how will you feel if nobody can understand you?
By dorothy172
@dorothy172 (984)
Malaysia
February 15, 2012 12:32am CST
i feel so unhappy, because i found that there is no people could understand my feeling. sometimes, when i met with problem, i will try to tell my problem to my close friends. but i am not want them to support me or what, i just wish that they could understand how i feel at the moment. but i found that, if they are not you, and never encounter the same situation as you, they will never know how you feel. so right now, i seldom want to tell my problem to my friends, because i know they wont be understand it.
dear mylotter, when nobody can understand your feeling and situation, how will you feel? will you feel that you are alone and helpless?
10 responses
@craziestqueenever (1819)
• Philippines
15 Feb 12
The feeling that the world is really against you. I have been in that kind of situation. You feel so hopeless and you feel that the world is against you. But as I grow old, I realize that we are different. People can't understand us because of our difference. It would be much better if we are going to ignore that kind of feeling. Let's just accept the reality that we are different.
@dorothy172 (984)
• Malaysia
16 Feb 12
Its mean that i do not need to take care on how people think of me and want me to do? Just do whatever i think is good for me, and i can stay happily? I also hope too. Thanks
@dorothy172 (984)
• Malaysia
16 Feb 12
Ya, the only person that coukd understand me well in only myself, no one coukd fully understand me more than myself. So i have to love myself more, and dont want to let myself to live unhappily
@nyang1984 (464)
• Philippines
15 Feb 12
i'll be disappointed if that would be the case. but i'm just thankful that i haven't encounter that kind of problem.. and am kinda grateful that my friends do understand me...
happy lotting! =)
@dorothy172 (984)
• Malaysia
16 Feb 12
You are so lucky, i really hope that my friends could understand me one day in the future :) happy mylotting
@silence777 (121)
• Philippines
15 Feb 12
I think what you should do is study how your friends react with each other.
By doing so, you will understand and learn how to mingle and communicate to them. I'm not telling you to copy what they say and do, just understand them so that you will know how to mingle with them. And by doing so, they will be able to understand you more.
And learn how to express yourself more, it will help alot.
Hope I helped. :)
@dorothy172 (984)
• Malaysia
16 Feb 12
Thanks for your suggestion, i will try to understand my friend, and wish they could understand me in the future. Happy mylotting
@thelmadacullo112659 (642)
• Philippines
15 Feb 12
i really feel embarrassed and disgusted if somebody dont understand me esp. when am in troubled.i feel helpless and would mean that my world is too short that even a single help i need them, they will just ignore me.how can i make them listen to me and correct me when i am in mistakes?if u ar in my situation,what will u do?
@dorothy172 (984)
• Malaysia
15 Feb 12
if i want to get a solution to solve my problem, i will tell my friend, please tell me truthly what is my fault and mistake, i really need to make a correction and i dont wish to do wrong again in the next time. and i will mention to them, they could just ignore my feeling on that moment, just give me some advise. i know i myself has a bad temmper, but i will be patient if i need the solution.
@winston90 (296)
• Romania
15 Feb 12
Cheer-up, now!
You already know that life isn't always all sunshine and rainbows. There are times when everything goes exactly the way you like, and days that everything goes wrong.
Those days are few, but those things that happen always come in mind, and depress you.
You have to move on, and smile for the brand new day ahead of you, so that nobody can see the pain you bear in your soul. That way, everybody will want to be just like you, and that would make you feel really important. Don't you think?
@dorothy172 (984)
• Malaysia
16 Feb 12
Ya, agree with you. I wont show my pain on my face, i will only show it when i am alone. If in front of friend, i will never have any action, because i also dont want my friend see me unhappy
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
16 Feb 12
I'm so glad that really has never happened to me, where no one seemed to understand what I was feeling. In my head, I am just imagining what that is going to feel like and it is just going to be like something that seems like it is rather frustrating to say the very least. It would seem like I would be in a separate world than everyone else around me.
Scary, scary situations to say the very least. I am really thankful that I have a good support network that I can lean on. That I can really get the most that I can out of life. Without them, I don't know what I would be like, but I think that I would be mostly sunk. That is just the fact of the matter I think. A helpless, helpless existence for sure.
@girl_thinking (1959)
• Philippines
16 Feb 12
I believe everybody has felt this way once in his life. There are times when we have problems and friends just don't get it; maybe because they have not experienced the same problem yet. Yeah, it is really frustrating when nobody seems to understand how you feel. Worst, they try to give you advice or they try to console you by agreeing to what you say when what you really wanted is for them just to listen.
I guess we just have to figure it out ourselves because we cannot change how other people perceive us or how other people see our perception. It's part of life, I think
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
15 Feb 12
Well, naturally it wouldn't make me feel very good. I have problems expressing myself anyways and if no one understood me then it would just be devastating. I have learned however to accept things like that the older I get and more used to it I get.