I Just Wish I Had ?????

I wish I hadn't chosen to move back to my home town. If I had decided to stay in Palembang, my sure things would be a lot better by now. Yesterday I plan to buy smartfrend mobile phone. I took a look at it and got interested in having it. I told the seller I'd back there again this afternoon. When I came back there again, the phone seller had alrady gone. If only I'd arrived a little earlier,.........

Before I really do into too much here, I have to admit that I really do love my husband and I love the life that I've been able to lead thus far. However, I kind of wish that when I was faced with a decision when I was 21 years old that I might have made a different decision. You see, right when I started talking to Tom (that's my husband), my ex-boyfriend called me and wanted me to come see him (we hadn't talked in almost two years). At that time, he wanted to tell me that he loved me and he wanted to see if we could make things work between the two of us. Well, I didn't understand his intentions and if I had then things in both of our lives would probably be different today. Sometimes I wish that I might have made the other decision, but then I also realize that I wouldn't have my two wonderful children, my husband and my home.

So far so good on the regrets thing here..at least anything major that I felt like messed up my life or that I would never have the chance to do it. I have a lot of hopes and dreams. Some of them have been postponed by certain choices and events but I just haven't been able to bring myself to the point of accepting it is too late for anything. I do think that hopes and dreams have a way of evolving and the things we once wanted to do may not be things we would want to do or try now. That is different though and I don't feel loss because of it. Great discussion!

If I had known that there can be jealousy among siblings I would have handled them all differently. I would announce my successes happily assuming that they would all be happy but the results turned out to be unpleasant. Its too late now and I have to live with the fact that atleast one of my siblings was never happy with my successes.

well....there are many things which i feel i should have done in the right time. but, as of now, i am happy and content with my life.let bygones be bygones. there is no point in thinking about them now.

greeting to mylotters.... yes...this is my time to keep my parents happy. they have struggled a lot from my childhood to keep me happy. this is my right time to keep them happy. im doing my final sem engineering. once i finish my studies i get into a very good job and fulfill all my parents needs which they keep aside for my bright further.....

It's never too late, depending on what it is. I hate when people think they are 'too old' to go back to school, to start a craft, or start a business of their own, etc. I thought about your question, and actually, I have been very blessed and lucky to have fulfilled a lot of the things I wanted to do. I moved to another state, 1700 miles away from my home state, I was fortunate enough to have my dream job, while I lived there, working for the forest service as a wildland firefighter. I have 2 grown daughters that have learned, it's not always easy, but can be very worth the effort. I still have dreams and wishes to fulfill, but I am working toward those coming true, oh and I just turned 52 in January!

I am a divorced woman..over 30 years....I wish somewhere along the line I had found someone to spend the rest of my life with. After my divorce I didn't date until the kids were basically grown up.....I thought that their lives were more important.....raising them was my main focus....maybe it just wasn't meant to be....who knows.

Somethings I know that I can't change. I wouldn't say it's because it's a dream that I can longer pursue but it's because I've already made certain decisions that not only affect my life but others as well. There are goals that I think I should have pursued earlier but then I didn't know exactly what I wanted to pursue. And now I'm still trying to make sure that a certain career is right for me. So I soon will start now a road I hope will help me with a good career choice.

I used to have a list as long as my arm that i would have changed to make my life more affluent or comfartable. but that all changed 10 years ago after the birth of my daughter. now i would change absolutely nothing or that could result in me taking a different path and never meeting my wife and the joys of bring up my daughter. and that iwould not change for anything in the world.

Yes, it's never too late. If you want to undo the past, and make out for it, then do it. I've regretted a lot of things in my life. I've done some stupid things in my life. And i hate myself for doing it. But what i did is that, i truly accepted my mistakes in life, and started to do things right. I set my own path now, i chose people who i can really trust and can help me to go the right path. So now, i think i'm ok with my life. What i did before, was my past. I cannot go back anymore, so i'll have to face my future.

i had regret,i wish i was able to continue my study. But it's never late than ever i will pursue it, this coming school.after 10years i will continue my study.even i'm old already