gf/bf is leaving...

I would be very sad and maybe depressed because I love my girl friend so much I don't want to live my life without her. I would be super sad and eventually get over it but it would take a long time.

Are you breaking up with him or her or where is he going? I will probably feels hurt if he decides to break up with me but if he is going to work abroad or something like that I would not be worried so much since I know I can still be able to see him later on.

thats right it was sad and make hurt for a people when their lover left them... but life must goes on we must believe there are a better things when she or he left you

Well it depends on the reason why is he leaving me? if he said that he is leaving me because he doesn't love me anymore definitely i would feel sad and hurting like torn into pieces but that's not the end of it all... it's hard but you have to pick up your self and be whole again, accept the fact that sometimes people just come and go and if they can move on with their life then you must do the same. Believe that there is someone out there better for you.No need for you to be sad because everything happens for a reason.

Like any relationship, the initial tears and upset are to be expected. I would give myself a certain amount of time to grieve, then after that, get myself back up and move on.

In times like this, just remember that this too will pass. You have lived up until now. You surpassed many obstacles just to reach where you are in your life right now. A boyfriend or a girlfriend leaving is only another obstacle and I know you can surpass it too. At first, it hurts so much that you will think can't do it anymore. Just remember that you are not alone. There are still your friends and family with you. With their help, you can handle all the things that is thrown to you by the break-up. Then some day, you will be the one that is really for you.

I have experienced that once. I was totally devastated at that time. Really found it hard to cope up because that was my first time to experience a heartache. I had my friends and family with me to take care of me and make me happy. I completely moved on several months later.

the first time my boyfriend told me that he'll be leaving i mean he planned working abroad (we're from the Philippines) i felt that the whole world was fallen down on me. i was relieved when he told me he changed his mind(he's my hubby now).