i need help

United States
February 12, 2012 7:02pm CST
i need help here i moved out of parents house to try to live own my own and it seems not to work out very good and i am having trouble trying to cope with the fact that this guy i am staying with is a friend of mine but it seems not to work out very good he is a very good friend and he is a chritain but he wants to talk to other girls while i am here wat am i suppose to do
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@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
14 Feb 12
You sound immature & confused. You leave the safety of your parent's house with no real plan on what you were going to do??? A guy you call "just a friend" gives you a place to stay & now you want make him exclusive??? He obviously only meant to help you out until you could get on your feet. He didn't ask you to be his girlfriend. So, you should just be THANKFUL you have such a good friend & leave him alone to date whoever he wants!!! If he's telling another girl that he loves her, I don't understand why you ask what you're supposed to do. It's as plain as the nose on your face. Get your act together, get your OWN place to live & move on with your life!!! Actually, if you didn't burn that bridge behind you, you really should move back home with your parents until you finally do grow up!!!
@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
14 Feb 12
Sounds like a GREAT idea to me!!! I'm sure your Mom could use some help!!!
• United States
14 Feb 12
oh she can is sick in the hospital and i appractie everything you have helped me with
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• United States
14 Feb 12
well i am moving back into my parents house because he just wants what every other guy wants from me and i don't want to give that to him so here i go and my mom is sick in the hospital and i am going there to be with her and hope she gets better it would be for the best right now
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
13 Feb 12
Hi leeannahewitt, I am a little confused...why is there a problem with him seeing other girls...Do you consider him a boyfriend or just a friend...You did say a friend of yours.. If there is no relationship there he should be able to see whom ever he wants, as well as you... I cana't see you and him staying together as boyfriends and girlfriend and he is just right out seeing other girls while you are there,,, Something is definatly wrong with this picture
• United States
13 Feb 12
i told him how i feel and he said the same thing back to me then he told this other girl how he loves her wat am i suppose to do
@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
13 Feb 12
Try growing up!!!
• United States
14 Feb 12
i am growing up but if he just told that he loves the other women maybe i woudn't teold him how i fel
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
13 Feb 12
Sounds like you want your cake, and eat it too! You can't have it both ways! Why can't he talk to other girls? Does living with him entitle you to tell him what to do? Are you not grateful to him for allowing you to live in his house? Are you paying your share to live there? Either give him his freedom, or move back in with your parents!
• United States
13 Feb 12
yes and i am giving him his fredom and he shouldn't tell these women that i am easy when i am not at all
@yanzalong (18988)
• Indonesia
13 Feb 12
Leave him before worse problem crops up. I suggest you return to your own parent's home. I am afraid you are still too young to live on your own.
• United States
13 Feb 12
i know that but i have lived on my own before when i was just 16 years old with friends
@pratikm23 (139)
• India
13 Feb 12
Well he talking to anyone should not bother you much.Remain calm and Peaceful.If it really does matter to you much then take him out for a coffee and enjoy your time. Time is limited dont waste it upon such things
• United States
13 Feb 12
tell me about it and i told him that he soudln't tell these girls that i am just a girl that would give it up easy because i am not like that