its hard to control my 3 year old son..
By ithek15
@ithek15 (143)
Philippines
February 16, 2012 11:04pm CST
lately,my son is been playing outside most of his day.sometimes I've got a headache to got him at home,even eating in time is hard to follow,do you also have a problem like me to your child,?? please share me some tips to control his wants and t what i dont weant,,
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6 responses
@craziestqueenever (1819)
• Philippines
17 Feb 12
At that age, Toddlers are seeking for independence. They wanted to be independent. When my son was at that age. My life was completely like hell. he was such a nuisance. At that age, your child is really prone into tantrums. Just keep this in mind. Your child wants to seek independence. Allow him to do the things he wanted to do but make sure that he is safe and he is not going to manipulate. When your child is having a tantrum. Let him him burst his feelings.
@ithek15 (143)
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
tantrum is my big problem too,but theres a time that he wants what he want,,even it is not good,and when you explain he insist what he wants,, reading books is one our favorite bonding,but sometimes im afraid to let him play on outside because he has a friend with a bad attitude that i didnt want him to adopt it.and before its too late he adopt some attitude on that person(his friend on outside) but thanks to the advice. i appreciate all the comment.,thanks to all.:)
@nyang1984 (464)
• Philippines
17 Feb 12
we have the same situation. his about 2yrs. & 6mos. i just let my son do what he wants i just watch him. i let him explore things on his own. and during meal time i tell him stories that will catch his attention. my son likes the story of the monkey and the turtle or the turtle and the rabbit and/or i'll tell him a story of sending him to school. and his very eager to go to school really. :)
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
17 Feb 12
The ways you make the choices to control your child really depends on your part as the mother.A child of 3 is really very energetic because it is the time they adopt who they are in the world they have known to exist.You can make him tame as you like him to become by asking him what he likes to play,what he likes to eat so that you could now adjust to his desires but not what you wanted him to be.Give him time to think and curve his thoughts to the right path you just like him to become.By doing this simple system you could become friends and your child would be more nearer to your mothering him.
@puneetgzb (61)
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17 Feb 12
the same situation come with every lady who has child, bcz this is time when child wants to get exposure of outworld. adn most of time he wanted to keep otside the home. but this is stage when u can make ur baby best and divert his intterst, where you want. provide him some indoor games which will create interest into him to play in your home, divert his mind into reading, so this will be helpfull for you.
@lovelysofie (294)
• Indonesia
17 Feb 12
You should follow with whatever you son want.If you didnt like he play in outside.Buy many toys that he like.So it will make him want always play in inside.Give he hes favourite food.It will make he enjoy play in room.Dont be cruel with child.You can try to give your time to play with him with his favourite toys.Dont angry with him if he play in outside.It will make him fear with you ok.Hope you enjoy your day.
@sexybeast (67)
• Philippines
17 Feb 12
i have a three year old daughter. my wife can't control her. i don't know what's ur situation but the way i see it, it's because my wife has little time for our daughter. she works monday-friday and studies on a saturday. she does home in the evening and either she's doing more work or go straight to sleep as she is already tired. my little girl can't be controlled at times because she's crying for attention!
