Steps To A Happy Life

i agree with this one. it is one of the several steps to happy family life. there are people who want to mess with our lives. they offer temptations, distractions and disappointments in our lives. we should find every energy to avoid and prevent them from coming into our lives. they may look very enticing and attractive at first, but they bring bad luck and negative energy into our lives.

I strongly agree with you! I know how it feels when you are affected by other people because I used to see so many reps for the past few years. Yes. I worked in call center. Most of my coemployees cannot hold their temper and always yelling at our customers. How can they manage to do that? They put the customer on hold, sometimes, they pressed the mute button and in a matter of seconds, they cursed the customer. I am not that kind of person who will keep grudges in my heart. I also worked for a chat support account. This is worse compare to the outbound/inbound calls that I handled. In this account, all reps are free to say anything they want because the other rep whom they are chatting with cannot hear what they are saying. Sometimes, my coemployees will hit the keyboard so loud that all of us will be shocked, others will resort to hitting the mouse. We're so lucky that we have nice supervisors who understand this kind of issue. But if our Business Manager or Country Manager will see this kind of behavior, I am sure, they'll be suspended for a week or two, worse, they'll be terminated. I do not know why I never do the same thing. I always understand them. These reps whom we're chatting with are talking to our customers on the phone. Meaning to say, they have more tasks to do. So in case there's a problem with the chat or in case the rep didn't provide me complete information, I always understand and ask for more in a very polite manner. People say that I am look younger than my age. Maybe because I always smile and never get affected by people who always want to ruin my day.

I do agree with you. Sometimes it's hard for me to be happy if it is dealing with other people. I tend to take everything people said to me or the way they treat me. I will be very sad if there's someone saui something bad or treat me bad, and I will keep thinking about it till I get the solution. it could be days or even weeks. I was so tired but I can't stop doing it. that's why it's difficult for me to get happiness. what you said in this discussion is so inspiring. thanks for sharing this good discussion..

IT's myself. There are times i make myself stressed over nothing, or being stressed by some petty matters. However these stress don't last long, and the moment i wake up the next day, everything is fine again. I'm not one to harp over things, carry over to next day. I don't know if that's a good thing or not because m bf once told me, it's a form of avoidance and the problem is never solved. Much as i tried to find someone who can make me really happy, at the end of the day when i'm alone, i start thinking again.

I live with happy family and friends. My family is always there when i need there support and they always listen to me when i need someone to talk too but even i have my happy life there are still some people that trying to ruin my life but i just ignore them, all i can say to them is what my friends telling to those people who hate them, and my friends tell to them 'You just know my name but you don't know my story'