Moving on fast, does it mean s/he didn't love you?
By hunibani
@hunibani (720)
Philippines
February 21, 2012 2:28am CST
Do you think s/he didn't love you that much, that is why s/he move on so fast than you?
14 responses
@sayo13 (414)
• India
21 Feb 12
well loving , not loving have nothing to do whether the person have moved ahead with his or her life.
i believe its the "practicality" and "the power of accepting life" as it comes that have nothing to imply that the person was actually not at all in love or that person did not love you that much.
At times you are so much hurt with your break -up that you tend to indulge in other work of your life and keep yourself highly engrossed most of the time .people are tend to progress more in life after facing a sudden setback in their life, it has been proved by the research.
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@yanzalong (18988)
• Indonesia
21 Feb 12
It doesn't necessarily follow that when one moves on fast, he/she doesnot love you.
I think you have to carefully find out the real reasons for him/her to move fast.
What do you think?
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
21 Feb 12
hello,
No, because they just dont want to feel the hurt anymore that is why they pretend to be happy even though they are not. It is not actually they already move on but it is like they wanted to be happy again and start of something new even without the person they used to have.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
21 Feb 12
Maybe that person didn't love. It's possible that an ex is using a new partner to help him or her move on. Or maybe it's just pretense. Maybe he is using a new partner to make an old partner jealous.
Can't tell, but that is possible. Some people can detach easily, especially if they haven't given much in their previous relationship.
@BashFeri1 (47)
• Serbia And Montenegro
21 Feb 12
Maybe the person does not like to be alone and needs affection. Others might wait for month or maybe years before they find another partner because they can`t get over the previous one. I think the best way of getting over someone is by dating someone else as soon as possible because you might even find someone better.
@nyang1984 (464)
• Philippines
21 Feb 12
maybe you're right that person maybe don't love his/her partner that much. that s/he can move on that fast.
i had a boyfriend before he can easily get a new girlfriend after or before ending a relationship.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
21 Feb 12
Hi,
Life is such that we have to act to get reacted. Especially when it comes to our close people. We are in the mid of fast life and to get someone's intimate attention and care, we have to give back as well. So if we got a feel of we require more love from the other side, we have to love most, which may lead them to love us more and more.
Thank-s
@pretty_lexie (74)
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
We as individual has our own different way in dealing with break ups.Some tend to deal with it more emotional than the other, while some were pretending to be ok in front of other while they were actually breaking inside.
I think the easy way to move on is acceptance, accept the fact that the relationship was over, & try to find ways to enjoy life.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
26 Feb 12
Most people, mostly men, can't be alone. It's proved that generall speaking men have a new gf within 3 months time, women 5 years time. I think this proves enough.
@Plovesmoney666 (57)
• United States
21 Feb 12
Sometimes people rather to move on fast , so they don't feel sad all the time and feel miserable , but deep down they still love you .
@juggal0Xx420 (509)
• United States
21 Feb 12
sometimes it can be just because they cant stand being single too long and have to be in a relationship and dont think it would work out with you again so they "move on" right away but that is just my answer.
@giannix (2)
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
Sean Kingston said, "nothing last forever" moving on fast is great but it doesn't mean s/he didn't love you.. It's just that s/he doesn't what to be affected because life is so short, life must go on. :)
@NMorris (6)
• United States
15 Mar 12
In general, YES. If you're referring to 'classic' romantic love.
every once in a blue moon, however, there are extenuating circumstances -- the person hasn't lived long enough to value what's best for them, they are feeling pressure from friends and/or family to 'move on' or 'focus on career', they are stuck in a 'party-life' mentality (sewing their wild oats while they can), or got pulled in by a new someone who resembled their first love (brain mapping... our first life experiences are powerful)... any of these and more can cloud their feelings.