Is Joined family system is better.....
By neha_khan
@neha_khan (1802)
Pakistan
46 responses
@neha_khan (1802)
• Pakistan
21 Nov 06
u r right
wht abt u lotself,,, looking u r also belong to a joint family system
Thanks for reply
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@neha_khan (1802)
• Pakistan
21 Nov 06
u r right
wht abt u lotself,,, looking u r also belong to a joint family system
Thanks for reply
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@ashuaaaaa (783)
• Germany
21 Nov 06
i am from joint family system and my view is that they are much better than nuclear family though they have their own share of problems.
my friends are from nuclear family and i can see that they dont have anyone to share their problems with their parents. they look for friends outside the family and in process go against family.
while in joint families like mine there are so many people i can trust in and thus dont have to look for anyone outside the family. here i will like to say that joint families are bit chaotic as there is lot of groupings. but i will say that to form groups is to be human.
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@neha_khan (1802)
• Pakistan
21 Nov 06
ya i have also friends whcih belongs to nuclear family and they cant share their problems with anyone in the family...
thnaks for res
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@neha_khan (1802)
• Pakistan
22 Nov 06
how can u say not good
can u tell us its drawbacks..
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@freedompiyush (330)
• India
22 Nov 06
as far as i think..... it was much better in past.... coz in past peoples agreed wid all the principles given to them.... every member knows his/her role but today peoples dont accept it easily so the concept of joint family is not good for today.....
@mamhusni2004 (2)
• Sri Lanka
21 Nov 06
I think only the Joined family system is good. i also love that bcoz im already in. but the most important thing is protecting it. when childrens get married only the problem starts. i like to tell that we should protect Joined family system \
@neha_khan (1802)
• Pakistan
21 Nov 06
u r thinking in right way and ur thinking is so positive ,, we should protect this system ...but how ... our new genration is fed up from it.....
thanks for suggestion
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@swarn47 (1706)
• India
21 Nov 06
Joint family system is certainly better but it is loosing ground due to so many reasons. These days the women are more ambitious, they dont prefer joint family system. When a newly married woman comes in the home, she wants to rule the husband and that is her right also, but if they stay in a joint family the husband is more or less ruled by his parents. If the new couple does not depart the dilemma starts for the husband either to go this side or that. Ultimately he is bound to choose and most of the husbands take wife's side. Thus joint family system is not being preferred due to the unnecessary and unwanted interference of the elders. If the elders can control their interference, this system will start gaining ground again. This is what I feel.
@neha_khan (1802)
• Pakistan
21 Nov 06
yes u right wen a women got married she wants to rule but in this system it is difficult ,,, besides this it has many advantages too which these girls cant recognized , anyhow thanks for better response...
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@kage2k3 (1443)
• India
24 Nov 06
Ya i agree with him. But elders only interfere for the better of both, son and his wife. But the woman thinks that elders are interfering, they want to take control of her husband. And in between all this the poor husband is ruined. For him its a condition like choosing between his Breath and Heartbeat.
@swarn47 (1706)
• India
30 Nov 06
I agree to u some extent, that elders interfere for the benefit of both but what I have experieced is something different. Elders interfere to maintain their authority in the home. They are least willing to delegate the authority. They keep on finding minor errors even just for no use. I have seen many marital relations which got disturbed just because of elders interference. Elders interfere to keep themselves more secured also. Taunting for nothing is the fashion of the day. They misuse their elderness many times. If elders want the revival of Joint family system, they shall have to stop their interference. Otherwise this system will keep on deteriorating.
@neha_khan (1802)
• Pakistan
25 Nov 06
R u mad u how can u say joint family system is not good ,, u have any reason...
@naeemasad (231)
• Pakistan
21 Nov 06
Joint Family system is far better, IN joint family system I think you live more happily, you can enjoy life most, If there is some one happy in your family due to some reason it can bring the happiness to whole family.
@neha_khan (1802)
• Pakistan
21 Nov 06
ya in joint family system u are more secure than the other u will have guided every where and these systms are better ever..
thanks for response
@neha_khan (1802)
• Pakistan
21 Nov 06
i m aslo realted to a joint family system and happy and i cant understand why the some people against this sytem.. thanks for reply..
@luckyjohn (169)
• Pakistan
13 Jan 07
yes ofcors joint family system is better than seperate family system..
@lastwish (779)
• India
22 Jan 07
no i dont dont think join family is better i would prefer nuclear family...
