Is it odd that he likes Whitney Houston?

@bingskee (5234)
Philippines
February 12, 2012 7:55am CST
My 19 yr old son is a fan of Whitney Houston. He was saddened by the news of her death. It was such a puzzle for him that her career had to go down because of doing drugs when she had almost everything. Some find it odd that he likes her, along with Alanis Morisette and some pop, classic, and blues singers. My son is not a typical teenager that go with the rap, or rock, genre, but I respect him for that. I admire him that he does not exert effort to blend in and be molded of what is currently hot, or the fad. Do you think it is odd that he likes Whitney Houston and her songs?
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15 responses
• Philippines
21 Feb 12
Nothing wrong with that. It just shows that your son has a wider, more mature and cultured taste in music. Whitney Houston was no ordinary singer. And her songs and albums were all bestsellers. She was not a one-hit-wonder. Kudos to your son for having taste!
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
4 Mar 12
he indeed has a 'cultured taste in music'. thanks, miadsoriano! how are you? glad to see your comment.
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
You're welcome. It's the truth!
@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
15 Feb 12
I don't find that odd at all. As a matter of fact lots of kids today are into the older music. I saw this new rock band online called The Black Veil Brides and I was watching an interview with them. And the lead singer listened to all the old bands from the 70's and 80's. He was into Kiss and Queen and Motley Crue. So, it is not out of the ordinary for your son to like the old stuff. Good for him.
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
16 Feb 12
that's good news, i think, that there is nothing wrong. as to young people being into older music, i had observed it, too. it makes me smile while i listen. one time, my son was playing aretha franklin's song. it is beautiful.
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@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
28 Feb 12
that is a nice observation, inertia. :-) i do believe, too, that it has not changed much.
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@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
19 Feb 12
Thats because there was substance to the old music. Unlike most of todays stuff. And another thing is that the generation gap has decreased. Like for example from my parents generation to mine, the entire world has changed, but from my generation to now, it has not changed that much. I grew up with radicalism and so are the children today. There is common ground there.
@CarlHalling (3617)
• United Kingdom
1 Mar 12
No, I don't. He seems to me to be a young man with an original view of music, which is positive. He doesn't just like what is fashionable. When I was his age, I liked Rock music of course, but I also liked Classical Music, and the Classic Popular Song/Jazz style music of Frank Sinatra, Peggy Lee et al, and Musical Comedy music and so on. I didn't restrict myself to what was on the Pop or even Album charts. History has provided us with a great wealth of music, why should we restrict ourselves to one genre, or whatever is on the Pop charts, or whatever. Whitney was a very talented singer; I wasn't a massive fan myself, but I recognise her great talent. I say good for your son, that he likes what he likes, rather than what he is supposed to like according to the trends.
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
4 Mar 12
hi, carl. thank you for the nice words. it sounds you and my son have something in common - an independent mind.
@LadyDulce (830)
• United States
13 Feb 12
I absolutely do NOT think it's odd. Whitney Houston was one of the most phenomenal vocalists of our time, so she understandably has a wide audience. Alanis Morisette is also amazing, right along with Amy Winehouse. Broad musical tastes should be a point of pride, especially when it shows that you think for yourself, instead of just following the general tastes of the day.
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
15 Feb 12
that's a nice description - phenomenal. heard it from my son once, too.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
12 Feb 12
Dear Ms. Bingskee No, I see no reason for anyone to think odd about this. Even me, I like a few foreign artistes and am more crazy about Shahrukh khan (Indian Bollywood Actor). It is quite natural for all of us to have some celebrity to follow up. The point that raises worry or concern is when we start emoting these celebs and follow them as ditto. I believe he is quite mature and sees and follows the good positives of the idol.
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
12 Feb 12
oh, thesids, no way my son will be emulating Whitney Houston. he is such a responsible child. it was only the talent that had him admiring.
@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
16 Feb 12
No need to get worry for your son, be open on real issues for him to understand what actually exist. Since he is responsible child I presume he would take things positively. Although, I'm not fun of celebrities but I do talk and admire few of them.
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
16 Feb 12
i admire some celebrities, too, but not to the point of idolizing. i know my son can handle things positively. he just felt sad but life has to go on as he always say.
• Philippines
13 Feb 12
of course not! We are allowed to like whatever we want. People sometimes have a stereotypical way of thinking which isn't good. Like if a person is fat, he/she eats alot. They think of that first without asking and it might turn out that person has some kind of disease. My point is, you should not judge a person based on what you don't know. He's unique and as his parent, you should be proud of him.
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
13 Feb 12
i am proud of him. stereotyping is truly annoying. some people have a limited sense of how they look at people. they believe that the world revolves around them and their opinions.
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
15 Feb 12
havent heard of Linsanity. Jeremy Lin is making a name. glad for him.
@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
14 Feb 12
Stereotyping is stupid as well. I don't know how much you follow the NBA, but have you heard of "Linsanity"? In short, Jeremy Lin was stereotyped by most in the NBA circle. No one would give him a chance because of his Asian descent. One desperate team finally did, and now those other teams can only wish they got him.
@youless (112561)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Feb 12
I don't think it is very odd. At first, Whitney Houston is an attractive singer and she has a great voice, too. Second, she has some very classical nice songs. So your son is a fan of her. Sometimes the generation gap is not available in the music field. I love China
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
13 Feb 12
my son tend to like or admire artists of the older genre.
@vandana7 (100524)
• India
13 Feb 12
Oh bingskee, I have to appreciate your son. Actually, we all have different set of likings as we grow up. :) Its so boring to be typical, right? :) And Whitney can be classified as one of those few who brought back classical western music from its grave.
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
13 Feb 12
i agree. it can sometimes be boring, V. she had left a mark that cannot be forgotten. Whitney is one of a kind.
• Philippines
13 Feb 12
I think its normal for teens to admire people who have done great works! I think your son is very talented and smart. ANd for sure he will be a remarkable person someday! God bless!
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
13 Feb 12
i agree. most teens admire people for a lot of reasons. i hope that my son will stay nice and smart as he is as time goes by with his feet on the ground. God bless you, too!
@jujunme (2501)
• United States
12 Feb 12
I don't think it's odd at all and you answered your own question when you mentioned that he isn't a "typical teenager" and that you admire him for this. Whitney was a wonderful talent and the fact that your son recognized this,shows he has very good taste in music and knows a great vocalist when he hears one.
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
13 Feb 12
i tend to agree to what you say that he has a very good taste in music. he might not be able to sing well but he recognizes an exceptional vocalist. he is such a critic of singers that do not have the right to be called singers, and they're a dime a dozen.
• Philippines
13 Feb 12
It's quite odd since he was really affected. I guess, he really admires him a lot and one of his favorites. I wasn't affected when I knew about it. She is really a great singer but I don't idolize her as much as your son do. Well, Whitney Houston is indeed a legend...a music legend... Happy Mylotting.
@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
13 Feb 12
I agree with everyone so far that it is not odd at all. He sounds like a sensitive young man. Actually, my first born would also falls into a non-typical teenager with the way he socializes. There were times that I'd worry; but, as long as he handles himself graciously, I'd understand that it is his personality.
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
13 Feb 12
you are right in saying that he is a sensitive young man, quite different from almost everybody his age and generation. we, as parents, tend to worry too much.
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@SassyBrat (463)
• Canada
12 Feb 12
I don't think it is odd at all. I suspect that there is something about her that he resonates with. Whether it be her voice, her choice in songs, the power in her gospel singing. Its hard to say, but I respect him either way for sharing his interests. I would be very happy if he were my son, in that he isn't a crowd follower, that he can be independent and think for himself and be content with his choices.
@olliekobra1 (1825)
13 Feb 12
Not at all, Whitney Houston had a powerful voice and her songs were timeless and its good that your son is an individual.
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
13 Feb 12
my son always mention the power in her voice. and yes, he has his own individuality.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
12 Feb 12
Be thankful that he likes Whitney Houston rather than Justin Bieber Kidding aside. It is not odd that he likes Whitney Houston especially her songs, I mean I remember my bro likes beatles where in fact my parents like their music too but to think that is already old enough for my bro. The songs of Whitney Houston are also good and appreciated by many people.