shut uuuuup !!!
By carolin1e
@carolin1e (97)
February 19, 2012 12:11pm CST
hi dear friends !!
today i've met a new girl , but she's not an ordinay girl , she's the kind who like to make benefits not only from her friends but from all her environnemnt ,because it hasn't been a long time i know her but she tried to take advange from me and make me do "a lot " of favors for her !! she talks a lot and doesn't give me a chance to say anything , she can bother any human being with her hursh words , she lies , she hates and i just could see that on her big eyes , at a certain moment i just want to scream on her face and say shup up please !
so have you ever met such person ? and how can deal with them ?
have a nice day
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6 responses
@GemmaR (8517)
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19 Feb 12
I have a friend who is a little bit like this, and I have to say that I do everything that I can within my power to stop my other friends from inviting him out with us because he is just unbearable to be with at times. He will insult any of us who seem to be getting more attention that him at the time, because he thinks that he is clever for doing so even though none of us think that he is either funny or clever in the slightest. You should tell her how you feel about her, otherwise she will think that she can carry on walking all over you like she has been doing in the past.
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@carolin1e (97)
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19 Feb 12
hi gemmar , how are you /?
let me tell you that you did the right thing and that girl is not even my friend or collegue she's a person that i try to stay away from , thank you for being here and have a nice day
@nhailojaye (207)
• Philippines
15 Mar 12
in dealing with this kind of person, you just have to talk to her calmly. tell her that people also get tired and that its not good for a girl like her to be like that. tell her that its not nice to be coined as a "parasite". remind her that not all people understand her, just like you as a newly met person, tell her that she should use her words properly and screened them. but remember to always keep you cool... good luck to you! :)
@maezee (41988)
• United States
19 Feb 12
I think the only way you can handle these folks are in small, small doses. My cousin is like this. She drives me crazy if I'm out with her for longer than an hour or two. These types of people clash with my personality. Or maybe everyone's. I don't know. I just know a few people like that, who never shut up - and ALWAYS are talking about themselves (whether it's truth or not) and it drives me nuts. Its like, could you be more self-centered and annoying?
@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
20 Feb 12
I wouldn't care how pretty or how big her blue eyes are. It sounds like she is a trouble maker and has very bad character. It doesn't sound like anyone would like her if she lies and hates and all that and then talks non stop and doesn't want to hear what anyone else has to say. I wouldn't want to be around her, so I wouldn't.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
20 Feb 12
My friend would lie about something he is not. He would brag about something that he has no ability to achieve, but he still lie to save his sorry - As* face. But I still tolerate him since he didn't take advantage of me. He just need to brag about everything that he is good at everything, but in reality, he had done nothing significant yet. I would sometimes want to yell at his face, "Shut up", enough of those bulls, but I just swallow it back and not let it out, since he is my friend.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
2 Mar 12
It is really hard to deal with them. What I did was I just ignore her and stay away from her until she noticed that I don't really like her anymore. From that point she realizes something and she have changed but not a lot.
