Do you think my English is now better?
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
Philippines
February 13, 2012 4:52pm CST
..I think many knows here that my English is not rightly in good post..
Some people criticize me,some are encourage me to try to improve..And my joining in here is helping me a lot because while i am posting, i learn different kinds of response,from reading and also improves my thinking..
Encouraging people does help ,and criticizing in wrong way is wrong does not help because the person will feel in bad way,but if you encourage,the person will keep go go go...and will think to improve his/her own broken skills of English and others..
Thanks for encouraging me!
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21 responses
@humerasadat (73)
•
14 Feb 12
Practising brings perfection,so keep practising and in the mean time try to make us figure out what exactly you are trying to write ;) dont take me seriously,just trying to end my last post humorously.
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Yes it is true that practicing makes perfect i agree on that..
If you do try your best and do not give up and you can make it thanks i will not stop haha
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@yanzalong (18987)
• Indonesia
14 Feb 12
I think I will put you to the test to know how well you do with your English. To me, as long as you can get the message across clearly, then the effective communication takes place. The purpose of a communication does not lie in the well structured pattern but more in effective communication by which two parties understand each other.
@yanzalong (18987)
• Indonesia
15 Feb 12
I remember having a lecture in one of the courses held by CIPFA London. The professor was scottish. At the first meeting, I was confused. He spoke English but I understool a little. After a week, I began to understand him better. Most of the words were pronounced differently, which I had never heard before. Like the word "came" was pronounced 'kim'; the pronoun "I" sounded like 'ei' and many more. Through routine communications, the berriers between two parties were disclosed.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
That's true i agree with you..
As long as you know how to deliver your message ,and how you say it in sentence..
And also others,reader must understand what are you trying to say...Thanks friend good luck.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
14 Feb 12
Better?
It is so much improved compared to when you first joined that it is difficult to think that you are even the same person!
Well done and you are a fine example to others who have problems with English. MyLot is a great place where you can earn while you learn.
Keep it up and you will be even better than those who should know it perfectly!
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
15 Feb 12
Thanks ! ha ha yes i know it that i have bad English when i joined in the first place..
You know, before when i try to start discussions i am hard to think about how can i say this and this because from my own tongue i try to translate to English some meaning are hard for me to think or how can i express this Word or something story... but i know now learning little by little..Yes my lot is a great place for me i am happy to be here and people who responds to my post!thanks i love you friend.
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@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Hi. I believe that no one is doing perfect in our lives. In my point of view, criticizing and encouraging are just have the same motive in our lives. First, frequent conversation or reading really help someone to improve his grammar or any communication-related issues. But let me share you something, why do you think people criticize someone not only in writing, even in other aspects...because that someone wants you to know what is wrong in what you're doing. The same with encouraging, someone wants you to see that you're doing things the right way. Well, just the same with criticizing, someone wants you to improve and show more of what you can do. So it is true, that we have to both accept criticism and encouragements in a positive way for they have the same reason and that is for us to develop ourselves more for they know we still can do better than we are now.
So, just keep on exploring through the responses and views that other people shares with you and for sure, we will learn from them. Happy mylotting.
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Sometimes Critics is wrong,is like you look down the person because of fool English,and that is not the proper attitude.
You can criticize the person in good and positive encouragement because that is the proper attitude..
Every one does not do well in everything they do..
So thanks agree that critics in good way,encourage in good way must work together with out looking down the person because of the fool written..
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Hi.. you know how you can keep posting here and response to others topics that you know..
I a m also same with you friend but i keep doing my best and do not discourage you can do it and make it with your own!!!Don't give up i will help you.
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
He he i am same like friend you can do it and improve and even me i do improve now because of my doing my best and trying...
keep posting
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Agree ,is not my own tongue and i am using this language in here because am working here and also trying to work and improve my skills..
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@craziestqueenever (1819)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
I'm not in a position to judge you because of your communication skills. I haven't read some of your post, but one thing that I had observed is that there are still some flaws in your English. I'm sorry to say this, I'm just being honest. I hope that you won't take this so badly.
I, myself is not good when it comes to English. I know the basics, but I take it for granted. Here I am now, learning to study the basic again. I just wanted to let you know that when you use "I", "i". Make sure that it is always in a capital letter. No matter where you use it, it is always Capitalized.
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Its okay,no body's perfect!He he i make mistakes and every one yes i think i have still to improve check my spelling words i use.
It is great that you said that nicely than others who said without apologizing or just say something that hurt others but you did it right thanks..
Yes i am not also perfect on that but i can improve it later..
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
14 Feb 12
Hello befrindwithme26,
No doubt your English is improving and will improve more you if you continue writing on different forums.Yes Mylot always help us to improve our writing skills.I too don't have good English but since i have joined Mylot i have been noticing the change in myself.
Of course there are always different type of people we face in life the thing and the fact is we have to deal with them.I always do listen to every body but keep in mind what i like and let it go from other ear if i don't like.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Yes thank you..
I agree that not all people are the same like what they think and what they comments so i understand but i don't let them down me to stop my working English and also my extra earning here help me to increase..Thank you you are great..and also i am trying to improve more
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
14 Feb 12
I would like to encourage you. Keep learning and enjoy at the same time. English is forgiving. So what you use i instead of I. One is proper but the little i is humble eh?
Your main subject of Godly things that you discuss most of the time can be a big discussion? Yes, I think so.
It is ok to mix up English words. It makes people think.
Consider, those that read have difficulty to read too but this is fine, for friends are kind and it is not a burden.
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Ha ha ha thanks..Yes i and learning and improving and hope that there is more changes on my skills soon or later i don't want to go in School to learn Eng,,and just be here.
Yes i have mix discussions not only God,but everything that is base on my interested.
I think its clear what i say but i need to fix some of my English.No body's perfect right we are here to learn........thanks.
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@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Hi befriend,
Just try not be so conscious about the way you write English here. Coz sometimes it shows that you lack confidence about yourself. Don't let people know from time to time about you being poor in English or not. Better to keep writing, posting and reading discussions here... those will help you a lot to improve your English more. By the way, I see that you're improving fairly well.
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Hi..thanks i am happy for you that you had such encouraging words..
Yes it is true sometimes i am not confident to write but i do try my best and also trying to improve..
I need more to learn and hope i can do it and also i don't allow those people who discourage me i just keep on ...thank you.
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@dorothy172 (984)
• Malaysia
14 Feb 12
i think your english really has a big improvement. yes, i agree with you, encourage people will give them some power to move on, so we sure always encourage people but not critic on them. is happy to knowing you gain benefit from myLot, wish you could enjoy it all the time. happy mylotting.
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Agree.. i do my own to improve my self English and also i don't allow those people who try to down me ..
Thanks a lot and hope you enjoy in here and have a great day to you
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@michellehuang (15)
• China
14 Feb 12
I think your English is great now.You express very clear.Mylot is very good.Let's learn and make progress together.Fighting!
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Agree that i am now better and also i am happy to be here and i can improve more if i am wanted and willing too.
And thanks have a great day
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@gadriel (2)
• Canada
14 Feb 12
I joined mylot yesterday and the number one reason is enhancing my English. A friend told about this site that I can enhance my English here through discussions with other users and also having extra income at the same time. Its good to know that in here people will encourage and help you that shows how good the community is. As for me I will use my free time on mylot than spend it playing computer games for hours. If its ok I'll add you as a friend so that we help each other in enhancing our english.
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Thats great that you joined here to improve your English ..Me also when i start to join my plan is to earn money and improve my English while doing posting and also now is better than before..
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
13 Feb 12
yes I think the more time you spend here in Mylot the better you will get, I admire you for your determination, keep at it befrindwithme, you are doing well...
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Agree...If we spent time posting in my lot our English will improve and i believe that it will happen if we are doing our best.
Thanks
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@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
13 Feb 12
Yes. I am sure I have seen a big improvement in your English and writing skills. So that just goes to prove what they say, the more you practice the more chance you have of becoming perfect.. Yes, you are right encouragement does cause a person to want to try and do even better. And as far as discouragement goes, one needs to keep it to themselves. Right? Keep up the good work!
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Thanks yea agree .. although i receive some encouraging and discouraging words , i put in my mind the one who encourage me and no room to the one who discourage me..
Thanks hope i can improve better.
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@fannitia (2167)
• Bulgaria
13 Feb 12
Hi, Befrindwithme, I'm glad that you feel better with your English. Don't worry about those who criticize you, they go against myLot guidelines. Most people here are friendly and they will encourage you. Your skills do improve when you practice the language. I experience the same thing because I use English every day in my work but mainly reading or listening. Here I practice to express my thoughts in English, I begin to think in English. It is the same for you and you are doing just fine. Have a nice time!
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Hi,thanks yes i think and feel it but i need more to improve ..Sometimes if you think those critics people ,your feeling to stop it but if you keep doing it and don't care those people you can do it while they are not improving to be a good encouraging person.
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@yaso4u (502)
• India
14 Feb 12
Hi befrinwithme26,
Don't get upset or get down by criticization from others, take it from postive side and move on. I am sure that English is not your mother tongue, so there will be some intial diffcult to learn, read and write a lanuage. I too like you only, not good at english. Thanks to mylot I learnt lots and lots of new words, ways to communicate etc., Keep posting and enjoy reading in mylot, you will come with flying colors.
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Yes i know that people are different and also the way the say and give you comments..
I am not let my self to get down but i do my best to improve all my English and also i am happy for my being here
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@notmuchofablogger (189)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Hello befriendwithme. :) We have the same agenda for joining here in Mylot. Aside from earning a little extra, we can also hone our English skills. I'll be graduating after a year and we all know that the language of business is English so it will be an edge if I have excellent communication skills.
Anyway, I do not see anything wrong with your English. The way you express your thoughts and feelings is not important as long as your readers or listeners understood what you mean. And in your case, I can clearly understand the message you are trying to convey so you do not have anything to worry about. :)
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Yes agree,as long the readers understand what i am saying here.Yes sometimes i do mistakes like how can i say this words and etc..
Before i have problem like that but now, i think i know and understand..thank you.
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@brainplusbeauty09 (79)
• Australia
17 Feb 12
Hi and a happy day to all!
English is not my first language since birth and so are you. Its normal to have bad grammar now and then, but if you are doing well here in mylot, then congratulations. Mylot will improve not only your communication skills but also your typing skills. and yes im smiling, i love it too. I studied english and i think it made me feel better. I am in an english speaking country and that also an advantage.
Keep it up.
Enjoy your day.