Ever been spanked.. :p
By himzey
@himzey (1321)
India
February 13, 2012 1:16pm CST
I was in a discussion with my friends when this word ('spanking') came in midst of our conversation and the discussion became more hilarious..
So I thought it would be fun listening to the stories our fellow lotters might have to share about if they ever had the privileged to spank someone or got spanked themselves..
I admit that I received a lot of spanking as a kid, cause I was a really NAUGHTY boy..
and being the eldest son in the family, even now I frequently search for an opportunity to spank my younger brothers..
Go on .. don't be shy.. the stage is all yours..
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15 responses
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
13 Feb 12
hi himzey
I admit that I received a lot of spanking as a kid, cause I was a really NAUGHTY boy.. How come this can happen with you... I was the Naughty one in My Family and was spanked a zillion times for this or that... And Again!... I am the eldest son too... but I havent got an opportunity to show it off (your way)... maybe because everyone younger is more healthier than me
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
14 Feb 12
lilaclady spanking only teaches kids the one with the power always wins which is not what one should be teaching children ., hurting a child is not going to change naughty to nice, I know if I had had a lot of spankings it wo uld have made me want to be even naughtier as long as I was goi ng to get it,. I was not spanked as a child and grew up to be a kind considerate good person even thou gh I was jnot hit black and blue.I did not spank either I used other forms of discipline instead tinme outs, stand in the corner, and taking away privileges which worked really well.
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@himzey (1321)
• India
14 Feb 12
Hi lilaclady- I had issues with some old teachers myself and still have some with my professors in college..(now they can't spank me though..)
Hi Hatley- Thats right. You might provoke someone if you spank him. But sometimes when situation seems to go out of hand its the only solution left.
This can be handled by generating a view among children that only bad children are the ones receiving spanking and if someone receives it then this might be a shame for him. Next time they may be cautious before repeating the same mistake.
@shaggin (72141)
• United States
14 Feb 12
When I was young I was really bad and so I got spanked a lot. I also got hit with a paddle. I dont like to spank my kids. Now when people spank me I usually get pretty mad but once in awhile when your intimate with a guy and he spanks you when your doing it a certain way it just feels great lol.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
13 Feb 12
Drawing more responses with this topic aren't you?
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
14 Feb 12
hi himzey I was never spanked as a child but my mom did so methingt really much worse, she threatened me that when my dad came home he would spank me for being naughty and running off to the neighbors
farm. She was worrried for me of course but I came to bi harm she broughtr has safety razor strap and hung it on the door. well I was scared sick for hours but I never did get spanked. I think its not
right to scare a child like that,. the most I ha ve ever donw with my two when they were little was a quick swat on the butt when they'
started to dart out into traffic. other tha n that I was not a spank., I do not believe in spaniing as its really abvusing a child
as the parent is usually furioous and often goes way overboard so the spanking is a beating. I know a lot of mylotters will not a gree'but I thinik spanking often teaches kids to grow u p into hitteres.so my day of almost being spanked was sort of a psychological nightmare and a bit sadistic.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
14 Feb 12
Hatley,
Spanking is a psychological warefare on a child, whether it's threatened and never happens, or threatened and does happen. The hours until the spanking happens causes the child stress, and it happening is scary too. I remember when I was spanked, it was not fun for me at all, and made me scared of the spanker rather then more disclipined.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
14 Feb 12
I was spanked as a child, but I didn't like it. I am female and my father would spank me when I was bad.
Here in the US spanking is looked down upon as a way to punish a child.
@yanzalong (18988)
• Indonesia
14 Feb 12
That happens in every discussion especially among young people. Words came uncontrolably, and hurting others who are not used to such spanking words.
@yanzalong (18988)
• Indonesia
14 Feb 12
Yes you are right. I just scanned it quickly and after I reread your post I was wrong. You know I was seeing it without my glasses. All words crumbled together. Happy mylotting.
@tipay26 (867)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Yes I was spanked when I was kid =)) =)) I was the eldest grand daughter and I was raised by my grandparents since my mother works abroad.I could remember my grandmother would hold her one pair of slippers and then shout calling my name patriciaaaaaaaaaaaa =)) =)) this happens when i tease my younger sister who is a cry baby when we were kids ;)) I also experienced facing the wall for hours during those times :( I was even made to kneel on mongo seeds or much worst kneel on salt when ever I made something bad or stupid when I was a kid =)) =))but now I'm a changed lady :) though I miss grandma at times :( but that was then and I'm all grown up now =)) =))
@himzey (1321)
• India
14 Feb 12
Hi Patricia
Seems like you have a lot of experience when it comes to spanking or any other kind of punishment.
I too was scolded brutally at time. I remember the time when my dad chased me round the dinning table with one pair of flip-flop in his hand. But I took those beat downs as an honor cause I knew I had done wrong and would repeat it whenever given a second.. :p
@craziestqueenever (1819)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Oh yes! I was spanked when I was young. My parents would spank me because of my hard-headedness. I love to violate their instructions. I stole their money. But now I learned my lesson. They did that to me because they want be to be well disciplined enough.
@himzey (1321)
• India
15 Feb 12
Yes creating indiscipline is the root cause of getting spanked. If you are getting spanked don't panic.. start recapturing what you might have done wrong...
Even if you didn't do something, don't worry.. by the time you realize that you are being punished for no reason, the spanking would probably be over..
@sexybeast (67)
• Philippines
16 Feb 12
my tushi always end up being spanked when i was a kid. the "weapon of choice" by my dad is his leather belt. i don't hate my dad for it. i deserved it anyways for being so naughty.
@randomone (20)
• United States
29 Aug 12
My mom would spank for just about anything. Spanking usually meant 3-5 licks with a paddle on my bare bottom. Of course, things changed as I got older, but that was the basics.
@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
14 Feb 12
I spanked the guy I was out on a date with one nite. He had gotten hooked on white snow, and when we doubled that night, he and the other guy kept whispering and running off to pay phones. When I asked what they were doing the other guy told me they were trying to get some. I said, he's not getting any while I'm with him, and he told me he'd put me out of the car. I said fine take me someone tho. And I told him you're not the one who gets calls at 3:00 in the morning because he got paid for 2 weeks and only had a nickel left after paying what he owed to the dealer.
When we went back to his house, he was supposed to take me home in his car, but he was sulking and took all but his shorts off and went to bed. I couldn't get him to take me home and he said 'if you want to go, hit the road'. See he didn't normally act that way. I got his belt out of his pants, pulled the covers off him and spanked him good! Then I called my boyfriend who got off work at midnite to come get me.