Many of my friends wanna get married!!

Hi, sometimes problems really makes us shift into other things just to escape it. Before I wanna get married young to escape poverty, I wanna marry a foreign wealthy man but will love her back. Now I wanna marry my bf because I truly love him and we are in the right age, the problem is we are still not financially stable. Hope your friend find an option to escape her problem, marrying someone you don't know is not an option, it might create another problem.

That shouldn't be a reason to get married. She should try to solve the problem instead of avoid it. If she really get married because she wanted to leave the family due to the parents keep quarreling, and she married in hurry, she might regret it after she got married. It will need time to look for someone who is good and suit her. Think twice I would say.

I agree with you for the statement that "we all needs time to find the right person in our life". Rush to marry to get rid of the parents quarreling, may Lead to a failed marriage may regret it in the future.

Getting married is not a solution to escape from our family problem. I hope your friend is not going to rush. Yes, she can marry anytime, but I hope she won't rush getting a man just to escape from her family. Marriage is a lifetime commitment.

Marriage is a gift from God and therefore should be honored and not taken for granted. It should not be belittled nor taken lightly because it is a commitment that shouldn't be broken. And I don't think it is the answer to her misery, not unless she really does love and want to get married to the person; if not, then she should stay away from it and maybe just move out from their house to solve her problem.

Hello jricky1, Quarells in married life is just a common thing but to quarell in front of kids is really bad.It has bad impact on them as they just remember what they see.I remember a kid of my neighbor who always say that i am not going to marry because my father and mother daily fight and i don't want a marriage in which i will fight with my wife daily.Its good to see that your friends take that impact positiviley and want to get married.

a problem is not in any way helpful in escaping another problem. i'm not saying that getting married is a problem but it is getting married for the wrong reasons that creates a big problem. and if marriage becomes a problem, it is one of the hardest one to solve if it is even solvable. and by the way, no one can get rid of his own family. you may get married and live very far away but your family will always be connected to you whether you like it or not. you have to face the problem, don't run away and elope with somebody for you will always go back to your family.

Marrying just because you are avoiding something , won't give you a sure peace of mind. You would end up marrying somebody that you actually don't love, hence you will be in for more turmoil.

This thing really happens. A daughter would just elope or get married to be able to escape her parents' bickering. Little does she know that when one marries, because she is avoiding something and is not in love with the one who will marry her, it will in the end make her regret it. Thus, their marriage will eventually fail and she will be left crying. Never get married just because all your friends are.

A few of my friends have gotten married already as well. And I see them more happier than they were before. So looking at them I wanna get married too. I just wish I find my guy as well, who'll keep me happy and love me :)

Yeah a person should take a lot of time to make sure that they have found the right person. Even though she may want to get away from her parents quarreling she has to make sure she find s a person she is compatible with and that she can get along with or she will be the one quarreling with her spouse. A person has to take their time and really get to know someone.

getting married is not easy and if that partners are not that ready(in financial aspect and emotional aspect)there willingness to be bind as one. cause marriage is not a game that when one of them don't like it anymore they can just get out anytime both of them wants. and i agree with the last part of your discussion that we all need time to find the righ person. anyway getting married is not a race... Happy lotting! :)