What's Ur Opinion About Chat Love???
By Dassodils
@Dassodils (2010)
India
February 20, 2012 3:21am CST
Hai like to know that your opinion about chat love???One of my friend fall in love with a chat friend...They are good lovers..Is this possible???I don't know..Do you have any experience???They didn't seen directly..Then why they became so close???
Waiting for your reply...Thanks in advance
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23 responses
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
20 Feb 12
Hi,
Have you seen the the movie - Mummy & Me (the Malayalam cinema) acting Suresh Gopi & Boban Kunchako. If not, try for it. The online chat's first looks is to get the other person's mind and try to bring the other party close to us. Many are doing it and all are getting exploited.
The reason is that all are doing so confidentially and they don't know each other. This will lead to immediate attraction and exploit. There is a belief that all online chatting will finally go out of morale and it is true upto 99%. But I am sure that I can hold any kind of friendship for a life time.
The only pre-requiste is, we should shape our mind in such a way that we are matured and not to exploit other with whom we trust.
Thank-s
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@Dassodils (2010)
• India
20 Feb 12
Hai friend..
Are you malayali???I like that film very much..According to me, That's thrilling..I will not become as a girl like archana kavi-Juel..Thanks
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
20 Feb 12
Yes, I am from Cannanore (Kannur). Yes, we won't like that of Jewel. But there are a lot of things to learn from that movie. In fact, that film gives us a lot of lessons and proper guideliens. We never accept anything directly from this, we need to analyse and think what the message the movie gives. Thank your for your understanding and please be like a good friend.
Thank-s
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@Dassodils (2010)
• India
20 Feb 12
I don't like that...Thanks for suggestions..I will be your good friend
@BashFeri1 (47)
• Serbia And Montenegro
20 Feb 12
Its possible as long as the two don`t meet. While you chat with someone who you haven`t met yet you imagine the chat partner by the way he uses words, emoticons and other stuff.
Have you ever heard a sports commentator or a movie narrator and you imagined him and then when he appeared he did not have the physique that you imagined.
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@sunil_goel007in (62)
• India
27 Mar 12
yes dear!
i am experienced,
a few years ago, i got (and she too) with a girl though we never even chatted, we rather emailed each other..
she send her pics and bio-data to my family, though we decided to apart later.
actually, i think , everybody is in search of like minded views and somewhat dissatisfied with his/her current surroundings, this drags them,,,
it has both its pros and cons.. as u can imagine..
by the way, whats the meaning of "dassodils"??
i'v eheard abt daffodils, ye uski behan hai kya?
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@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
28 Sep 12
hi,
that chat love really happen in real because i have experienced it too when i had a chat mate from other country,i was really fall in loved with that guy because of his words every time we chat,but then that love suddenly begone without knowing,i just never came back online.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
20 Feb 12
hello -- it is possible. Yes. in love people forget who they are what they are and what they want and fall in love blindly.
I know you will find my observation similar to that of your parents --conservative. People who chat if they really communicate what they think then it is ok. Many cases chat loves result in disaster -- boy and girl get married and thereafter boy has no job or money and marriage fails.
Be careful in deciding about issues based on chats.
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@rollylolly (2843)
• India
20 Feb 12
It is possible just as we fall in love with filmstars . We may not always meet them in person but their words and pictures make us fall in love . But tell your friend to make sure that the person is genuine as we see in many cases people are deceived on the internet .
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@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
20 Feb 12
Well, sometimes continuous communication is one factor why chatmates do fall in love with each other, I do not have any experience on this, maybe it because I believe presence is far more important in a relationship, and I guess i can't love someone without seen him or even touching him..
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@soulist (2985)
• United States
20 Feb 12
I fell in love with the man I met online. We chatted for a few months online then began texting and finally called one another and I fell for him before i met him. When I did meet him it was perfect. My heart dropped like a ton of bricks and I knew he was the man for me and I couldn't be happier.
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@celticeagle (168126)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Feb 12
I really think a smart person much keep their guard up online. I have met several men online and they have always turned out to be disappointments. I think a person really needs to guard themselves and not fall until they have meant the person and know for sure they are who they say they are.
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@tipay26 (867)
• Philippines
20 Feb 12
Yes it is possible to find a boyfriend or a girl friend on chat but be very careful dear there are still bad guys online.I am a chatter myself and to tell you honestly I met my present boyfriend thru chat. :) We are both chatters and we share a group of common friends that's why we know each other.We saw each other a couple of times now and it was okay.We always chat, talk on the phone and sometimes, we see each other too.
@sardonyx777 (450)
• Philippines
20 Feb 12
Constant communication with someone in the internet have higher tendency to develop feelings. Chatting seems talking straight from the heart.This is why many got deceived and fooled specially innocent and beginners online. Like me, i have loved someone whom i met in other site. Just be rest assured that head is placed on top of the heart.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Feb 12
My husband and I met through chatting online. We fell in love with each other before ever meeting. When we finally did meet we knew we were soul mates. We have been together for 8 years now and married for 7 years. =)
It is real and possible!
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@jennigoff33 (332)
• United States
20 Feb 12
I think it depends on what people are looking for. In some cases I would say yes it could happen, this could help ease the tension of not knowing anything if they were to meet. I have heard on several occasion individuals find texting to be more personal than talking on the phone because some people share more of their feelings without even realizing it.
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@hunibani (720)
• Philippines
20 Feb 12
It is possible. I am currently so in love with my 'CHAT LOVE' lol. Distance doesn't matter. We've been together for almost 3 years now and we haven't met yet. Which is sad but we are trying to see each other soon. Hopefully everything goes well.
We love and we are so in love with each other he-he. Everything is possible with love even distance couldn't stop it.
@rosesthorns14 (803)
• Philippines
22 Feb 12
Hi Dassodils! Yes it's possible. I have been there before. I've met my significant other through the internet, specifically in the game site. A little introduction at first and then later we exchanged Yahoo IDs and continued our communication there. Months later we fell in love with each other, we dated in person and now we have a one year old daughter. Later this year we're planning to get married.
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
25 Feb 12
Hi Dassodils: I just can say that is possible that people fall in love just by chatting but this is the first step. There are so many ways to get love and as long as people communicate with themselves and are honest in their relationship things can work out.
ALVARO
@sourabharoy1992 (730)
• India
22 Feb 12
In my focus chat love cannot possible because love means herat to heart not gadget to gadget.