How will you feel if you are staying with someone you dont like?

There's a simple solution to your problem. Move out of your place and find some place else you're comfortable in. You are tolerating whatever it is that you don't like about this specific person and more often than not, it will not do you any good. I'm just wondering though, why you haven't had the guts to get out and find some place else. Is this person a long time friend, partner, relative or what? On the other way around, think of why you are still staying with that person in order for you to fully understand why you're staying with him or her. As for me, back in college, I had to deal with some issues with roommates and at times I really dislike annoying roommates, too loud and to noisy. I like my room to be quiet and peaceful especially when I had to study. So, when I've had enough of that tolerance, I just decided to move out peacefully and tell my friend that I need to have my own room, my own place. It turned out for the better.

Oh no! I can relate to your situation, Dorothy! But lucky me, I don't have to stay in the same house with that person. Actually, I always wanted to tell her how annoying/irritating she can be but I don't want to sound cruel. That's why I just keep quite, go-with-the-flow and pray that I will have a lot more patience. However there are really times, when she acts like she doesn't feel that I don't like her. And I hate it! I just avoid her, and I know also some people avoiding her too because of her bossy, inconsiderate traits. We've been friends for many years now, but for me, I couldn't consider her close to my heart just like my other friends. I hope she matures a bit. Oh well. Good luck to us, Dorothy! Let's just try to be good with these people we don't like because how we treat others will also reflect to us.

Why are you staying with him? I don't understand that part. Is it school where everyone stays at the hostel? Or is he a relative? Your brother? Someone you can't move out from? I don't stay with someone that I don't like. I don't see the point in doing that.

Hi, Dorothy, this is a very strange case. You say that you are in a foreign country because you wanted to help your friend. But your friend put you in an uncomfortable situation. This was supposed to be temporary but it lasts two years. All I can say is that you are too patient. But if you feel bad you should just ask your friend to find another place for you.

That will be the worst place to live for me. Are you working or you are schooling? I would suggest to you to look for another place to live or someone else you can stay with if you can.

According to description of your situation a should recommend you to find solution as soon as possible. If there is some change to move from your current place, try it. If not, you should think about changing your attitude to this situation. Try to find look on that person in different way, find something what is nice about him or her. I think that should be working. Because If you do not change anything, you will be living in your own jail.

I have been in such kind of situation for more than three years. I do not like one of my roommate during college time, but i can not get rid of her. So I suffered more than three years until graduate from school. It is hard to face the one you do not like and have to live or work with him. But treat him as air, that can help me feel much better. As a adults' world, you have to suffer such situation.

I guess you either have to move out or learn to cooperate. I couldn't imagine living with someone I didn't like. Maybe you can pick up hours at work or do something so that you don't cross paths as often. Good luck to you....

wow its a horrible situation. honestly, i will not stand it like for two years? did he did something wrong to you that you hated him that much? anyway, you can make it better by at least talking to him and find ways to like him even for just a little.

Hello dothy172, Its really shocking that you have spent 2 years with him.If i were in your shoes i would have moved to different place with in days.Its not that easy to live with a person whom i don't like. Dorothy but what is it which forced you stay with him for those 2 years.Are you depenedent on him?

I've been in your shoes too and its very hard.You've sacrificed too much for that person.I don't think I can do that and its not that easy to tell that person what you really feel.It may hurt his feelings.In my case,most of the time,I can't stick to a single person for a long time,I get bored sometimes.I have this attitude that I get weary more often to a person.It's like sometimes I like being with them,sometimes I don't.I don't know why but this is who I am.But not to all people actually because there are people who I love to hang out and be with.But there are things which are difficult to explain.You get irritated to that person well in fact,he/she didn't do anything bad or not an intention to do so.It's just that seeing that person makes your day almost miserable.

If you do not like to stay with that person then you should move out. Why have you been waiting for 2 years and tolerating this situation for so long. If you do not like shring the house with that person then I suggest you to start looking for another place to move but if it is not possible for you to go anywhere else then it is best for you to be patient...

no one should ever have to put up with that, and life is far to short so you should be looking to move out the house if you can.

Well I don't really have a person that I don't like so this might not be as applicable to me. I think I would try to understand the person more if I didn't like them.

that's really pathetic to stay with someone we dont like.Its really frustrating experience .I wont suggest you and anyone to stay with anyone whom you dont like yes believe me . I cant stand such person for long time yes for short time it may do with some adjustment but not for long term Hare Krishna Ganesh

Dear friend, I believe we are living, you and me more or less the same situation. I live in a family with a person with whom I am not at all well. In short, there are always problems between me and him. I am going through very bad situation, I realize that but right now I do not have "in hand" any tools to avoid to get away from him. So I sadly resigned to live with day after day. I hope that sooner or later things will resolve. With this I can understand what you are feeling at the moment.

You're just living in a place like hell. I find it to be uncomfortable to be with someone who isn't your type. If you really can't take his attitude then why is it that you lasted for around two years. If I were in your shoes, I will assess first myself on what's the reason that I don't like to stay with him.

I completely understand what your going through! I have to stay with people I do not like either because I do not have the money to get out yet... I am working on getting my own place, I am looking for a job so I know how you feel! I am sorry. =( I hide in my room too...

hm @dorothy if i have case seems your condition,i will try to ask myself -what harm and luck for me ,if i not talk to him?

in my opinion i will not resist to show him or her with my behaviour how much i can't be familiar with him/her