Have You Found Love In Chatroom?
By woolscupiee
@woolscupiee (185)
Philippines
February 18, 2012 11:16pm CST
Many of the women in my country use chat rooms to find their partner in life. I don't know if finding Mr/Ms. Right is simple in chat rooms. I don't have any experience about taking serious conversations in chat rooms. One thing which makes finding the right person in the internet is the true identity. And what I found more interesting is the willingness of the two persons to meet no matter how far they are from each other. Is it true also that it's easy to fall in love just by chatting only?
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14 responses
@lovelysofie (294)
• Indonesia
19 Feb 12
Yes i think its possibble if easy fall in love just by chatting.Its happend with me.First time i only chat with him,and then he come to my country and we meet each other,Now he back to his country and we have plan will marry in November.But for first time dont too serious when talk in chat coz sometimes many lier there.But am lucky coz i found honest and good man to me.
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@woolscupiee (185)
• Philippines
19 Feb 12
Wow, nice to her your story. I hope that you will be happy together. It's a sign already that He is sincere about his feelings for you. Who would in their right mind will travel miles and miles just to play around with girls. Your so lucky to find someone like Him:)
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@lovelysofie (294)
• Indonesia
19 Feb 12
Yep u know,for first time am not believe it,coz i think many lier in chatting.But when he come to meet me i can believe it.Thanks for your wish for me.Nice to meet you here.Have great sunday for you.
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
19 Feb 12
0h you good luck lovelysofie,
who is that lucky which you love with him, please you can tell me to whom you love, you said many lier in chat, then you will like to say that who that is who use to lie with you please?
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
19 Feb 12
Woah that is really complicated. But well I have heard about people meeting their husband/wife through chatting. Personally, I don't think it will work for me. I wanted to know someone personally and it will be difficult for me to fall in love to someone I can only talk to on chat.
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
19 Feb 12
hi friend,
I am very sad that i fell in with a girl but may i am in wrong i like here and want to merry with but as i see her discussion i like so that may be she love with other not with me but she promised with me please if you can contact i will show her name?
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
19 Feb 12
I have go through your discussions already and found out that you are a married man. So spare the lady. She deserved other guys.
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
20 Feb 12
hi, But now i have not mean now i am separate. and like other, I spare that when she not want me and she should deserve other guys if she like.
@girl_thinking (1959)
• Philippines
4 Mar 12
Hi, it never happened to me before but I was in somewhat the same situation. I met a guy online through blog. I had an account in Xanga before and I happened to got to his page and I commented in one of his entries. He then commented back on my page and that is when our "friendship" started. It is technically not love in chatroom type but it is sort of that nature. Girl and Boy met online and found a special friendship.
So yeah, it is possible to find someone in the internet though we just have to be very careful because we never know whom we are dealing with. Bad people just love messing up the world.
@5mahi05 (666)
• India
19 Feb 12
i do not believe in this cult of finding the partner for your life by just chatting on some site. Life is not a game to play around with relationships. i mean, there are all possibilities for something wrong to happen. may be some find true partners, but that is a very rare case. Most of them are there just to some flirting and for friends with benefits sort of the thing.
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@woolscupiee (185)
• Philippines
19 Feb 12
You have a good point there, some do take advantage of it. What I found so funny yet interesting is that older girls around 30's and older are making these chat rooms as their last recourse for finding Mr. Right. Oh no, my keyboard is messing with me. Sorry for some lines that you did not understand.
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
19 Feb 12
hi Woolscupiee,
I have love much here a girl i like her and we both promised with merry. But now she not want to chat with me. i dont kow why? and i have now doubt that she select any other now as it appear from her response. Now i feel very sad that why she doing so with me.
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
20 Feb 12
hi woolscupiee,
Thank you, that you give suggestion for my love with sofie, i not want that she not response to my message, so do so as she want, but the matter is that at one response she give that there more lire in chatting. therefor i say that she was told me that you visit here in Indonesia and i will merry with you. but when i saw her to giving you a response that many lire here chatting. then it make me very sad that she self inviting to their country for merry and then she mentioned that one man come their country Indonesia to meet her and now she said that i like him and i will soon merry in December soon. NOW i say that she self lire. and if she not want i don't want also him. But don't use lire to other here in mylot
@woolscupiee (185)
• Philippines
19 Feb 12
I hope that good things will come your way soon. If that girl doesn't want to response to your message anymore after several attempts, then you may consider to moving on. There's no use in hoping for someone that didn't want to communicate with you. I hope that you will find the right woman for you.
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@Rochaten (166)
• Portugal
19 Feb 12
I think nothing is impossible!But in my particular case, I think it is absolutely impossible for me to love someone just by talking in the chat.For love there is need personal contact,see, feel! Things that do not allow a chat. The virtual contact is good, but is not effective on deep emotions! A person may feel a certain attraction to someone in the chat but do not feel love!
@soulist (2985)
• United States
20 Feb 12
I used to think the same way. I never thought I could fall for someone through chatting. I met my current boyfriend online and we chatted online and through text. It was his personality and his viewpoint on life that I fell in love with. Then when we met in person there was already a connection and it made the physical connection better if that makes sense.
@soulist (2985)
• United States
20 Feb 12
It wasn't so much as in a chat room, but we met on a dating website. We began messaging in through email and began chatting through text messaging then we called and finally we met. IT was amazing. We would have serious conversations about anything and everything we could think of and we still have those kinds of conversations. I couldn't be happier.
@tipay26 (867)
• Philippines
19 Feb 12
Yes, it's possible.I am a chatter myself and I have a regular chatroom which I visit everyday.We have formed a family in the chatroom where in we can exchange topics, meet new friends and even see each other in person too.Actually finding a partner in chatrooms is a bit risky.It's easy to have a boyfriend/girlfriend online but it's up to you if you want to make your relationship from chatrooms or online into real ones.There are some chatters who found love online and in chatrooms and they ended up marrying each other.I guess it depends on the person too.Just be careful in giving out informations about yourself.There are bad people too on chat. :)
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
20 Feb 12
Hai friend....
I have experience...I found a good person through chatting..But there is some family problems between us..So We have to forget every thing..Thanks
@winston90 (296)
• Romania
19 Feb 12
Wow, there sure is a serious deficit of real men in the Philipinnes, isn't there?
Or there are somany, that you can not make the right choice and you give up?
Anyways, caht rooms are something that doesn't get you too far. What love can that be to someone taht you have just spoken a few word, you don't know how they look, and most important, you can not see their face expression, to tell if they mean what they say, or just lie to get by.
I think you should try real life instead of chatting, says the guy to afraid to ask any girl in real life to a real date.
@juggal0Xx420 (509)
• United States
19 Feb 12
couldnt say i fell inlove in a chatroom with someone but i did make some good friends from myspace chatrooms when they had it up :p and i dont know i've only fallen inlove face to face with the person i fell inlove with lol
@Darkhoppa (97)
• Italy
19 Feb 12
In my opinion it depends from which kind of chat.
If it's a chatroom dedicated entirely on "meeting soulmates" or this kind of stuff then well... it would be a kind of forced thing, you know.
Otherwise, if it's another kind of chat, when you don't aim to find soulmates but chat, for example, about your favorite stuff (anime, games, whatever) and then be surprised about finding someone which shares your same interests, this can be the "trigger" to make you fall in love with that person.
So answering to your question: Yes, I think it's easy to fall in love by just chatting, and what is more important, you fall in love with her/his personality which is the most important thing, Apparence is secondary, that's the key to a beautiful relationship.