Secret Of Success In Life

@mobhomeir (7558)
Philippines
February 9, 2012 6:08pm CST
Hello guys..for the past few months of facing life's trial and problems I stumbled what they've said Secret Of Life Success. 1.) DON'T COMPLAIN: Instead of complaining of anything you do not like find a solution or if you have nothing to contribute constructively better keep your mouth shut. It is just like turning negative thoughts to positive. I think it is right, because by keeping on complaining it creates arguments that could spark trouble. 2.) DON'T BLAME or "KEEP PASSING THE BUCKET": No body's perfect every one fails and commit mistakes. Instead of pointing others for your fault accept the responsibility of the fault you've made or any untoward incidents authored by you. 3.) DON'T JUSTIFY: Our thinking is the result of our own perception, judgment, experience, and bias. Our brain distorts reality to increase our self-esteem through self-justification. People perceive themselves readily as the origins of good effects and reluctantly as the origins of ill effects. We present a one-sided argument to ourselves. Great and Successful people suggested to perfect these for 21 days and if you commits one mistake you go back to day one. I've tried this, and yes, it was really nice feeling but since I am not use to it I committed lots of failure and back to day one again. I will suggest you must try it and perfect it for just 21 days and you will experience and feel a whole new life of your own. (as what they said because I never been on that 21 days) The feeling is really good but the consistency of doing it sometimes failed and you have to be backed again. Mobhomeir here..
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universe2o6
@universe2o6 (356)
• Brazil
10 Feb 12
Very nice, I love these insparational frases, I think everybody needs to see, hear or think about them once in a while!
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mobhomeir
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
10 Feb 12
Hi universe..yeah and though it is no longer a secret but not all people realize that...if they read it am sure some of them never care for that because practically it is really hard to master it... Thanks for responding my friend.. Nice day ahead... Mobhomeir here...
mobhomeir
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
10 Feb 12
I strongly agree with that Humersadat I think you have a positive mind settings..keep it up friend.. Thanks for responding.. Mobhomeir here..
humerasadat
@humerasadat (73)
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10 Feb 12
complaining and whining just makes us stop enjoying the good phases in life.I had read somewhere that if we stop expecting every thing to happen they way we want,and start accepting the things how they are,we can enjoy life.life is too short to whine and complain.So just accept life,hug it,and you can make it run smooth by thinking positively.
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ladyfeli
@ladyfeli (52)
• Malaysia
10 Feb 12
You really try on this your write up Mob,i must say. Of a truth it does not matter how many times you fall while climbing, what count is what as been your achievement so far? Of a truth if one sit at a spot and complain from now till years, it will rather add to pain and end up in self pity. Secondly, if person keep blaming him/her self on past error, tell such an individual to look back in the next minute,those that are worst than him before have overtake. And thirdly, if you sat justifying yourself, then look forward and see those that are not up to you in age and are better off you in many aspect. Therefore let us rise up to our challenges and let not your situation dictate you, Of a truth you have power over any circumstance. Note that No matter the economy of the jungle a lion will never eat grass,it is not a pride, it is just it's kind of being and what you name your child is what the world will call him, then why not encourage yourself and be bold like a lion. Let go of your pain of the past and Stop complaining,blaming yourself and others,justifying or judging yourself because you are not in the past anymore so you can hold on to your future i know you can do it.
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mobhomeir
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
10 Feb 12
Hi ladyfeli good day...i strongly agree with you..i think we have same positive mind setting..keep it up.. Thanks for responding.. Mobhomeir here..
ladyfeli
@ladyfeli (52)
• Malaysia
10 Feb 12
You are welcome Mobhomeir, i believe that with this we can safe lives so let us keep it up, You have done a good job.
sukumar794
@sukumar794 (5040)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
10 Feb 12
Developing capacity to cope up with differing situations is all that needs to gain success in life.Better not get dejected, but be jolly and face the grim realities of life with true vigor.
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mobhomeir
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
10 Feb 12
Yes my friend I believe you on that..thanks for responding.. Mobhomeir here
GemmaR
@GemmaR (8517)
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10 Feb 12
I think that the most important thing that you can do in your life is not give up. Some people just give up far too easily and this means that they never manage to achieve the things that they should probably be able to if they were able to put the right amount of effort in. I have worked hard through my whole life and, while my progress has been rather slow at times, I have realised that hard work will pay off in the end when I am able to support my family well and to the best of my ability just as I have always dreamed that it would be.
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mobhomeir
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
10 Feb 12
Hello Gemmar...i agree with you..there's a saying that goes..."Work and Work and you can not escape the reward"..i think you can get that from your determination to achieve your goal...Keep it up.. Thanks for responding.. Mobhomeir here..
kiran8
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
10 Feb 12
Hi mobhomeir, I would fully agree with that.We have but one life and as you grow older you realise that life is too short and there is no point in wasting it away in trivialities.One should learn to make the most of it and live life to the fullest.The tips you have given above and have practiced are very practical.I am sure that it would make us better equipped to deal with life - all the best and happy mylotting
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mobhomeir
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
10 Feb 12
Hello kiran..glad to hear you again..yes you're right..life is so short we must live to the fullest by enjoying it without anyone being stump by us... Thanks for responding my friend... Mobhomeir here...
bingskee
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
10 Feb 12
interesting. i will keep this in mind. we are all prone to breaking rule no. 2 as it is the easiest thing to do at times.
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mobhomeir
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
10 Feb 12
Hi bingskee that's true...but constant practice makes you to achieve it.. Thanks for responding my dear friend...Nice day ahead.. Mobhomeir here..
ckyera
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
10 Feb 12
Hi Daddy Mob! Well just keep on trying till you succeed! and also I think that we also need some luck. And the most important is the help and guidance of our God... I wonder if Armil already do it? haha He looks successful in his works now, and he also has a lot of things like this, you know the secrets on being successful and a millionaire! haha Miss you daddy Mob!
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mobhomeir
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
10 Feb 12
Yes eloimi..it's so funny even him (armil) admitted he never get it perfectly but he never stop on doing it consistently to make it to be almost perfect...hope you try it also..its really exciting and challenging..mind you..its really fun.. Thanks for responding.. Mobhomeir here..
Yanzalong
@yanzalong (18988)
• Indonesia
10 Feb 12
Yes, it's easier said than done. We still complain when things don't show up as we expect. We still pass the bucket when asking whose responsibility it is. It's great tip, bro. Thank for that.
ladyfeli
@ladyfeli (52)
• Malaysia
10 Feb 12
Hi Yanzalong,yes it's easier said if i may quote you but as human that we are,i think it is normal to complain. The only problem there is that what step have you taken to correct your mistake? sitting at a point murmuring is like such an individual is prolonging the evil days because what you left undone can never be done by no one but you. Remember that a day wasted on others is not wasted on one's self, i mean a wasted time is a wasted life.
haopee
@haopee (493)
• Philippines
10 Feb 12
Amazing, you did this for 21 days? That took some patience and will. Good for you. At the moment, I'm just taking it slow with my life. Partially because I don't anything else to do and partially because there are some things I want to experience. By this I mean, I am exploring the things that I've not experienced in my childhood, especially arts and crafts. Consistency towards a good thing is good. And if you fail, just go back to day 1.
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mobhomeir
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
10 Feb 12
Hello haopee nice to hear you back also. NO..i never make it yet..though you have to perfect it for just 21 days..i admit it is really very hard because one mistake would obliges you to go back to square 1...but i believe in the saying.."constant practice makes you to be almost perfect" (nobody's perfect you know..) Take care..and thanks also for responding... Mobhomeir here..
jethdale
@jethdale (156)
• Philippines
10 Feb 12
this is really true. Because if we keep on complaining, we loss our time finding some solutions on improving our life and we get attached to the problem. We should never blame others because that will lead somebody thinking of us as an obstacle and not a blessing. Never justify not unless it exist. We should avoid presuming a lot. Instead work for the goal at all cost. Lucky of you to have it in 21 days. Your'e a very objective in reaching your goals in life
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mobhomeir
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
10 Feb 12
Hello jethdale you're absolutely right...i strongly agree with you..but sad thing until now I admit i never reach 21 days yet..since the rule said..go back to day one once you commit one mistake ... until you make it to be almost perfect.. Thanks for responding positively my friend..appreciate it.. Mobhomeir here..
wangg721
@wangg721 (4)
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10 Feb 12
That sounds not true. Personally, I think the strong psychological trenthes, emotion and stress management pulse the good problem solving are the key of success.
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mobhomeir
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
10 Feb 12
Yeah...i respect your point of view my friend..I would never complain as what I had stated and what we are talking about here... SEE? no point of creating some hated arguments when there;s no complain..Peace my friend.. Thanks my friend for responding... Mobhomeir here..