My Classmate in College Cried
By cearn25
@cearn25 (3456)
Philippines
February 11, 2012 11:56pm CST
Yesterday we had a Seminar. It was a requirement for our Midterm Grade. This classmate of mine and I was partner for reservations committee since we are all divided for different tasks to make this event a successful one. In fact, we make sure all the reservations are done before the seminar day like the venue and equipment we will be using. We are very true to our task.
An hour before the seminar, my partner was already in school to get the things we reserved. We have this classmate which was assigned for the registration. Without any knowledge that my partner had already done its task, she kept on commanding my partner to get this and that. She added that she had done nothing but just only putting make up. My partner responded angrily to my classmate. She was badly hurt because of it. In fact, if not because of us, the seminar will not be a success. Because reservations are very important than anything else.
Up until now my classmate didn't apologize. She kept on saying she doesn't care about it. That it was just a joke. But for friendships sake, she should say sorry to my partner.
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4 responses
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
12 Feb 12
I'm a little confused. You were divided into committees and I suppose each committee has someone heading it. Was your bossy classmate the one heading the committee since she was ordering your partner around? If she wasn't, she was definitely out of line. Well, even if she was, I guess she owes your partner some sort of apology for being too bossy. I mean, there are more proper ways of asking people to do things aside from commanding them to do so.
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
12 Feb 12
You don't have to be confused. There are no leaders since we are divided into different committees. The professor is I think the leader though there is this another classmate which I think acting as leader or just being entrusted to manage the whole thing but not exactly the leader. The one who have hurt my classmate's feelings is not the leader. Indeed, she was over that time trying to pretend she is superior than the others.
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
16 Feb 12
Your partner should have told her everything is done instead of doing whatever that classmate told her to do. If she had that earlier, she would be spared from those incidents. Fault also lies in that classmate who just commands yet did nothing at all to help. IF she really does have the initiative, she ought to do it on her own, instead of relying on others. It's luck both of u managed to make the seminar a success, and the success belongs to u two. Whether that classmate wants to apologize, don't bother about it. It's belongs to the past now 
@jpso138 (7851)
• Philippines
18 Dec 12
Yes, your classmate thus owe and apology. From the way you say it, there was an argument after your classmate made the complain right. Meaning, your classmate already know that the person did do something rather than nothing at all. So it is clear that there is a need to apologize.
