i've lost my friend again !!
By carolin1e
@carolin1e (97)
February 19, 2012 10:21am CST
hi mylotters!!
i used to think that friends are gift ! and that without them life sucks !! ,i used to try finding hem so hard and make them feel happy all the time even if that was against my interst or my personal happiness , i used to love , to respect and to hold , i used to TRUST , i used to be DUMB ! i used to give and don't wait for anything ! BUT what's the result , trason ,sellout , unrespect , waste of time and feelings, hurt , and so so many owful stuffs , i just want to understand why ? why to be that foul , dirty and grubby with people that love and repect you ? why to be unfaightful with that person who can fight the wholw world for you ? is that normal ? am i the fool to trust ? did i make mistake just because i want to have one friend , just one ?
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5 responses
@juggal0Xx420 (509)
• United States
20 Feb 12
some people will pretend to be your friend cause you have something they want so they fake they're way into your life and try making it to that thing they want but if things don't go the way they wanted it then the true side of them will come out and when this usually happens you will no longer be friends with them so therefore they weren't your friend and if this has happened to you just shrug it off and move on in life knowing that you are a better person cause you don't do what they have done to you.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
20 Feb 12
They are not your true friends if you have so much turmoil and dissapointment with their treatment of you back and the outcome of it. Time to just try somewhere else to find better friends and hope for the best that they are not the same. There are too many people in the world to just feel like just one or two control your moods or happiness.
@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
20 Feb 12
Hello carolin1e,
It happens in life with everyone whom we trust and think to be our friend sometimes turn out to be nothing for us.
I have gone through this phase but now i don't make too many friends and judge a person before making him/her my friend.
Its not that easy but you need to judge a person before you accept someone as a friend otherwise that may turn out to be another person to betray you.
I have gone through this phase but now i don't make too many friends and judge a person before making him/her my friend.Its not that easy but you need to judge a person before you accept someone as a friend otherwise that may turn out to be another person to betray you.
@vt689586 (584)
• India
19 Feb 12
yeah you are very right friends are like soul and losing a friend is very painful.sometimes making a good friend is also very important.because if we makes friend for any need then it is not a real friendship.
and sometimes people use us for their need and we believe that they are our friend but they are not.and that type people hurts us
