Facebook War, Like it or Unlike?
@brainplusbeauty09 (79)
Australia
February 16, 2012 8:12pm CST
Hi and a happy day to all!
I am a Facebook user. I noticed one day some of my friends shout out their emotions in the site directly aiming their anger to someone. I never do this, but this seems to be alarming especially when you have a close friend and they want to do facebook war instead of confronting that person personally. I never think its safe to point out anger to someone and let the whole world know it. It will just end up feeling happy after 1 or 2 days but it wont make you happy forever.
Do you like it ?
Enjoy your day.
2 people like this
11 responses
@post2sawa (88)
• Philippines
17 Feb 12
Lets face it Facebook were most used social networking site today, some even uses it to do crime. It feels bad that even friends & relatives who is fighting with each other tend to use facebook to say bad things to one another, without realizing that the whole world can get involve with even a single word they were saying in their wall.
having facebook war was not healthy specially for friends or relatives basically because not only the 2 person fighting would be affected but also those on their friends lists who also know them
If you have some misunderstanding with someone better talk personally, who knows that you can still fix it rather than posting right away in your wall.
@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
19 Feb 12
I agree. I think that part of the problem is that people on Facebook may not be in a position to get together in person to solve their differences. And I think some just enjoy making others miserable or that they somehow look more important if they can put other people down.
@jlamela (4897)
• Philippines
17 Feb 12
Me too, I am beginning to be disillusioned with Facebook. I have lots of friends too who are feeling celebrities because they would post the details of their lives in Facebook like what are they doing, what are they eating, their emotions, their anger, their sleeping time, etcetera. I find it soooooo stupid and idiot to post the private information of your life. Some of them would also shout their madness towards other people and I hate it because why just they confront the person directly through a private message than letting the whole world know about your predicament?
@ibinissac (47)
• India
17 Feb 12
You are right it is not the rite place to show your anger..to someone..
Facebook is used to open ourself to all others..
So if we are showing our anger to someone else..they may fee insulted infront of a community..
@portisray (503)
• Philippines
17 Feb 12
Oh! Facebook is an 'open diary'... I remember one or two of my friends posted some of their anger to someone (which I don't know who) to their updated status...
If there's an UNLIKE button in Facebook....
@MRconrad01 (148)
• United States
17 Feb 12
I personally try not to do this. I sometimes post lyrics that reflect my mood, but I never do it with the intention of aiming it at somebody specifically. I think that (trying to understand their point of view here) people use it as a venting system instead of a confrontational system. I don't like it as a way to vent, though. If you're having a problem with somebody, it's better to just discuss it with that person than it is to post lame statuses on Facebook and just "hope" that the problem gets cleared.
That's just the thing though. I don't think these people want the problem to get cleared. I think that they're just those people that like drama. They'll never admit that they like drama, but it's what caused them to post the status in the first place. Their status probably was either caused by, or is the cause of, some form of drama.
@Ernnesto (180)
• Slovak Republic
17 Feb 12
It is a poor behaviour to show someone that he or she did something wrong on social network, in front of the eyes everyone. I think some problem should be discuss between people when they meet together, or eventually like IM not the you put someting on the wall. I do not like such behaviour.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
17 Feb 12
That's true ,,many people use fb to have war against another.
So i dislike the site,but i use it for chat sometimes and also i have collected friends only..
I hate war in fb because shameful.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
17 Feb 12
SOme people are just so immature. They think they will get the sympathy of many by posting their anger or frustration in Facebook. But for me it is kinda annoying and attracts gossipers to always check out what's next in your life. If every thing will be posted on Facebook, I am sure you won't have any privacy in your life, and people tends to either praise or loathe you and finds fault in you. You never know when people will laugh at your silliness too
I guess a hint of your emotion is just fine instead of directly saying you are angry on someone or making someone feel your anger. It's best to post a song about what your feeling.
@br3ndy (468)
• Indonesia
17 Feb 12
I have read that kind of status many times at facebook. I never do that too but i kind of understand why some people do that. Maybe because they don't have anyone to share their problems with or could be they couldn't find better solution for their arguments. Sometimes when people faced with troubles or arguments with others they couldn't keep it them self so they feel the need to shout their feelings out loud. Well, eventhough i know the reason, but i still think it is not a good thing to do.
Happy mylotting...
@rastaman91 (679)
• Indonesia
17 Feb 12
I do not like it, but I think this is common because most people already make facebook a diary online, they told his/her personal things on facebook without thinking that the whole world can read what she's/he's share..!
@jasminjasmin (98)
• United Arab Emirates
17 Feb 12
Ya...I have also faced this type of situation...I have seen people comment on each other status in a dual meaning.It will definitely hurt.I dont understand, why to show anger publicly??It can also be done by an e mail or over the phone or by any other means.
I really dont like this type of stupidity..