"You're too good for me. I feel you deserve more. "
By didi13
@didi13 (2926)
Romania
February 10, 2012 11:11am CST
"You're too good for me," said he, humble man and aware of your splendor, beauty and your intelligence. Although it? And how good we feel when we hear this phrase, is not it? But to be realistic, if you were too good for him, would you take with both hands.
Dear women, whatever you had before you a man with whom you spent a year of life, two, three, more or less and said some existing stereotypes, and you've thought? Then, after you have addressed the issue cold, you realized you made ??a mistake. You realized that you were abandoned again with a smile on his face, telling you falsehoods and phrases repeated before the mirror. And as many times, we promised that we will not fall into the "net" and second, that the next time we will be more alert and open eyes. And there came a second time, repeated the same scene and we woke up one, left behind a general reason "with me feel that you have the chance to evolve." And we are strong as we raised heart on the floor, I put a nice place and went away. And you know why I went? Because we are too good for some men who can not give up some stereotypes.
Dear husband, do not know the reason you break up the woman you loved, does not know if it is a good reason or not. But I do know is that this woman deserves more than a trivial explanation, cheap and commercial, "You're too good for me. I feel I deserve more ". If you deserve something more, do try to be more. If it's too good for you, be happy that you have and cherish it for what it is. But I am convinced that if you do not you leave it. Next time you open your mouth to say a stereotype, think twice. Think carefully because unfortunately, words can not be taken back. Or wounds that do.
Next time life partner, or person to whom you love, you say that you deserve something better, go right. That is, even deserve something better than someone who is not tired to tell you the truth. You deserve something better than a person leave you without a logical explanation, making yourself feel guilty for being successful in life or because "you're too good for him." Do not waste your time tears as people who do not deserve even a tear of yours. Next time you see him, smile and tell them serene: "You were right. I am much too good for you ".
3 responses
@smacksman (6053)
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11 Feb 12
The alternative for him to say is :-
A) nothing at all and just vanish. From the man's point of view, the easiest way. Just drop you a line later to say you have gone.
B) I've had enough of you. You drive me mad. I've found another woman who is half you age and who adores me.
C) Try to be gentle and break it to you without shouting ie. 'You're too good for me ... blah, blah, blah...
Whichever way - he's gone. At least with method C you have a chance to respond!
@smacksman (6053)
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11 Feb 12
Sorry Kittie, I don't understand the reason for your link.
Are you asking for my advice with your friends problem in your discussion?
@rajthingom (20)
• India
11 Feb 12
Some people make hasty decisions and the results lead to wrong. as we born in human being, we always try to give more spaces to ourselves for rethinking.There is no one on this earth who does not make mistake. We live our life with something right and something wrong, that's make a smooth life. No one can give certainty that he/she will do all the right things. Maybe he/she is right in their own position, but that thing might be wrong for another person. Though every body on this earth always try to give best to his activities or alternately good people sometime make mistakes, but such type of mistakes he/she might not have done intentionally. But we must always remember that we are not God, we should have the capability to forgive someone's mistake, we must think deeply and should not make hasty decisions to judge some one else.
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
11 Feb 12
It look as though mr. man only force to stay with woman because she lonely alone. What she failed to know is the man do not live up to her expectations. She bit the bait on the man's appearance but did not bother checking his other traits. Then as response, in observing that the woman find him good only in appearance he say, "you deserve better". I could be wrong but I think its close. The annoying thing is, the man can not refuse her when she fell in love with him because he know the woman need his love although its all love and not marriage in his head.
