Love buddy..
By daniel_chang
@daniel_chang (75)
Philippines
February 14, 2012 2:36am CST
I have this friend that i know, she does not have any stable relationship at all. As if she is always playing or let's just say having a fling relationship with anybody, It could be a guy or a girl, as long as she is happy then go. She has the looks, the body and attitude but here problem is having a commitment.
I told her she might as well find her own love buddy. Whom she can trust with her safety and health. Whom she can call anytime she wants or maybe in time she will finally commit to.
After several months that i have not heard from her, she called me. She told me that she has a partner for Valentine's day. I ask her if are they together or in a relationship? She told me they were sort of in something call the love buddy but they're happy. I was smiling when i heard it at least she is now with someone though not permanent but i think it's longer than temporary.
What can i advice her more? can you give me some advice i think i am guilty of something, should i be?? or what?
5 responses
@lologirl2021 (5542)
• United States
15 Feb 12
In life to be happy is hard at times and if she is happy then good for her there are people that arent happy in life so just be glad she is even happy right now. I think the whole Love Buddy thing is quit weird but if thats how she likes her life than i guess youwill have to live with that too but she should be careful becasue outthere are many different things and she needs to get checked if she is sleeping around and having different love buddys to LOL. Just a though but tell her to be careful and that you care about her.
@deodavid (4150)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
hi there daniel chang,
I think you just gave her her shot at love if you come to think about it she might have found the one person that will stick around to be her man, or woman but mostly you did something good, in a way this might change her outlook about relationships but work on it maybe push her a little more she or she might loose this great person in the end
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
i think you just let her be. but when you have the chance to talk with her, try to say something about love, happiness, and relationship. if you truly care for her, you care for her happiness in the long run. she may be happy today, but in the end, she will be alone without no one beside her. if she does not heed your words, then she makes a choice.
@Harrymon12 (82)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Hahah.. Love buddy? that's sounds fun.. I think it's ok.. She may means that "love buddy" is a friend and a lover.. It may mean that she's trying or they are trying to figure out if they are compatible or their relationship would work-out.. Love does find its way.. Just let them be, it sounds fun when mention the word "Love Buddy"..
@nyang1984 (464)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
what you can only do for her is just be there for her when she needs a friend and a shoulder she can lean on..(that's for me my personal opinion) cuz you can't dictate her the things she must do and the things she mustn't do... and always pray for her happiness and safety as well...
and i think you're a good friend... :)
have a nice day
