Love At First Sight????

@Dassodils (2010)
India
February 13, 2012 9:09am CST
Hai my friends... I like to know about Love at first sight..Is it possible??? I don't think so... How these people love some one at the first sight??In my opinion, That'll not be love..Just an attraction..We have to speak to that person.Then you'll feel that person will be a good partner to you...Then accept them as a good partner...What is your opinion??Thanks in advance..
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16 responses
@vt689586 (584)
• India
13 Feb 12
love at first sght may be possible and couple of person who fall in love at first sight but i don't believe in it. because its only dependent on physical attributes not on values that are important to be in love. love at first sight is like gamble where you don't know about the future.it could be attraction when you like a person at first sight but being in love at first sight is not good in my opinion.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
13 Feb 12
It may be a gamble for people to fall in love at first sight. Of course it is exposed to risks. People who fall in love like this cannot see the risk.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
13 Feb 12
Yaa..I agree with you friends..That's not good in my opinion...
• China
14 Feb 12
I meet my girl friend after we chatted for few days on phone and formed a dating in her college. after first sight, I do think she'll be mine. and I did fall in love with her then. that day, I spent whole day there, felt very happy. so I think first sight is actual.
• Singapore
14 Feb 12
Hi mickeypeng, I don't think that technically you can call your situation love at first sight. The term refers to people who meet for the very first time. They had no prior contact whatsoever but in your case you have communicated with her on the phone and have thus formed an impression (good one I presume). So when you meet her in person your liking for her is enhanced and confirmed. Have a nice day.
@succeednow (1633)
• Singapore
13 Feb 12
Hi Dassodils, I concur fully with your view that there is no such thing as love at first sight. This statement is usually said by one party after seeing or meeting the other party for the first time. Since love between two persons needs to be developed and that will take time, how can one say love at first sight? It is probably coined by someone who wants to justify a strong attraction for the other party and he/she has mistaken like for love. Just my thoughts. Have a nice day.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
13 Feb 12
Ya....Thanks..Did you heard any incidents like this????
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
13 Feb 12
Love is blind. Love has no reasoning. It is possible for people to fall in love at first sight and become life partners. I have no such experience, of course.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
13 Feb 12
Ya..Most people are saying like this...But I can't to accept this concept...Thanks Ravi..
@rollylolly (2843)
• India
13 Feb 12
I feel what we call love at first sight' is actually a liking and infatuation . We feel an intense attraction which may be momentary or may persist if we carry on with the relation . In simple words a glance , a smile and liking at a certain moment cannot be termed 'love' , others may differ on this issue . Good topic
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
13 Feb 12
Ya...Thanks for sharing your opinion...
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
13 Feb 12
I don't believe in love at first sight. It is just a mere physical attraction. One can only tell if s/he loves someone when s/he got to know the person inside and out. So what you said is true, we have to speak and get to know the person well before we can judge what we really feel towards the person.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
13 Feb 12
Ya..You are right.
• United States
15 Feb 12
Gosh, I hope my sister doesn't read your post because on their first date, her husband proposed. They have now been married forty years. I'm thinking their love at first sight was very real, since they are tremendously happy together. My son told his wife he loved her on their first date. Well, actually, they didn't go on their date because she had the flu, so he stayed at her apartment and cared for her until she was up and around again. They've been married twelve years and love each other more each day. However, I would have to say that most 'love at first sights' are probably attraction. I'm just glad the above two weren't. lol
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
16 Feb 12
Though my situation really wasn't what you would call love at first sight, I did have love at first conversation with my husband. I really don't know what it was about him, but by the time that I got off the phone with him after the first conversation, I turned and told my mother that he was the man that I would be spending the rest of my life with. I think that there are certain qualities about a person that we will see with the first time that we meet someone or that they tell us the first time that we talk that will endear us to a particular person for life.
• Mexico
18 Feb 12
Hi Dassodils: I think almost the same. It's not that simple and we can call it "love". You may feel attraction for someone the first time you see him but that's not love. Love is more complex. To love someone you should know this person, share time and start building someone. The so call love at first sight is just an idealistic thing that it doesn't exists in real life. ALVARO
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
26 Sep 12
hi, there are times that i will believe at love at first sight,because that was happen to me and eve to my ex too,he opened to me that he loved at first sight to a woman in their place,but the girl doesn't want him.
@mantis36 (4219)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
yes, it is still called as an attraction, but the feelings heavily overflows as the reason why commonly called a love at first sight. Love is Blind for the victims of Love, but those friends around only see's and available for advices.
@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
14 Feb 12
Hello Dassodils, I don't beleive love at first sight.For me love which happens at first sight is just an attraction which does not last for much time.One really need to know about the person before falling in love with him/her which takes time.
@jaime22 (51)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
I think its about the attraction of that person that you see for the first time. In my experience that what happened to me. I think that person is so attractive and when I have the chance to talk to her I feel in love.
@jethdale (156)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
I think there is no such thing as long as first sight but there is what we call infatuation. because love is not develop in an instant way, it is nurtured, it is well observe and it takes time. Some infatuation might lead to real love but never love before infatuation
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
14 Feb 12
Well,i do think it's real and indeed happened to me.Yesterday i met a boy that i really had a crush on him.You know,the way he give to me and i just feel so great.But what i know him is just little and i know he is taking exams on a famous academy in our country.Well,i just so wanted to know what's his name and how i can found him and meet him again.
@shanemae (1025)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
hi dassodils! well, for some people that might be true- love at first sight but for me personally it could not be likened to love it is because it's just plain attraction. the first meeting might not be the same with the succeeding meetings but who knows? Love is something broad. like a billion brains could not explain it. that's how broad and magical it is.