Cry if you have too,let out your worry in your prayers.Be strong.God has a purpose for this.
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
Yes, i also believe in that - That everything that is happening has reasons. Maybe God knows i will surpass this and it will strengthen me and my family more and bring us a lot more closer.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
9 Feb 12
Hi jazel_juan. Oh it is not the end of the world if you do have it, as your OB said the earlier the detection is the better, and I'm sure you caught it in time if you do have it confirmed. Let us know that the results are, and keep us posted. Thinking of you. I have a very good friend now going into surgery soon for cancer too.
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
I know Nail, it isn't the end of the world, But it is a great worry for me especially i still have three small kids.. will tell you the results when it is done.
• India
15 Feb 12
HI Jazel If detected early cure is certainly possible, well you must get tested by well known gynecological-specialists of your place, only after that you may go for treatment.. Best of luck, have faith on God, he will help you. I will pray for you too. Professor
@Lhenni (1242)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
Follow all your doctors direction and be sure to take all of your medication as prescribed. Let's hope for a good news then, Jaze *sigh!
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
Thank you Lhenni, and i am sorry for the late reply as i am not online that much at night. I am really hoping for a good news.
@naldyo (16)
• Philippines
12 Feb 12
I've been to that situation before. But don't worry have faith in God, God makes miracle. Please don't hesitate to seek 2nd, 3rd or even 10th opinions until your convinced that its really is it.