How would you feel being added by somebody here on MYlot?

@mobhomeir (7558)

Philippines

February 13, 2012 3:30am CST

Hello guys I was wondering if we have something in common in terms of being invited and added as somebody's friend here on mylot. For me I feel flattered and proud of my self because there are people (virtually) out there who never know me well enough and yet would like to make friends with me. That's why I don't remember myself rejecting friendship request regardless of their nationalities. I only remembered once, I deleted a friend after we had a strong arguments that resulted demerit on our reputation, but I forgot already that guy because we both (maybe) deleting each others name...

I was sad for that but I did that to avoid more confrontation here that would might be the reason (for both of us) of totally disbarment. What's your share about this my friend? Mobhomeir here..

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@cerebellum (3863)

• United States

13 Feb 12

I have never deleted a friend request. I have ignored some for awhile though. When I get a request, I check their profile and if there is no activity I wait a week or so and if there's still none than I reject them. I don't know if it is a scam or not, but why do they need people on their friends list, if they are not going to participate?

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@cerebellum (3863)

• United States

14 Feb 12

You have some posts, so you would be okay. I have only started about 3 discussions, I mostly respond to my friends also. Sometimes I respond to the list of my interests,but it depends on how I feel.

@joni1215 (394)

• United States

13 Feb 12

I am guilty. I don't always participate a lot. But, I am here. Sometimes, I just don't get into the the discussions that are going on. I am one who tends to respond if I see my friends post something. And I have deleted a couple of people that I added because their discussions were just too negative for me. Maybe that is wrong I don't know but I try to be positive and surround myself with the same.

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@Mashnn (4501)

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13 Feb 12

I have no problem when I receive any friend request. I accept all friends whether your are just new or old. I believe we all need each other and if someone feel it is ok to add you as a friend, then you should accept it.

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@mobhomeir (7558)

• Philippines

13 Feb 12

So do I my friend...no sweat..I guess they just like us..don't they?

Thanks for responding.. Mobhomeir here..

@Mashnn (4501)

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13 Feb 12

They do. I just do not ignore those requesting for friends, you never know it may be your cousin or a friend that you lost sometimes back.

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@jaiho2009 (39141)

• Philippines

13 Feb 12

dear Martin

Nice to see you again my dear. I don't add everyone who wants to add me- or who sent friend's request. I don't know why-but maybe I've learned somehow to observe and choose after all my experiences here in mylot. Have a good day my dear Martin

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@mobhomeir (7558)

• Philippines

14 Feb 12

Hello my dear bonita..yes I understand. I was then lucky because I was not being delete or ignored when I invited you to be one of my best friends here...Miss you bonita..take care and have a nice day ahead.. Mobhomeir here..

@cloud31 (5809)

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13 Feb 12

Hello friend, I feel the same as you do. I never rejected even a single request from those who want to my friend.I'm so even more flattered as you do. I can remember when you and I become friends and your presence in all my topics give me an impression that your friends so special. I love being added and I love adding friends too. Its a great feelings having friends here and my pleasure being one of your friend. Take care always. And nice to see you here again.

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@mobhomeir (7558)

• Philippines

13 Feb 12

Hello cloud..you're one of my friends here I was thinking when I came back..yes thanks. The last time I heard from you before taking "vacation" at Mylot (almost a year ago)you were at the time of your grief for a love one departed and I am sorry again for that. I never thought you're still here my friend..I am so glad you keep it up.

Mobhomeir here..

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@cloud31 (5809)

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13 Feb 12

I may not as active as before my friend but I never depart for long

.I'm always here just your not here sometimes

.This time maybe I will keep myself busy here again.I miss having an interaction with you especially those interesting topic you've always started. I'm getting better now and had recovered so far from that grievance.Thank you for being there friend.

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@polaris77 (2040)

• Bacau, Romania

13 Feb 12

I'm always glad when somebody asks for my friendship and I never refuse a request:the more friends,the better for me.However,I deleted a few people from my friend list because they did nothing,they had no activity on mylot except for spamming,and after a few months of seeing that haven't made one single post on mylot,it was normal for me to get rid of them,but these were very few cases and it's always a pleasure for me to accept a new friendship.

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@mobhomeir (7558)

• Philippines

14 Feb 12

Oh I see. Actually I don't know about this "spamming". Yes, in fact I had lots of accepted friends that until now I never know if they are still here or not..but never came in my mind of deleting them..anyway maybe i am too busy and time consuming for me if I would check them one by one... Thanks for responding my friend.. Mobhomeir her..

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@craziestqueenever (1819)

• Philippines

13 Feb 12

It would be such an honor for me If someone would add me here on myLot. When someone would request to be on my list, I immediately add them without any doubt. Rejecting the friend request of others is not in my nature.

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@mobhomeir (7558)

• Philippines

14 Feb 12

You can also count me on that my friend I think we have same level of understanding when it comes to mylot friends.. Mobhomeir here thanking you for your respond.

@mensab (4200)

• Philippines

13 Feb 12

like you, i have not rejected any friend requests here in mylot. although i ignored a number of requests, because their participation in mylot is (0). i do not think they are worthy to be added since they do not participate in mylot. i also do not know why they wanted to add me. i receive numerous requests, and i normally accept them.

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@mobhomeir (7558)

• Philippines

13 Feb 12

Oh I see my friend, well, as far as my I observed from those invitation I had never been invited from friend who have no participation here on mylot... Thanks for responding then my friend..

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@vinay049 (1878)

• India

13 Feb 12

When i was very active here,i used to get many friend requests here.i accepted all.i believe that i am here to make new friends n be interactive with all others so if i make new friends here then it will be helpful n i would also be helpful to others if i know anything about their discussions by replying to them.n have fun.....

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@mobhomeir (7558)

• Philippines

13 Feb 12

I appreciate that my friend...i think we have the same level of thinking.. Thanks for responding.. Mobhomeir here..

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@ifa225 (14463)

• Indonesia

13 Feb 12

Hi Mob i also feel happy and proud if there is someone add me and totally sad when they delete me feom their friends list recently there is someone of my friend here delete me Tough we never have a big argument ..we just dont visit each other discussion..maybe that is why he delete me

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@mobhomeir (7558)

• Philippines

13 Feb 12

Hi ifa..i think that's no big deal for us for as long as your conscience is clean that you had no grudges with some of our friends or whatsoever. They are free to do whatever because we have all the right to do that. Besides, why keeping them when they never like us, isn't it? Cheer up... Mobhomeir here..

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@yanzalong (18988)

• Indonesia

13 Feb 12

I just feel that my existance here at mylot is recognized by them, and I feel welcome as well. And my discussions so far have nothing to do with insulting others or being against one another. I think we are here for the same purpose, aren't we, mobhomeir ?

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@mobhomeir (7558)

• Philippines

13 Feb 12

I like that yanzalong..yes..thanks for responding my dear friend... Mobhomeir here..

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• Philippines

13 Feb 12

of course feel happy flattered great and proud to myself that among all the people here the person choose me to be one of his/her friend

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@mobhomeir (7558)

• Philippines

13 Feb 12

Yeah i think we have one thing in common in terms of friends invitations...maybe you're also friendly..

Thanks for responding my dear friend.. Mobhomeir here..

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@digidogo (444)

• Philippines

13 Feb 12

I do not really feel much happiness when I am added by someone here in myLot. We are residents of a virtual community and whenever an add is done, it is always by a stranger unless we know the person in real life. I add people depending on how we have interacted here in myLot and I never reject any friend requests. I have never deleted a friend before and I always accept the opinions of people during a discussion. Afterall, we have our own beliefs and we tend to stand on them. I try my best not to flame negative comments from people because that is what the "+" and "-" signs are for. That is how we get back at them.

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@mobhomeir (7558)

• Philippines

13 Feb 12

Hello my friend, I respect your opinion because we are free to express it. Thanks for responding.. Mobhomeir here..

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@Aja103654 (5646)

• Philippines

13 Feb 12

Well, it's nice to have online friends but i don't expect to get close to them. It helps though if these friends have very interesting discussions which i can easily find under the friends started column. I feel flattered and glad too when someone asks to be my friend. but when i suspect that they have any undesirable intentions towards me, then I would have to decline them.

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@mobhomeir (7558)

• Philippines

13 Feb 12

Yes I understand. But I never thought they had other intentions of inviting me. I see no reasons why they would do that because we are virtually connected with each of our friends. Well, at least I have to be aware next time as what you said other hidden agenda from the invitees.. Thanks for responding ... Mobhomeir here..

@boylopez (382)

• Philippines

13 Feb 12

Hi, if you consider me as a friend, accept my request as your friend. I am proud enough, even though you don't know me, but i know you more. Have a pleasant day, someday you know me in personal. Hehehehehehe

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@mobhomeir (7558)

• Philippines

13 Feb 12

Hello boylopez..yes I did accept you already...thanks for adding me also..keep it up.. Mobhomeir here..

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@aerous (13434)

• Philippines

14 Feb 12

Well, I treated all members fair and anyone interested to be friends with me I accept without any condition. Because as far as I believe people are all equal whatever the color, nationalities and walk of life. We must need to be friend and fair with everybody...even if those people have an argument with me sometimes. That is life and we never avoid that to happen. What we need was a fair treatment and consideration

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@mobhomeir (7558)

• Philippines

15 Feb 12

That's right my friend...but i guess there are also people who have different level of understanding from us...even if you have an excellent level of tolerance we have always limitations because we are human being... Thanks for responding... Mobhomeir here..

@aerous (13434)

• Philippines

17 Feb 12

Yup! You right, my friend. Because there's a saying that "you can't please everyone". Even we do everything is gone well there is still oppose with what we do is right...but that is life. We need to understand those lowly people who doesn't love upon by themselves...they are much pity than ours

@Bluedoll (16773)

• Canada

13 Feb 12

We can spend years in a relationship only to turn around and say you know I really didn't know that person. We can meet a stranger and think that it is like we have known that person for a long time. What's with that? In the virtual world we get to know people in a different way that we call friends but it sometimes takes time and a little interaction. Hello mobhomeir nice to meet you through this discussion. If I don't come back give me a hollar.

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@mobhomeir (7558)

• Philippines

13 Feb 12

Funny!!!if you mean dollar i have to earn it first here..

Nice meeting you here my friend... Mobhomeir here..

@mobhomeir (7558)

• Philippines

13 Feb 12

Okay sure..but our currency here is not a dollar...one canadian dollar is equivalent of more or less Php50.oo if am not mistaken.. Mobhomeir here..

@Bluedoll (16773)

• Canada

13 Feb 12

Are you joking? Yes we could give each other a dollar.

In case you are not joking I meant you can shout at me to say where did you go? We were talking and you disappeared.

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• Philippines

14 Feb 12

It is a feeling of flattery and happiness for the acceptance of others here in Mylot. Wherein they are open enough to build connection with you despite of many racial and traditional differences. It is that their welcome behind the net is like an embrace of a family and a comfort of a home! cheers!

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@mobhomeir (7558)

• Philippines

14 Feb 12

Yes..i got what you mean..world wide friend connection in spite of racial and cultural adaptation. Thanks for responding my friend.. \ Mobhomeir here///..

• Philippines

14 Feb 12

you re very much welcome my friend!

@nyang1984 (464)

• Philippines

13 Feb 12

i feel like i'm a star...lol,,flattered at the same time... :)

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@mobhomeir (7558)

• Philippines

13 Feb 12

Yeah so do I..especially if that someone is coming also from Mandaue City...More post from you I hope my kabayan.. Mobhomeir here..

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@hunibani (720)

• Philippines

13 Feb 12

I feel good and welcome :) Thanks you mylotters for warm welcome hehe. :D Muahugs!!!

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@mobhomeir (7558)

• Philippines

13 Feb 12

Hi my friend and my KABAYAN..you're always welcome..more to hear from you.. mobhomeir here..

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@loonys (418)

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13 Feb 12

I would like to have virtual friends.

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@mobhomeir (7558)

• Philippines

13 Feb 12

Yeah..so am my friend..considered me as one..

Mobhomeir here..

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