my husband said i am fat

To that i agree my friend. Perhaps the staff maybe just exaggerated , because she saw my groceries of food and thought that i would again be eating them all and afraid that i might really get fat. No, i will not allow myself to be fat, so i do ways to trim down already.

Oh! a typo,standard weight must be height-1.05m (kg.)You are right! you do know how to take care of yourself.

Yes, professor it's just 3 pounds, but i have now been doing some rice reduction intake and have been taking my additional assignment seriously. My additional assignment is to go up and down the stairs of second to third floor where my boss decided to have her office. I embraced it so happily because i get to go up and down the stairs a lot of times in a day, to have some concerns discussed with my boss and to have her sign and approve them also. Since, Jan. 24 when it started my stomach has lost some fats and have at least lost the small bulge (stored fat). It's really the Christmas holidays that made me have those added pounds.

Well, to be honest, i don't have a problem, losing some pounds, because my body seem to be so responsive of how i do in order to lose weight. I cut on my rice and have more movements. At work, i am happy that my new assignment makes me go up and down the stairs of second floor, where i am at my boss' office and to her other office on the third floor, to discuss some concerns , bring documents for her signature and approval. Actually, my body seems like a yoyo that can easily grow fat and grow thin. And my husband should not worry, because i myself don't want to be bigger or fat.

Yes, syoti , having lots of movement such as walking is a sure way to re-shape again. In fact, my additional assignment at work , requires me to go up and down the stairs, so it was to my benefit. Thus, i now have a leaner stomach, because the added poundage seem to go to my stomach.

Well, i am glad that at least i came to know of his opinion about me. Though, if i haven't chanced upon her staff, i wouldn't know it because he isn't telling me. Though, there are times when he saw me eating so well, he would joke that i might grow so big! Well, now i am at least losing those fats around my tummy already, because it's where those fats went. I cut on rice and does a lot of going up and down the stairs because of my additional assignment from my boss.

I don't actually get offended by her remark, because she's a close friend to us. And i took it as just a warning for me to stop eating so much, so i won't get fat. And i really took the warning seriously, because i started dieting and having more movements after that. Now i am slowly losing the fats that seem to make my stomach bulge.

I know even from when we were just newly married that he doesn't like fat women. He would even joke that if i grew to be so big, he would leave me. So i maintained my being on the lean side. It's just that rich foods are abundant during the Christmas holidays, so i added some pounds and they seem to gather around my stomach. So i know, he's meaning that, but just can't say it to me. Anyway, because of that i really did some dieting. In addition, it's a blessing in disguise that the additional assignment given to me by my boss, requires me to go up and down the stairs , for documents intended for her will be discussed by us , signed and approved. Hence, i had my needed movements. At least now, i have lost some pounds and my stomach isn't bulgy anymore.

Yes, i know that. He really doesn't want to offend me so he just kept silent about it. Though, there are times that he would joke me like " go on eat and eat or else you will be like a whale". And i took the cue about me being "fat", because i started moving a lot at work and eating lesser rice after that. Now, i am slowly shedding the unwanted fats on my tummy.

Our husbands really don't want to hurt our feelings, so they won't say to us directly that we are already fat. But sometimes through their jokes, you will know that they already see us as fat. And from there we can take the cue, that it's time to start dieting.

Yes, i know that he doesn't want to hurt my feelings by telling me directly. And i appreciate him for considering my feelings. However, i find it nicer if he could have told me directly, even in a jesting manner. Well, that's a wake up call for me, because now i am bent in losing those added poundage.

Actually, i wasn't hurt at all when her staff told me that. Maybe she just wanted to emphasize that i did gained a lot of weight from my former self, that's why she used the term fat. And maybe that's what my husband is also trying to imply to her, but not necessarily fat. Because if my husband finds me fat, he really would prevent me from eating so much already. He would even tell me to eat, whenever i say that i am still hungry after dinner. But yes, i am now trying to lose some fats particularly in my tummy area. Other than that, i must say i am not yet "fat".

Actually, i am just a bit rounded on my trunk, but my extremities are not. That's why, i look taller than my actual 5'3.5 height and over all still look on a bit lean side. Though, i guess my husband can say that, because i was formerly really on the slim side when we started being married. I don't really get hurt by him saying that, but was just surprised that he finds me fat already. But i take it as a constructive criticism, so i am more or less dieting & walking more to lose some fat. It's a good thing that my additional assignment now, requires me to go up and down the stairs of the second floor to the third floor , where my boss now always stays, for documents to be discussed , signed and approved by her.

Actually, for me i am not fat. Just a little heavier from my former skinny self of 100 pounds. And i like the added flesh making me voluptuous. I know my husband finds me fat, because i was formerly skinny. But it doesn't mean i don't look good anymore to him, because i always see his admiring looks whenever i am dressed for the office or to go out or even in my house wear of shorts and sleeveless shirts. But when he wouldn't even glance at me anymore , then i know that i am already indeed fat. And yes, my friend, i am skinny compared to your 160 lbs.

Well, their statement didn't bother me much. I know for myself that i am not that "fat". It's just a little trimming that i will have to do and in fact, i have shed some already, since it was brought up by her staff. I took it as constructive criticism. It motivated me to move a lot so i will shed those additional poundage.

Well, i wasn't stressed about it actually, because i know i have added some poundage indeed. I was so skinny when i was still single and when i gave birth i started gaining poundage and people keep saying i am sexy. My husband must have said that because he saw me from beinng skinny to being voluptuous. But , i guess i really have to make myself a bit thinner now.