Were You Ever Hurt by love ???
By udaykarthik
@udaykarthik (152)
India
February 11, 2012 2:08am CST
Were you ever hurt in Love. Like when you proposed someone and they said No.
What do you do and what is the best thing you could do. I mean it is just difficult to digest the fact that you were rejected. And when it is true Love. What should we do ???
Please help me Out.
5 responses
@lovelysofie (294)
• Indonesia
11 Feb 12
yes i ever feel it.i try to smile when he rejected my love.in my mind i think the boy not only him in this world.Better we go to see the future with smile and forget about our rejected love.Find new love.I think to be single is better than have boyfriend or girl friend.
@udaykarthik (152)
• India
11 Feb 12
Well Love is not an everyday thing that when you got rejected just go and try for someone else. It is something precious right. We can try and smile, but, inside our hearts we truly cry.
@lovelysofie (294)
• Indonesia
12 Feb 12
Yes u right.maybe sometimes we feel depresion but life must go on.See the future with smile.
@udaykarthik (152)
• India
15 Feb 12
Even that is quite true.Life must go on no matter what. Its not like that you stop breathing when rejected. Yes your heart may stop for a moment or two when you were rejected. But then it should go on just fine. But the broken heart may need time to mend to. But eventually you should go on.
@phoenix89 (385)
• India
11 Feb 12
I think almost everyone in this world had their heart broken at least once in lifetime, and I am not an exception.
It is hard to accept any refusal. And I think it is even harder to accept the fact that she loves someone else.
The feeling is like the whole world has just crashed down. It is so painful I think it can not be expressed easily in words. Only the heart broken person can feel it.
@udaykarthik (152)
• India
15 Feb 12
Yes, no matter what type of relation it is, each and everyone of ous would have had their heart broken at least once in their lifetime. Be it be friends, or in love or in other relationships. The moment of rejection is a very hard experience to digest so soon. You might take days, weeks, months or even years to get over it. And yet another blow will be when she is already in love with someone lese already. Seriously as you have said the whole world crashes before us.
@irene66 (1669)
• Philippines
12 Feb 12
I had a share of that "hurt love" thing in the past too.
However, I learned my lesson and started to to hurt my lovers too 
No, that is a joke only!
I think it is but normal to be hurt at times.
This is especially when you have a "short tie" as they say.
I mean, if you do not make your understanding wider to understand other people.
But anyway, that is a part of being in a relationship.
Most often, they say, you learn from it and besides it serves to spice you up
No, that is a joke only!
I think it is but normal to be hurt at times.
This is especially when you have a "short tie" as they say.
I mean, if you do not make your understanding wider to understand other people.
But anyway, that is a part of being in a relationship.
Most often, they say, you learn from it and besides it serves to spice you up@udaykarthik (152)
• India
15 Feb 12
It is sad to hear that you had to go through a situation like this. At the same time am happy that you got over it.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
11 Feb 12
Being hurt by love is a very painful thing. It is best to give yourself time to deal with what has happened. Keep yourself busy with activities that take your mind off your situation. Spend lots of time with family and friends that way you avoid isolating yourself. It takes time to get over a broken heart. So allow yourself the time that you need to adjust. Then you will be in a better position to have your heart open for another chance to find love without being bitter about your past relationship.
@udaykarthik (152)
• India
11 Feb 12
That is well said. A broken heart is very hard to mend. giving oneself time is a good way that pays off. Keeping our self busy and occupied with other things and spending time with others will also work for sure. But, even after you get over it, you will still have those memories coming back to you. But, then that is the only way you can try and get over with.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
6 Apr 12
I agree the memories will definitely be there. We can't really get rid of the memories. They are apart of us and have helped to make us who we are. Even when we don't like those memories. But we can continue to work on our feelings. We will be happy that we have worked hard at it.
@ayush9507 (40)
• India
7 Apr 12
i never suffered from such athing but relly i can feel hws it hurt you but dont be loose hope and their is always a way so dont worry and concentrate on your life and god will definitely send a girl who loves u most
