Not Celebraring Valentine's Day!

I absolutely hate this holiday and wish they would just abolish it! I think it is all a waste of time. I am over it and I am sick of even hearing about it. I hated this holiday all of my life. Even in school my friends and I made a Valentines Day haters club, lol.

my husband and i don't celebrate the day, we celebrate our love every day. this year, we both have to work, different shifts. out of the 24 hr day, we might get 4 hrs together. it's one of those holidays, we just kind of ignore. we just finished celebrating christmas...our first date anniversary is coming up next month. my birthday is in april. our wedding anniversary/mother's day is in may. then it's his birthday/father's day in june. next we have fourth of july. next thing we know here comes august with school supplies. we can deal without celebrating valentine's day.

I would say nothing... If my partner, if there is ever gonna be any, says NO then I would say alright... We will celebrate it some other day, when she is comfortable... Like her B'day or mine... Or the first anniversary! It is unlikely however to imagine about celebrating or not celebrating the big day for me... There is no valentine and never will be any... LOL, what is the point? I knew this before starting to write here... Still I wanted to express what would I do, if I was lucky enough... LOL...

In fact it is difficult for man to do the right thing in the Valentine's Day. You are right. Buying gifts is a waste of money. And the girls also tend to say no to it. However, if their boy friends really listen to them and not buy anything or celebrate this festival, then the girls will mind it:) I heard something funny. The housewives ask the husbands to buy cauliflower since they also look like flower. And it is eatable. So it will not be a waste anyway:) I love China

Am a loser this valentines But that's okay I am fine and happy with it... when I was in college I don't have any boyfriend too and I am use to being alone. When I had a boyfriend, we normally celebrate it before that day too. So there is nothing really special going on that exact day. Besides, everyday can be a valentines day if we have a guy right

Valentine's day is just a nice occassion to show your love so it doesn't really have to be buying all sorts of gifts and flowers or going to a fancy restaurant. You can make it special just by spending time with your loved one such as having a nice meal at home in each other's company

I would probably be a bit disappointed....I love giving those I love gifts etc. and its another way that I can express how I feel about them. I don't have a boyfriend but will celebrate with my stamping club....making cards and having treats.....with friends!

I don't think i'll be seeing my boyfriend on valentines day because he'll be working but i'll still get him a card and that's it. We are going out tonight so i guess tonight could be the night we celebrate it. I'm not to fond of the holiday any how i just see it as another day of the week nothing to biggy. Why waste money on candy and flowers when they don't last long any how? As long as you have each other that's all that matters.

If i wanted m partner to celebrate Valentine's da I would have to remind him, then bu myself a card. it's just not the sort of thing he's ever likely to remember. but that's fine by me. This year i've decided that i will do something for him, but i know it'll be one sided and that's OK too. So if he said he was refusing to celebrate Valentine's Day I'd just be surprised he remembered it existed!

We don't really celebrate it so to speak either so it wouldn't bother me much if he exclaimed it. I think that everyday should be a day to appreciate the one you are with. Now I have never been one to turn down caramel and chocolate...that would be asking too much of me if he give me some of them...but he gets me those all the time so it wouldn't be a Valentines Day thing. He also gets me flowers pretty regularly. The kind you keep and grow though..not the ones you just throw away.

I don't have a loved one at the moment, but I would shrug it off. It's a commercial holiday anyway. It doesn't mean they don't love you, it just means they don't need to show it on this one day of the year that Hallmark and other big companies have us out buying things for. In a way I sort of thing it's a waste of time and/or money.

Well last year we didnt celebrate it. Well we went out to eat but that was it, we bought each other cards and didnt really give each other anything except funny things. This year i have bought my loved one a shirt and shorts outfit since last summer he ruines shorts so i have to buy him some new ones. And now i bought him a MIAMI HEAT shirt. Umm i got him a card from me and a card from my dog LOL. If he didnt wan to celebrate the day i wouldnt buy him anything at all and probably just give him a card and that would be it. I think its important to still show your love and through a card is easy at least. Just my thought but hope you guys do something together.

Well, I think Valentine's Day has become a business, because it will be sold a lot of gifts which you could give to your partner. However, there are people who like to celebrate this day and it's right. Moreover, I won't be angry if my partner refuse to celebrate that day.

I was always interested in celebrating valentine's day but my husband doesn't find it interesting at all.I keep asking him,"What will you gift me on this valentine's day?",but he never showed any interest and doesn't even believe in gifting on this occasion.I respect his values and opinions,i just want to tease him by asking that question every year.We love each other and WE need not express it separately.Hence i feel the culture being spread on valentine's day is a mere waste of time and money.

We didn't celebrate last year, which was our first Valentine's Day together. Given how the day ended up going, it was just as well. However, this year, we shall be celebrating the day. I bought a couple of nice gifts for my boyfriend (one quirky but practical; another is romantic), and I know that he has made plans.

If my partner said she did not want to celebrate this day, it would not affect me in the least. I have no feelings for this day anymore anyway. Although, all the Valentines that I did celebrate through the years with the ex, I do feel that T deserves to feel good about it. It's not something that is compelling by any stretch of the imagination. I wish she was the one I celebrated it with. So, we are going to dinner tonight. She does, like I said deserve it. And it really is all about the dinner. Not about Valentines day.

If they both love each other very much,why do they have to wait until this day comes and buy something to express their constancy to each other?

I would be a bit sad if my husband said he didn't want to celebrate a day of love with my and his daughter. But if I have to it'll be just us girls celebrating it.

i think showing love is not just the valentines' thing or buying presents thing! you can show it on the usual days or prepare a special gifts on his/her birthday. actually ,i would have to go through a single valentine's day,because,i'm still single

Hmm. Its okay, but honestly its disappointing. Still I'm gonna give him kisses and very tight hugsssss :)